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Topic: About to throw in the towel
jimmymac1966's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:08 PM
I'm lost, I just do not get it. I truly believe NO ONE should settle but hell the pick'ins are thin. I know you women have to be as frustrated as some us men. Women want a good man. Hmmmm is that true? It seems all my women friends that are looking for a good man, they pick out the assholes. Hell I could see it coming before they did. Then they get all upset and do not understand. Then us men we all seem like hell we can do better, but why do we think this way? What makes us think and chose badly? An no offense and I truly truly mean that. But I totally like this site because you can put yourself next to the other person. I do not get it when someone wants to meet and it's like what were they thinking. Like I said I do not want to offend. But we are all human, there needs to be some attraction. Lend me your opinions and call it like it is, let it out.

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Tue 05/19/09 08:11 PM
Choose wisely. drinker

galendgirl's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:12 PM
Edited by galendgirl on Tue 05/19/09 08:12 PM
...and post more than 7 times before you quit for good. (There are nice people here...seriously!)

markc48's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:13 PM
You haven't been here that long. Take your time.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:13 PM
Duct tape and a hammer and cloroform. Worked for ted bundy.

no photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:14 PM
Patience Grasshopper. slaphead

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:15 PM
Fake cast and passenger seat vw beetle optional. They didn't have tinted windows then.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:15 PM
I'll be honest...I only read this up until the asshole bit, then I just figured the rest to be another "nice guys finish last" rant...maybe I'm wrong, but such is life.

74Drew's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:15 PM
i know how it goes man.
women say they want a nice guy, but they really want an alpha male type who will treat them well.
the question is, what alpha male would need to treat women well? if the women give it to him so easily, why would he want to treat them like they're not disposable to him?

good luck to you.


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longhairbiker's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:16 PM
Roufinol.

no photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:18 PM
Edited by GeniuSxBoY on Tue 05/19/09 08:19 PM
If you have a buffet full of good food... you can't just pick your favorite item on the buffet without trying all the ones that appeal to you the most. (It's statistically possible you can, but it's like winning a "guess which cup has the ball resting under it" game) That is called Luck. Some people don't have luck and must use the scientific method.

Obviously if there is a dish with anchovies, you can pretty much pass over that one and save yourself some time. Even the most appealling dish could taste nasty, you never know until you try it.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:19 PM
Nice guys finish last. And give up first.

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Tue 05/19/09 08:19 PM

I'm lost, I just do not get it. I truly believe NO ONE should settle but hell the pick'ins are thin. I know you women have to be as frustrated as some us men. Women want a good man. Hmmmm is that true? It seems all my women friends that are looking for a good man, they pick out the assholes. Hell I could see it coming before they did. Then they get all upset and do not understand. Then us men we all seem like hell we can do better, but why do we think this way? What makes us think and chose badly? An no offense and I truly truly mean that. But I totally like this site because you can put yourself next to the other person. I do not get it when someone wants to meet and it's like what were they thinking. Like I said I do not want to offend. But we are all human, there needs to be some attraction. Lend me your opinions and call it like it is, let it out.


We're all here and we all date for different reasons.

Some folks want sex. Some friendships. Some want to skip dating and go straight to relationship. Some want to just date and say no relationship. etc etc... the list goes on.

It's like a child's "match" game. All you gotta do is try to find to like pieces and YAY! Happiness......

ReddBeans's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:19 PM
U've only been here for just over a month an only posted all of 7 times in the forums. This site is more about gettin to know people in the forums rather than browsin profiles.
Give urself some time an get into the forums. Get to know people an let them get to know u.shades

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:21 PM

Nice guys finish last. And give up first.


They stop in the middle of the race and complain that the "alpha male" is cheating...

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Tue 05/19/09 08:24 PM
When the going gets tough, the tough get going.

Dro_In_Indio's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:24 PM


Nice guys finish last. And give up first.


They stop in the middle of the race and complain that the "alpha male" is cheating...


Not true of all.

evian001's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:25 PM

...and post more than 7 times before you quit for good. (There are nice people here...seriously!)


i agree with her!

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:26 PM



Nice guys finish last. And give up first.


They stop in the middle of the race and complain that the "alpha male" is cheating...


Not true of all.


Why don't we have "alpha males" complaining? Because "nice guys" dig their head in the dirt and give up, plain and simple...then shoot some off notion that women don't like them because they are nice.

Nice guys do exist, and women love them...but they don't want some pushover.

alternativa's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:26 PM

I'm lost, I just do not get it. I truly believe NO ONE should settle but hell the pick'ins are thin. I know you women have to be as frustrated as some us men. Women want a good man. Hmmmm is that true? It seems all my women friends that are looking for a good man, they pick out the assholes. Hell I could see it coming before they did. Then they get all upset and do not understand. Then us men we all seem like hell we can do better, but why do we think this way? What makes us think and chose badly? An no offense and I truly truly mean that. But I totally like this site because you can put yourself next to the other person. I do not get it when someone wants to meet and it's like what were they thinking. Like I said I do not want to offend. But we are all human, there needs to be some attraction. Lend me your opinions and call it like it is, let it out.


Don't look so poorly upon your female friends. Just because the guy acts like a jerk around you and YOU can tell he's a jerk doesn't mean he's behaving the same way around her.

Some men act like "Prince Charming" while around the female he's trying to impress and get and then after he gets her (or what he wants from her) he stops trying to impress and lets his true colors show. Then she's left confused because she doesn't know what she did wrong to make him change into a beast.

Before anyone says anything... yes, women can be like that as well.

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