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One Date Rule?!?
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2 dates.... I think... unless the first was just so horrible. I mean if he comes off as the type of prat that you wouldn't allow to be alone with your cat for five minutes... well then... there you go. Nerves can screw up a first date... I say try two.. just in case.... I suppose you are right.. I could try again.. If I am able.. He did seem anxious and did relay that to me before hand.. Thanks! You're welcome. You know. If you made him nervous... that's a good thing. He's taking you seriously. Being approached as something valuable is a good thing. It's not everything but it's a start. Goodluck. Lemme know if he's worth a second date. |
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Puppeteer.
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One Date Rule?!?
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2 dates.... I think... unless the first was just so horrible. I mean if he comes off as the type of prat that you wouldn't allow to be alone with your cat for five minutes... well then... there you go. Nerves can screw up a first date... I say try two.. just in case....
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consequences always exist ... even if the victims of some asshole's bad karma aren't around to see the payback.... the consequences come.
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The Paranormal.
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I hope we'll never know.
I like the mystery. |
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Toxic Plant
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Foxglove in the garden is dangerous for some. It's also digitalus. (heart medication ingredient) and can be lethal to small children and pets who might decide to snack.
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Both men and women can be cruel. We're human. Forgive.
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Would rather stay single
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Dating is fun and games are part of that fun. Everyone plays them. For example, playing hard to get is a game. As to the question of staying single, I want to remain un-married. But, I also want to meet someone speical. Not everyone plays games. I don't and I don't like being challenged on something as if I am playing hard to get. "No" means "NO" not "negotiate". It's NOT FAIR for someone to assume that you mean something else when you're being absolutely up front honest. When that happens... a date can leave a someone feeling bullied at the end of it. It's freaking exhausting. It's hard enough to go out and deal with the nerves of going on a date as it is .. just to be bullied the whole time. And people wonder why I get the hiccups? Maybe some people ARE playing games... but not everyone is because it is simply not fun. |
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Ready for a baby?
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Me myself give birth? oh hell no.
I would consider being a support for someone who already has children IF I HAVE TO but honestly... kids of my own... no way. I am sooo looking forward to menopause |
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courting...
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With an earful of the skyliners on repeat... I'm to blue to even imagine it.
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tips for a shy person....
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Don't waste your time on loyalty or sincerity..... think of it like furniture...sure it is great when it is new...nice when it is comfortable...and when it gets old...it gets replaced. If you are gonna date..do it cause it makes you happy. I don't want it if it's not about loyalty or sincerity |
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About to throw in the towel
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is it me or does some of these responses make others also feel like an alien?
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hopeless
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What would you choose?
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Hard question.
No compromise, eh? |
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Nope.
I don't drive. If I did drive... I wouldn't do it. |
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Not scared at all.
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I'm sick of dating
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So I met Sherra yesterday afternoon at Grand Central Station. She's never been to the city so I was going to be her tour guide. I researched the best/cheapest option for her to travel from New Rochelle to NYC. It was an $11.00 Metro-North train. I left my house with 3 hours to spare just in case there were delays because I didn't want her to arrive at GCS before me. Her train was 30 minutes late. We were KIT via text the whole time. I was pleasantly surprised to see her because she's really pretty/sexy and nice and has a Southern accent which I love. She had responded to an ad which I placed in both the platonic and M4W sections of craigslist. She happened to reply to the platonic one, but I could totally tell from our emails, chats and texts that she was sizing me up for a date. She LOVES tall guys. So from Grand Central Station we walk to Central Park and I take her to the Alice in Wonderland statue that's in the park. She has a thing for Alice in Wonderland and she has a large tattoo on her back. She's psyched! We take pix and what not. We proceed to walk and talk and all that jazz. It's a great day and we're having a lot of fun. To make a long story short, I take over and start paying for everything: the meal, all the drinks, the cab ride from NYC to Bayside to get our party on there. I can totally tell she liked me from the way she was looking at me. When I assured her that she'd be safe crashing at friends house and I wouldn't be all over her she said "that's ok cuz I'm going to rape you" =) Anyway, so we get to the bar and I direct her to the bathroom. She's taking a long time to return so I go to check on her. I see her at the bottom of the stairwell making out with some guy. Some short guy. Some nobody. Anyway my **** was hurting after that. I really felt like **** and I wanted to leave her ass in the dust, but I just couldn't do that. We cont. to party all night which was mad stupid on my part cuz I spent insane loot and this afternoon when we woke up I gave her my LIRR ticket to get to the city and directed her on how to go home from there. I'm sick of dating. -B that has got to be the lousiest thing I've heard in a while. |
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ADK Dating
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does it exist?
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About to throw in the towel
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I'm lost, I just do not get it. I truly believe NO ONE should settle but hell the pick'ins are thin. I know you women have to be as frustrated as some us men. Women want a good man. Hmmmm is that true? It seems all my women friends that are looking for a good man, they pick out the assholes. Hell I could see it coming before they did. Then they get all upset and do not understand. Then us men we all seem like hell we can do better, but why do we think this way? What makes us think and chose badly? An no offense and I truly truly mean that. But I totally like this site because you can put yourself next to the other person. I do not get it when someone wants to meet and it's like what were they thinking. Like I said I do not want to offend. But we are all human, there needs to be some attraction. Lend me your opinions and call it like it is, let it out. We're all here and we all date for different reasons. Some folks want sex. Some friendships. Some want to skip dating and go straight to relationship. Some want to just date and say no relationship. etc etc... the list goes on. It's like a child's "match" game. All you gotta do is try to find to like pieces and YAY! Happiness...... |
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Would rather stay single
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Than play the games that guys seem to want to play. I'm done. Can you be more specific? I know in my case, I'll tell someone a specific boundary like "I'm the type of person who says exactly what I mean" and then I get a guy who challenges that right away and over and over again. It's as if he's wanting to make me falter. (one of the reasons I stopped dating a few years ago.) Game playing isn't fun at all. Some people like it. I don't. I can tell you this though.... don't stop dating. I did and it's harder to start again. I'm so nervous about starting again I could just be sick over the idea. I know that sounds a bit hypocritical but you'll end up wasting a lot of years if you stick with the strict I'm not dating anyone anymore thing. |
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