i mean honestly....is it your goal to make us cryy??
:(
aren't there any nice ones left??
feeling hopeless....

Hey! I ask where all the good girls are here.



Heartbreakas'!



What makes you so sure nice is not a disguise for a total choad?

I'm just curious. What did "Said" guy do to make you cry? I am one of those guys who is respectful of women and hate when they are treated like dirt.

sorry you feel sad we're not all like that. remember the one for you is only a heart beat away
trust your heart not listen to your head. love your eye's they alone should win you the man

First answer why women can be so mean.

Then you should come to the conclusion that it's individual people that are mean.

The " nice " ones are over in the corner tying mommy's apron strings a bit tighter.

Nice guys are usually weak. You would more likely want a man that treats you well, but has some balls.

usually. depends how you classify weakness in man. or better yet, what makes you a man?

well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....

Me. personally???

The fact that I know how to treat a woman, but still have enough spine to stand up for myself.

Weakness?? Ask just about any woman and she'll likely tell you that weakness is a man that will bow down to their every whim. One that, in an argument, doesn't stand up for himself against her. One that is whiny and needy. Those are what most women ( and I specify MOST ) consider weaknesses.

I have been here a while and I have seen the responses women give when asked questions like that.

You can be respectful, decent, kind, tender generous and all the other good qualities a woman normally looks for, but you have to be able to stand on your own as well.

Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.

well put.
i agree.

well put.
i agree.

Men are mean because you allow them to be mean to you.

Nothing can hurt you if you dont "allow" it.......

what you should do is stop going for the guys who treat you like dirt. i dont know why but most girls my age go for the dude that treats them the worst..

I think you need some





























SHAZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZAM!!!

i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.

Have you been on this site before? You look familiar to me.

yea...i dont know why that is.... we know their bad for us but we still go for them...

Well it seems to me that women are more sensitive and let those feelings show more than men. Sometimes it's something a guy says that sets off that emotion. A guy might ask "hey wanna get some ice cream?" and his woman starts crying and that is when you hear the guy say.."What what did I say?" He didn’t connect what he might have said earlier that set her off. Ok that was just an extreme example. Well anyways, women are more sensitive than men. Us men just don't connect what we are saying sometimes that might hurt a woman. But that is the beauty of the difference between men and women. Life would be boring if men and women were the same :)