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Topic: So, now what?
MeChrissy2's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:52 AM
You find someone you really connect with. They live in another state. You meet and it's amazing. Your life is here, theirs is there. Now what?

Seems all the people I'm interested in are long distance, is there anyway to make that work?

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Thu 05/07/09 11:57 AM
the best way to make that judgment is time and effort. if the stuff is there no doubt, it should work out.

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Thu 05/07/09 12:12 PM
You do the long distance thing....visit each other every month or whenever its convenient for both. And eventually if you want to be together forever then someone has to move.....flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Thu 05/07/09 12:15 PM
Gypsy's right... someone has to move.

sexymami7979's photo
Thu 05/07/09 12:17 PM

You do the long distance thing....visit each other every month or whenever its convenient for both. And eventually if you want to be together forever then someone has to move.....flowerforyou
I so agree...

papersmile's photo
Thu 05/07/09 12:17 PM
I'm coming up on 3 years of dating the same guy - who happens to live in a different country, and i am quite happy with our unconventional relationship.

long distance certainly isn't for everyone, and there are more times than not that i want him close(r) to me, but i'd rather take this one and see him as infrequently as i do, than take anyone else and have them live down the street from me.


wu248's photo
Thu 05/07/09 12:26 PM
Personaly its hard . Unless you see each other on the weekends . Get to know this person better and who knows he will move to you or you to him.

earthytaurus76's photo
Thu 05/07/09 12:28 PM
I say no, unless your just realllyyy into phone sex... and then... no

Nova86's photo
Thu 05/07/09 12:29 PM
i am doing it right now....it is extremely hard not being able to be with the person that you want to be with SO badly.....if the feelings continue to grow then someone would eventually have to move

so i would ask myself this question....

Am I willing to move for this person?? because both parties need to be willing to move on account of the other one....JMO

jhjhl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 12:32 PM

You find someone you really connect with. They live in another state. You meet and it's amazing. Your life is here, theirs is there. Now what?

Seems all the people I'm interested in are long distance, is there anyway to make that work?
I think if you guys do not move closer... eventually it would just die off. It could work though

MrHerrNudist's photo
Thu 05/07/09 12:36 PM
my last girlfriend came onto this site and found a man in Arizona who was more to her fit and they do the once per month thing and it seems to be working out very well for them. She is in San Diego Ca. so it's not so far that they can't take turns traveling once per month.

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Thu 05/07/09 12:41 PM
if it's real love then you make it work You have to put forth effort and if traveling every so often is part of that. Then you do it with a smile... Love does not come easy. It will never be handed to you in a pretty little package with ribbons and bows. It comes in a burlap sack and needs the eye of someone who wants it.




lolipop4

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Thu 05/07/09 12:48 PM

I say no, unless your just realllyyy into phone sex... and then... no

laugh


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Thu 05/07/09 01:24 PM
Chat Global, Date Local.

7z3r05's photo
Thu 05/07/09 01:26 PM

You find someone you really connect with. They live in another state. You meet and it's amazing. Your life is here, theirs is there. Now what?

Seems all the people I'm interested in are long distance, is there anyway to make that work?


omg propper spelling. evern with the theres and theirs.

you should give lessons.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 05/07/09 01:28 PM
No LDR's for me.

MeChrissy2's photo
Thu 05/07/09 01:28 PM


You find someone you really connect with. They live in another state. You meet and it's amazing. Your life is here, theirs is there. Now what?

Seems all the people I'm interested in are long distance, is there anyway to make that work?


omg propper spelling. evern with the theres and theirs.

you should give lessons.


Certainly, start with Capitalization, use spell check (evern) and don't use acronymns (omg) in your posts.laugh

7z3r05's photo
Thu 05/07/09 01:28 PM

No LDR's for me.


smart man.

7z3r05's photo
Thu 05/07/09 01:29 PM



You find someone you really connect with. They live in another state. You meet and it's amazing. Your life is here, theirs is there. Now what?

Seems all the people I'm interested in are long distance, is there anyway to make that work?


omg propper spelling. evern with the theres and theirs.

you should give lessons.


Certainly, start with Capitalization, use spell check (evern) and don't use acronymns (omg) in your posts.laugh


acro-whatsits? now you gots me all confuzzled!

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Thu 05/07/09 01:34 PM

You find someone you really connect with. They live in another state. You meet and it's amazing. Your life is here, theirs is there. Now what?

Seems all the people I'm interested in are long distance, is there anyway to make that work?


If both your life is meant to be together then the his/her life is out there mine here will not be a factor but only you being together will be. For the right reasons anywhere is the right place.

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