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Topic: Would rather stay single
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Sat 05/02/09 11:37 AM
Than play the games that guys seem to want to play. I'm done.

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Sat 05/02/09 11:38 AM
I rather stay single than play the games women play!!

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Sat 05/02/09 11:39 AM
Not all play games, you just haven't found the right one...


sometimes you have to take a look at the pattern, they types of guys you're picking, how you're acting... It's not always everyone else, sometimes we have to look into and at ourselves...

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Sat 05/02/09 11:42 AM
People tend to attract the same type of person over and over again...

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Sat 05/02/09 01:06 PM

People tend to attract the same type of person over and over again...


So there! Nah Nah!

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Sat 05/02/09 01:37 PM
Well, considering my dates are few and far between, it would hardly be "over and over". And it's more like the same type of guy picking me out, than me picking them.

whatever.......

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Sat 05/02/09 01:40 PM
It isn't just the men. It is women as well.

And they aren't ALL like that.

You just need to have patience and weed through them. There ARE some really good men/women out there. Be patient. It doesn't happen over night.

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Sat 05/02/09 01:42 PM
Yep, I agree. Lots of people, men and women, who are just not dateable.

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Sat 05/02/09 01:43 PM
if you have the same problem over and over with the guys you date, figure out what factor they all have in common. in most cases that would be you

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Sat 05/02/09 01:47 PM

Than play the games that guys seem to want to play. I'm done.


I've always found guys too simple to play games and I don't mean that in a negative way.

I find that they don't really think much further than the next few moments and game playing implies some sort of future plan.

They might use women for sex, but that can only happen if the woman allows herself to be used.

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Sat 05/02/09 01:47 PM
Edited by shebop on Sat 05/02/09 01:48 PM

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Sat 05/02/09 01:52 PM


Than play the games that guys seem to want to play. I'm done.


I've always found guys too simple to play games and I don't mean that in a negative way.

I find that they don't really think much further than the next few moments and game playing implies some sort of future plan.

They might use women for sex, but that can only happen if the woman allows herself to be used.


Maybe that's true with the men you have known, but I have known a couple who were quite calculating in their actions and words. Very manipulative.

Men may not play the same way women do, but they do play games. And, women do not only get used for sex when they allow it anymore than men allow it when they get used for their money or status. Sometimes you should know better, but some people are very good at getting what they want from another person.

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Sat 05/02/09 01:55 PM

if you have the same problem over and over with the guys you date, figure out what factor they all have in common. in most cases that would be you


If this statement were true than it would never be anyone's fault for relationships not working out. My ex had several relationships prior to ours. So did I. None of these ended up working out. So, who's at fault?

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Sat 05/02/09 01:59 PM
we tend to continually be attracted to the same type of people. that is what I meant

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Sat 05/02/09 09:22 PM

Than play the games that guys seem to want to play. I'm done.



It will get better. It just takes a long time sometimes. There really are some very sweet, kind, funny, awesome guys here... (and gals, too, if you are just looking for friends also).:thumbsup:

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Sat 05/02/09 09:56 PM

People tend to attract the same type of person over and over again...


God I hope not. In fact I know not, if you really put your mind to it.

You attract exactly what you portray. It's up to the person to make changes within if they want to attract something different. Otherwise, you are right.....you will be stuck with the same stuff just different day.

Here's to hoping we all can attract the kind of person we hope to! Quit being lazy people, get out there and be fabulous!

(ending pep talk now.....sorry.....flowerforyou)

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Sun 05/03/09 02:26 AM
I think the string started wrong sounds like I would rather stay alone. Not a great option, so hey you meet someone have fun with it and when it stops being fun walk away. drinker and guys play games just as hard as the women do.

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Sun 05/03/09 06:32 AM
I would rather stay single than play "games" with anyone.:tongue:

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Sun 05/03/09 07:27 AM


People tend to attract the same type of person over and over again...


God I hope not. In fact I know not, if you really put your mind to it.

You attract exactly what you portray. It's up to the person to make changes within if they want to attract something different. Otherwise, you are right.....you will be stuck with the same stuff just different day.

Here's to hoping we all can attract the kind of person we hope to! Quit being lazy people, get out there and be fabulous!

(ending pep talk now.....sorry.....flowerforyou)


:banana:

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Fri 05/08/09 09:00 PM
I believe I can still stay single, and have fun.. I dont need a big huge relationship all the time, would be nice, but theres plenty of people to go out with, and enjoy without all the big ol expectations.

My mom says "expect nothing and you wont be disapointed" lol.. I agree, if something cool develops awesome, but starting out needy will never go anywhere.

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