I'm lost, I just do not get it. I truly believe NO ONE should settle but hell the pick'ins are thin. I know you women have to be as frustrated as some us men. Women want a good man. Hmmmm is that true? It seems all my women friends that are looking for a good man, they pick out the assholes. Hell I could see it coming before they did. Then they get all upset and do not understand. Then us men we all seem like hell we can do better, but why do we think this way? What makes us think and chose badly? An no offense and I truly truly mean that. But I totally like this site because you can put yourself next to the other person. I do not get it when someone wants to meet and it's like what were they thinking. Like I said I do not want to offend. But we are all human, there needs to be some attraction. Lend me your opinions and call it like it is, let it out.

Choose wisely.

...and post more than 7 times before you quit for good. (There are nice people here...seriously!)

You haven't been here that long. Take your time.

Duct tape and a hammer and cloroform. Worked for ted bundy.

Patience Grasshopper.

Fake cast and passenger seat vw beetle optional. They didn't have tinted windows then.

I'll be honest...I only read this up until the asshole bit, then I just figured the rest to be another "nice guys finish last" rant...maybe I'm wrong, but such is life.

i know how it goes man.
women say they want a nice guy, but they really want an alpha male type who will treat them well.
the question is, what alpha male would need to treat women well? if the women give it to him so easily, why would he want to treat them like they're not disposable to him?

good luck to you.


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Roufinol.

If you have a buffet full of good food... you can't just pick your favorite item on the buffet without trying all the ones that appeal to you the most. (It's statistically possible you can, but it's like winning a "guess which cup has the ball resting under it" game) That is called Luck. Some people don't have luck and must use the scientific method.

Obviously if there is a dish with anchovies, you can pretty much pass over that one and save yourself some time. Even the most appealling dish could taste nasty, you never know until you try it.

Nice guys finish last. And give up first.

We're all here and we all date for different reasons.

Some folks want sex. Some friendships. Some want to skip dating and go straight to relationship. Some want to just date and say no relationship. etc etc... the list goes on.

It's like a child's "match" game. All you gotta do is try to find to like pieces and YAY! Happiness......

U've only been here for just over a month an only posted all of 7 times in the forums. This site is more about gettin to know people in the forums rather than browsin profiles.
Give urself some time an get into the forums. Get to know people an let them get to know u.

They stop in the middle of the race and complain that the "alpha male" is cheating...

When the going gets tough, the tough get going.

Not true of all.

i agree with her!

Why don't we have "alpha males" complaining? Because "nice guys" dig their head in the dirt and give up, plain and simple...then shoot some off notion that women don't like them because they are nice.

Nice guys do exist, and women love them...but they don't want some pushover.

Don't look so poorly upon your female friends. Just because the guy acts like a jerk around you and YOU can tell he's a jerk doesn't mean he's behaving the same way around her.

Some men act like "Prince Charming" while around the female he's trying to impress and get and then after he gets her (or what he wants from her) he stops trying to impress and lets his true colors show. Then she's left confused because she doesn't know what she did wrong to make him change into a beast.

Before anyone says anything... yes, women can be like that as well.