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Hey everyone :)
I have been on this site for about 4 years (although not always active) and I must say this is the first time I have had a truly bad experience. I have already dealt with people who were clearly scammers, I've had the people who do not take no for an answer, just never to this extent. A man wrote me a couple of days ago with a joke about how he cannot dance either, I replied politely, laughed and told him welcome to the club. He asked for my name and the VERY NEXT message he sent me, he asked if we could talk on the phone. Naturally, I said no, but politely suggested we continue talking on mingle... which seems fair. He replied with a series of insults. I was called vain, racist, dishonest, unfair, egotistical. He got all that from the three one sentenced messages I have sent him. I didn't at all mind that he thinks I'm unattractive, everyone's perception of beauty is different, and I would never knock someone for having an opinion... but the fact that I was told ugly dark women like me tend to go for white men is highly offensive. Mind you, although open to it, I have never dated a white man. Anyway, I'm sure this isn't the first guy who flipped because he didn't hear what he wanted to hear, and this won't be the last one. I'm sure plenty women have experienced this. I was just venting |
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Nods*..
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If you're unattractive why did he want your name and number? Ignore him he sounds like a dingbat.
Unless he knows something I don't know... Do ugly racist girls have very soothing voices? Nah, I'm pretty sure he's an idiot. |
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  I agree with germanchocolate...total idiot. It's a reminder for me in keeping up the idiot radar! Thanks for sharing your experience..... |
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Hi ....... from the male part of the human race I truly wish to apologise for this low life scum. You are quite right to suggest further contact on the site rather than phone numbers etc etc.
Alas there are too may of these neanderthals about who think a belt on a head is still good form with a woman. And as side note I think you are lovely |
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It's a common occurrence when a weak, insecure man gets frustrated or angry or feels rejected, he resorts to cutting down the woman he desires. This happens quite often when a weak men can't handle rejection. He insults the woman to make her feel as bad as he feels. I don't tolerate it. I just call him on his cowardice and tell him I see right through him and that his insults have no effect on me. He feels his power to hurt shrinking away and he slinks away like the loser that he is.
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Hi ....... from the male part of the human race I truly wish to apologise for this low life scum. You are quite right to suggest further contact on the site rather than phone numbers etc etc. Alas there are too may of these neanderthals about who think a belt on a head is still good form with a woman. And as side note I think you are lovely I'm in full agreement with this gentleman and also apologize for the many rude people from other lands...... There is always that bad peck of apples.... But they seem to be from nowhere id live....
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It's frustrating. Having be on guard all the time. Trying to be polite and having to choose your words carefully 'cause you have no idea what's gonna set someone off here.
That guy is jerk and he did you a favor, he saved you time. Better you found out quickly he was not a nice person , than having wasted your time on someone who didn't deserve it. Good luck to you :) |
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They only have the power over you that YOU allow them to have,so just allow it to make you stronger and wiser,and before you know it,you'll probably be laughing SOOO hard to see what a joke they are,allow them to see that it doesn't bother you at all ,then then watch as they crawl away with their little tails between their legs,that's where you want them!
  
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For Tatilove:
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Your a attractive young woman and I am sure there are plenty of young men looking your way. That guy was a moron hit the block button and concentrate on the genuine, nice guys. Best of luck to you.
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Hey everyone :) I have been on this site for about 4 years (although not always active) and I must say this is the first time I have had a truly bad experience. I have already dealt with people who were clearly scammers, I've had the people who do not take no for an answer, just never to this extent. A man wrote me a couple of days ago with a joke about how he cannot dance either, I replied politely, laughed and told him welcome to the club. He asked for my name and the VERY NEXT message he sent me, he asked if we could talk on the phone. Naturally, I said no, but politely suggested we continue talking on mingle... which seems fair. He replied with a series of insults. I was called vain, racist, dishonest, unfair, egotistical. He got all that from the three one sentenced messages I have sent him. He cut you down because he is hiding behind a computer.. in real life he most likely would have shut his mouth and said nothing. He has internet muscles.. means nothing just a A-Hole.. just shrug him off I didn't at all mind that he thinks I'm unattractive, everyone's perception of beauty is different, and I would never knock someone for having an opinion... but the fact that I was told ugly dark women like me tend to go for white men is highly offensive. Mind you, although open to it, I have never dated a white man. Anyway, I'm sure this isn't the first guy who flipped because he didn't hear what he wanted to hear, and this won't be the last one. I'm sure plenty women have experienced this. I was just venting |
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No way pretty girl, you are gorgeous.
I've never been with a black girl either but if I was 20 years younger you and me would make some nice colours, and you just know it don't you lmao |
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Never mind,there are many of such wretch in this and other sites.Their stock in trade is insults;its not new to us old war horses in mingle2. Dont lose a sleep over that**** Black is beautiful anyday anywhere and anytime.Shalom
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Edited by
iammavis29
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Sun 03/01/15 05:47 AM
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Just IGNORE or BLOCK that ARSE person. He is not worth your time. YOU are BEAUTIFUL
Keep your head held up high. P.S. There are plenty of nice guys here. |
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Nods*.. Uh huh.....*nod-nod-nod*...Ouch, my neck hurts!  Happens a lot, but don't take it personally ((((Tat))))...It's his problem, not yours... |
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Just block that type.
There are unstable people everywhere. Just be thankful you met that 'gentleman' online, and not in person. Better luck in the future  
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It's a common occurrence when a weak, insecure man gets frustrated or angry or feels rejected, he resorts to cutting down the woman he desires. This happens quite often when a weak men can't handle rejection. He insults the woman to make her feel as bad as he feels. I don't tolerate it. I just call him on his cowardice and tell him I see right through him and that his insults have no effect on me. He feels his power to hurt shrinking away and he slinks away like the loser that he is. Well said..
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Nods*.. Uh huh.....*nod-nod-nod*...Ouch, my neck hurts! Happens a lot, but don't take it personally ((((Tat))))...It's his problem, not yours... Uh huh..agreed... ((((((leigh))))) #SherriePie 
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Nods*.. Uh huh.....*nod-nod-nod*...Ouch, my neck hurts! Happens a lot, but don't take it personally ((((Tat))))...It's his problem, not yours... Uh huh..agreed... ((((((leigh))))) #SherriePie Hiya sweetie "pie"  ...Glad you are feeling better!...I keep you in my thoughts always! 
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