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Topic: Okay... I have a decent question
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Tue 05/05/09 12:55 AM
Should I buy my baby's momma a mother's day gift?

I don't want it to be taken the wrong way as if I still have feelings for her. I don't have feelings for her anymore and have no desire to get back with her. I just know that she'll misconstue a gift from me to her as something more.

I just want to get her something because,even though she drives me completely insane, I want to give her a standing ovation as a mom. She is an excellent mother.

What to do?



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Tue 05/05/09 12:56 AM
No gifts!!!!noway


You can buy me a happy meal though!!!bigsmile drinker

Queene123's photo
Tue 05/05/09 12:57 AM
just give her a card and tell her its a special day and you thought it would be a nice jesture

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 05/05/09 12:57 AM
Drive by gifting? :tongue:

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Tue 05/05/09 01:01 AM

Drive by gifting? :tongue:




HAHA. I never expected that answer. I love it! :laughing:

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Tue 05/05/09 01:02 AM

No gifts!!!!noway


You can buy me a happy meal though!!!bigsmile drinker





Oh gypsy. I get one end of the fry, you get the other.

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Tue 05/05/09 01:04 AM

just give her a card and tell her its a special day and you thought it would be a nice jesture





I'm not that type of person to waste my time on a card that won't be remembered and will be a waste of my money. Cards are a waste of time unless there is information about a party with free beer.drinker

Jtevans's photo
Tue 05/05/09 01:08 AM
if she's crazy,get her a brochure to a mental institution :thumbsup:

Queene123's photo
Tue 05/05/09 01:14 AM


just give her a card and tell her its a special day and you thought it would be a nice jesture





I'm not that type of person to waste my time on a card that won't be remembered and will be a waste of my money. Cards are a waste of time unless there is information about a party with free beer.drinker


humm thats sounds like your only thinking of yourself and not really thinking of who help bring your child in this world... come on nothing is wrong on buying one little card...

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Tue 05/05/09 01:14 AM
card. make your own. better yet help the kids make it and then add your note that you appreciate her being a good mom.

cheap, easy, heartfelt and sincere. if you do it right it won't send the wrong message.

drinker

jedigirl's photo
Tue 05/05/09 01:16 AM

card. make your own. better yet help the kids make it and then add your note that you appreciate her being a good mom.

cheap, easy, heartfelt and sincere. if you do it right it won't send the wrong message.

drinker



:thumbsup:

Queene123's photo
Tue 05/05/09 01:19 AM

card. make your own. better yet help the kids make it and then add your note that you appreciate her being a good mom.

cheap, easy, heartfelt and sincere. if you do it right it won't send the wrong message.

drinker



exactly!!!!

Jess642's photo
Tue 05/05/09 01:31 AM
Honour your child's mother.

Be decent.

Queene123's photo
Tue 05/05/09 01:32 AM

Honour your child's mother.

Be decent.


RIGHT ON!!! GO GIRL GO GIRL!!!laugh

Fairytale_Dreamer's photo
Tue 05/05/09 01:53 AM
Hi there. I think thats a beautiful idea. It's a really special thing and i think it will make her melt.

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 05/05/09 02:41 AM
A card is nice

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Tue 05/05/09 02:53 AM
....so glad I never bred...

papersmile's photo
Tue 05/05/09 03:53 AM

Should I buy my baby's momma a mother's day gift?

I don't want it to be taken the wrong way as if I still have feelings for her. I don't have feelings for her anymore and have no desire to get back with her. I just know that she'll misconstue a gift from me to her as something more.

I just want to get her something because,even though she drives me completely insane, I want to give her a standing ovation as a mom. She is an excellent mother.

What to do?


I always give my kids' dad something for father's day on behalf of the children. Regardless of my feelings towards him or the idea of getting a gift, he IS their father and they love him. I'll continue to do so until such an age that they are able to go out and get him something on their own.

I usually keep it very simple and inexpensive - a hand-made craft from the kids is my favourite route cause there's no question that it comes directly from them and all I had to do was chip in the money.

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Tue 05/05/09 03:56 AM
Get a card from the child, they prob. can't.

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Tue 05/05/09 04:03 AM
Well she ain't my mother!

But she is the mother of your children.

You can honor that with a card or flowers.

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