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Topic: HOW DO U FORGET THE PASS AND MOVE ON!!!!
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Sun 12/14/08 07:13 PM
CAN U HELP ME?

Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/14/08 07:14 PM
Hypnosis does wonders.....What's my name again?laugh

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Sun 12/14/08 07:15 PM
accept and let go..it takes time

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Sun 12/14/08 07:17 PM
It's hard. Been there done that. Went back and forth with and ex about 6 times over a 3-4 year period. The relationship had it's moments.

My advice:
Don't forget or regret the past. Start doing things you enjoy or trying new things so you aren't constantly dwelling on it. If you have pictures/momentos, you don't hae to throw them out but put them away so they are out of sight and mind.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/14/08 07:19 PM

accept and let go..it takes time


Basic...but oh so very true.:wink:

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Sun 12/14/08 07:20 PM
THANKS GUYS flowerforyou

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Sun 12/14/08 07:21 PM
Time.They say it takes half the amount of time to get over a relationship as what you have in it.

Etrain's photo
Sun 12/14/08 07:24 PM
Lots of booze....yup...worked for medrinker drinker drinker

SimplyElla's photo
Sun 12/14/08 07:24 PM
Time heals all wounds..
Stay strong have faith..
Out of sight out of mind..
Best of luck to you my dear..flowerforyou

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Sun 12/14/08 07:25 PM
Stop going back. You're only trying to get what never existed in the first place. You're hooked on what you WISH thing's were. Stop dreaming. Best wishe's to your heart. flowerforyou

fabo123's photo
Sun 12/14/08 07:28 PM
Hello im FABO and I want to think I can help you out ok im not a controler or arguer but I dont let no one walk over me ether im honnest and like to camp so get back to me ok.:smile:

imsingle951's photo
Sun 12/14/08 07:28 PM

Time heals all wounds..
Stay strong have faith..
Out of sight out of mind..
Best of luck to you my dear..flowerforyou
What she said

Georgie3208's photo
Sun 12/14/08 07:29 PM
To be honest the past will always be with you, it's learning from it and not repeating it that make you a stronger person. Learn from them and grow :)

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Sun 12/14/08 07:30 PM

Hello im FABO and I want to think I can help you out ok im not a controler or arguer but I dont let no one walk over me ether im honnest and like to camp so get back to me ok.:smile:


I think that was an offer to help keep your mind off the past.:wink:

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Sun 12/14/08 07:32 PM

To be honest the past will always be with you, it's learning from it and not repeating it that make you a stronger person. Learn from them and grow :)


Excellent advice!!!

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Sun 12/14/08 07:37 PM

Hello im FABO and I want to think I can help you out ok im not a controler or arguer but I dont let no one walk over me ether im honnest and like to camp so get back to me ok.:smile:
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I ten to let people walk all over me!!

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Sun 12/14/08 07:38 PM
I just can't let them anymore

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Sun 12/14/08 09:59 PM

To be honest the past will always be with you, it's learning from it and not repeating it that make you a stronger person. Learn from them and grow :)


:smile:

Jhavez's photo
Sun 12/14/08 10:00 PM
Forget about the past by planning for the future. And those plans should not include anything that reminds you of the past that you are trying to forget.

Whenever you start to think about the past go boating, or bicycling, or fishing, or dancing, or to a church function, or visit a distant family member, or visit a friend that you have not seen in a long time, or detail your harley, or read a good book, or just about anything that you want to do. You get the point?

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Sun 12/14/08 10:14 PM
i am not sure what your past completely holds nor did i read the entire thread.

i can only speak to what comes to my heart and mind and what helps me.

1. forgive! not for them, but for you. as long as you hold anger and/or resentment they still control you and your emotions.

2. Pray!!! ask God to help you through these times. I talk to him daily ... sometimes all day lol.

3. Keep active. start building new memories. as time passes your old past/memories will become less thought of, if ever thought of.

good luck to you darlin....no words that anyone says is going to fix it or heal you. time is the only thing that will. stupid answer, but honest. i wish there was a magic button i could hit to make it all go away for you and everyone, unfortunately, there isnt. but will keep you in my thoughts and prayers

xoxo


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