Personaly its hard . Unless you see each other on the weekends . Get to know this person better and who knows he will move to you or you to him.

I would record him and spill the beans to his wife.

Love is blind . I was confused for a while but then i just started thinking what i did wrong and what i needed to correct which i was doing everything right . Talking to friends about youre problems is good and not good because you will always get opinions that will make you think more . To me god is the only who will listen to all you're problem's and he will guide you to whats right.

Marriage is a contract .Its not what it was years ago. I got married and lasted 2 months it complicates things. Commitment is what i believe in . If you truly love each other that's all you need.

All you need to do is think about all the wrong that person did to you and all the right you did for that person and know you did nothing right. :) Heart breaks are hard to go threw but keep a positive attitude and always place god first and you will get threw this .We will never know what lies ahead of us and we will never be prepared for it but just remember when those times come close youre eyes and speak to god because he is the only one who will listen. :)

I have and its not good because if the other person isn't that in love with you it pushes them away. You need to give the same love you are receiving.

Be funny !

Also remember you are one step closer to finding the one for you.

Don'T let this drag you done more the less this should be you re strength.

Time will only cure you it could take weeks months even a year or two depending on the situation .Just keep busy and excersise and time will cure you.

You shouldnt have anyone around youre kids yet .Take time for youre self and focus on you . Stay strong.

A simple text or call that's it if not its gonna seem like more.

I was unhappy for a year and a half trying to make it work .If he is not at you're level it wont work.You need to find some one who is.

Yeah it has . You like the person so much that yeah it could slip and at the moment it could seem right. You should say it if you are really feeling in love.

You find a person who will love you all around and be with you for you .Let him go and move on .

I am just like youre boyfriend and the problem is he is to nice. Ive learned that you cant always be 100 percent nice and that there are times to be serious and take control at times . So it aint gonna work .

Yup a guy should love you for you first of all . Move on.

Yup its crazy to go thru this but i guess everyone in one point of there life have to go thru something like this . Thank god no kids were involved and thank god i never linked my bank account with her's .

You guys are a trip but i see better now and yes everything was rushed .Hopefully i find that one that is ready and next time take it real slow.

All my life iv'e been trying to understand what goes on inside women's heads. I was in a relationship with this woman for about a year and a half and i treated this woman more than a princess .I was always there for her in her time of need especially when she was going thru her divorce. Well after 4 months being together we moved in together in an apartment .Everything was wonderfull right up until she said she needed space and what not.I knew something was up and i was right she left me for a co worker . I knew him too it was crazy i couldnt understand so weeks went by i found another place to live and she would call and come over .Me like a dumb ass i accepted and with time she came back she begged to take her back so me thinking with my penis not my head i did and we went to ny and she wanted to get marry so bad i did bad mistake. So 2 weeks ago same **** again lol . My thing is if you treat a woman right and you are that caring ,romantic person why just leave it like that and throw it all way .Are women scared of long term commitment or they want to try and find Mr. Perfect which doesnt exist. PLEASE Lady's Shine some light on this.