All my life iv'e been trying to understand what goes on inside women's heads. I was in a relationship with this woman for about a year and a half and i treated this woman more than a princess .I was always there for her in her time of need especially when she was going thru her divorce. Well after 4 months being together we moved in together in an apartment .Everything was wonderfull right up until she said she needed space and what not.I knew something was up and i was right she left me for a co worker . I knew him too it was crazy i couldnt understand so weeks went by i found another place to live and she would call and come over .Me like a dumb ass i accepted and with time she came back she begged to take her back so me thinking with my penis not my head i did and we went to ny and she wanted to get marry so bad i did bad mistake. So 2 weeks ago same **** again lol . My thing is if you treat a woman right and you are that caring ,romantic person why just leave it like that and throw it all way .Are women scared of long term commitment or they want to try and find Mr. Perfect which doesnt exist. PLEASE Lady's Shine some light on this.

A womans mind is a terrible thing to waste

Some women just arent ready to be treated good.

Maybe the topic should've read...

"Understanding a players mind"
"Understanding the bi-polar mind"
"Understanding a cheaters mind"
"Understanding the codependent mind"
"Understanding my fractured mind"

not
"Understanding women's mind"

This happens to people not just you.

Sounds as she wasn't ready for a relationship. Does not apply to all women. Good luck.

A friend of mine has a saying "you lose them as you got them". I can't say that I know exactly what was going through her head, but it sounds like the two of you got together before her marriage was truly over. She didn't take the time to heal, to put the previous relationship away, just moved right into one with you. Then when things appeared to be getting serious with the two of you, she moved on to another. Her pattern will most likely repeat throughout her life, unless something drastic happens.

It's sad, but there are people who would rather jump from relationship to relationship rather than deal with their own issues. I'm sorry you had to encounter someone like that, and hope that your next relationship is with someone more stable.

The man who understands a woman, is one.

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fine

First of all, there wasn't much time to get to know herself again after her divorce. She didn't have the time to heal the wounds, so to speak. You made it convenient for her and you were her re-bound. She took her feelings for one person and switched them over to you. It is an easy thing for "humans" to do, if we allow it.

I believe this same thing would happen whether it be a man or a woman. This scenerio has absolutely nothing to do with "women". It is life in general.

Good luck to ya

Understatement of the Year award goes to YouAndImake1! lol

Not all women do those kind of things!

You guys are a trip but i see better now and yes everything was rushed .Hopefully i find that one that is ready and next time take it real slow.

People are just people

life is just whatever happens

Yup its crazy to go thru this but i guess everyone in one point of there life have to go thru something like this . Thank god no kids were involved and thank god i never linked my bank account with her's .

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