It seems like looks are all that matter anymore! I was in a long term serious relationship until he found a thin blonde to spend time with! I just dont understand y looks seem to trump love in many cases!

he's a moron cuz ur hot...

Its just a sad fact of todays society . The package matters more than the contents . Somewhere along the way our values got skewed . I cant count the profiles i hae read that say something like must be tall , must be blonde , blah blah blah . It makes me wonder can you really find love if you put preconditions on it . And if you do , is it a love that will last . What if one of you gets in an accident and is disfigured or hurt and gains weight . What do you have then . Building a relationship on the superfical is like building a boat with a huge hole in the bottom . No matter how fast you bail water , sooner or later your boat is going to sink .

it is good you got out of it because any relationship like that is shallow

I am sure I might fit into that catergory. I want the woman I happen to be in love with to be good looking and take care of herself.. so whats wrong with that? I take care of myself eat healthy exercise, get regular physicals. Is it to much to expect that your S.O. be the same way?


your a very beautiful young lady.. there are a lot of men if given the chance would drool all over you. So one guy doesn't? gimme a break


this is just another generalization thread whine whine whine.

I don't think she's really generalizing all that much. She is more talking personals here. Have you never been hurt and just felt the need to vent? Yes, we've seen it all before and will again....but I feel her pain. It sucks to be cast aside for someone else, no matter what the reason.

Thanks

Maybe he stopped loving you and started loving her and looks had nothing at all to do with it.

'Thin blond' does not equate to good looks, does it?

Always the voice of reason.

You are welcome. You are young and a bit dramatic about these things, which is to be expected at your age. I'm sure most of us acted and felt similarly at 20 years old. I know I did.

Enjoy your youth hun......love, laugh and live life to the fullest. Soon enough it will be time for for settling down. Go out with your girlfriends and tear up the town. Then send me an email telling me all about it....
Good Luck!

nah as long as they never fell out the ugly tree and got hit by every branch on the way down i dont much mind what folks look like. and for what its worth from me, by no stretch of the imagination are u not a pretty girl

Looks & money

...and 3 car garages

i think attraction has to be there
part of the basic stuff to start with
everyone has their own definition of what attraction is

Personally, looks are kind of low on my list for a girlfriend.....

Someone that can hold a conversation – intelligence is such a turn on – that likes to communicate, who’s funny, romantic, loyal, honest, caring, and passionate. And if she’s a cutie, that would be really nice – defiantly does not have to be a hot, model type (not that I could attract the model type anymore), cute is far sexier!

I will admit that there does have to be some chemistry, but looks are not the end all be all.....

If someone dumps you because ‘someone else is prettier’, it’s their problem and you’re better off without someone who’s so shallow and insensitive.

Forget about ‘em and find someone that deserves you for who you are!

The reason that he is spending time with the thin is: Because he can.

Truer words were never spoken.

You're young so I'll assume he was as well.
He may regret it later and attempt to make amends.
What will you do young one...
Mistakes are only lessons learned if they aren't repeated.
There were probably signs before it happened.
Forgive yourself, love yourself and things will be ok...

I totaly agree.
Forget him, he's shallow. His mind is in his pants.

Ron

What was he thinking