All you need to do is think about all the wrong that person did to you and all the right you did for that person and know you did nothing right. :) Heart breaks are hard to go threw but keep a positive attitude and always place god first and you will get threw this .We will never know what lies ahead of us and we will never be prepared for it but just remember when those times come close youre eyes and speak to god because he is the only one who will listen. :)

Very good advice. Welcome new friend

I know what lies ahead

Very nice, altho i would talk to my friends rather than god, i know they love me and listen.

I also dont think it does u any good to remind urself of wat bad things an ex done to u, but rather see it as a learning experience, which was just that, nothing more.

The best way to get over heart break, imo, is to allow urself mourning time, anger time, emotional time, to get over it. Often ppl become frustrated when they think they arent over someone, and put pressure on themselves to 'get over it', which in turn makes the process take longer.

Sometimes it helps just to sit and rationalize all the things that were wrong about the relationship. But you were to blind to see it. "Love is Blind"?

It does help to look at the person and " evaluate" what they said or they did. Not necessary to dwell on their short comings. But also not to dwell on all you did good. We all see different things at different times. BUT I have found that we do close our eyes to easily when it comes to love. And afterward when the hurt starts to subside we then see just how stupid we were.... amen do I get a lolipop now?

Love is blind . I was confused for a while but then i just started thinking what i did wrong and what i needed to correct which i was doing everything right . Talking to friends about youre problems is good and not good because you will always get opinions that will make you think more . To me god is the only who will listen to all you're problem's and he will guide you to whats right.

Here is my stance.....

I try to think about what mistakes were made on BOTH ends, and learn from them. What I've learned is kept and the baggage is left behind. There is never a situation where one party is right and one is wrong. Therein lies what I see as the fault in your logic, (the whole god thing aside).

It's great to be positive, that alone will serve as great strength. Welcome!