So, how many women here... or men... have heard the other say, " I Can Tell After ONE Date If We're Going Anywhere."

The latest installment of mine has said.. "I can tell we are going to go far, this will work great."

I couldn't saya word I was so shocked and confused.. ha ha.. I thought the date was sucking grass.

What is this BS? One date doesn't indicate everything, it's impossible, right?!

Sounds like he was "Trading Up"? Maybe?

I've gone on dates that there wasn't any spark, ( not to say I didn't have a good time)i think that takes time.....jmo

I think after one date you can almost definately know if you aren't attracted to the other person.

However, after the first date, I don't think you will know its the person you will marry!

I dont know. My sister thought the first date of this guy she met sucked grass too. She ended up marrying him but I think she just married him for his money!!

Well I dont see marriage anytime and i saw no sign of enough money to keep me... but I understand that it take more than one date to see if things can possible work out... he just seemed so YIIPIE KI YAY about being so sure we are in it for a while now and things will be great.. er he invited me to a vacation like er in Oct... wtf... ha ha... no!

Like I said... One date doesn't indicate everything, it's impossible

Tell him to slow it down! And calm it down!

If he can't or won't.... you might want to cut him off before he turns stalker or something.

I can tell after the first 5 minutes

I can tell right away!

He wanted sex

Ha ha I know right.. I have seen him and there before for months he never seemed like he had any issues.. now I am wondering what the heck has him so giddy and whakced out... like I said though personallly there was nothing there for me... I think how he acted turned me off.. you know? Ha ha

2 dates.... I think... unless the first was just so horrible. I mean if he comes off as the type of prat that you wouldn't allow to be alone with your cat for five minutes... well then... there you go. Nerves can screw up a first date... I say try two.. just in case....

I've known couples who hit it out of the park from the very beginning. I have had dates that I thought were going to go well after a while then BOOM!!! Some weird unknown comes into the party and changes everything.

I met one girl who seemed nice in every way until she found out I had a Harley. She was a "Biker Hater" and thought anyone who associated with anyone who owned a motorcycle was simply "trash". Adios lady.

A lot of people have stereotyped ideas about a whole lot of topics and it takes a while to get exposed to them all.

A lot of people have skeletons in their closet and monsters under their beds.

I'd say after one date you pretty much know where it's going. That's not to say you'll never date that person again, it's like a taste test.

Ya I get that ALOT!

I suppose you are right.. I could try again.. If I am able.. He did seem anxious and did relay that to me before hand.. Thanks!

not me...they want to be fWb's

Oh don't get me wrong things can be awesome the first date around and be never ending from there.. or whatever a good ride at least.. but I am talking about those who opening say "I can tell we are going to go far, this will work great." Ha ha..

I didn't stereotype this guy.. I was open about the date and what not.. it is how he acted and assumed so much in such little time that turned me off... I was looking to date not jump in blind to a "thing" Ha ha ha.

Very True.. ha ha.. Taste test.. I like that.. HA HA

You're welcome.

You know. If you made him nervous... that's a good thing. He's taking you seriously. Being approached as something valuable is a good thing. It's not everything but it's a start.

Goodluck. Lemme know if he's worth a second date.