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"overheating"...
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I was talking with my best friend this weekend (a woman), I was asking how things were going with her BO... she has been seeing him for almost a year, and she kept saying that things were "overheating"... I kinda assume it means he was smothering her, or things were getting too intense for her... not quite sure what she meant, hence my post!
Good Question! $.02 
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"overheating"...
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not specific to me, but I am curious...
Can a relationship "overheat"... even after months (let's say... 9 months)... can too much of a good thing be had? Can it be recovered?? Have you ever been in a relationship that has "overheated"???... |
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talking about the ex
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Really? It can actually get to that point? yep, if you talk about the ex, they are still on your mind and your not over it yet... Good Luck to you... $.02
Ahh so its the appearance of not caring rather then whether they are still floating around in the memories. If one doesn't mention it then it doesn't exist type of thing. I think you may be right lahirra. For me that's not it, She's just not on my mind so I don't talk about her... it's pretty simple, really. $.02
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talking about the ex
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Really? It can actually get to that point? yep, if you talk about the ex, they are still on your mind and your not over it yet... Good Luck to you... $.02
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talking about the ex
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imho: I just don't bring her up. If asked a specific question - yes. In casual conversation? Nope, I'm over it.
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Im christian and I dont drink... I do smoke cigerettes though... which I have been working hard using the patch and the gum to quit. If it werent for sin, we wouldnt need church the same as we do. Christians are admitted sinners... This is News here? Also.... It doesnt say in the bible all sinners go to hell... quite the contrary.  long time no see E!!... :)
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how odd.
Edited by
AGoodGuy1026
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Thu 07/29/10 11:49 AM
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why would a vegetarian be upset by going to a rodeo? They don't eat the animals at a rodeo, they ride them.
*sigh* lighten up! not all vegetarians are liberal... $.02
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Steven Hawking - Time Travel
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bleh, time is a construct. There is no "time" other than the present. Past and future are a construct of our perception. Most people confuse "time" with a measure of motion (i.e. MPH)...
The past exists only in so far as it is remembered or documented. The future has yet to happen - the present is fleeting as it is experienced. Since time does not truly exist, can it be traveled? $.02
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Senseless....
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interesting, but...
1. teenage girl hit's grown man (commits simple assault) 2. grown man retaliates and hits teenage girl 3. teenage girl is afraid for her safetly/fears for her life 4. teenage boys execute their right of self defense of themselves or others and put the beat down on Al. Al should have told her parents, and not struck the teenage girl. I am sorry this happened to Al, but a lawyer for the boys would likely get them off due to the fact that a grown man is a threat to a teenage girl... weather she started it or not. I doubt AL was in fear of his life with a magazine toting teenage girl hitting him once, but I bet the teenage girl can claim she was afraid for her life - ergo justifying the response of her male peers. Bad judgement all around. The ADULT should have acted like an ADULT, and taken it to her parents if he felt strongly enough to react, or call the police (that is what they are for). $.02
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Physical activities...
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hmmm, me? Cycling (mountain or road)... golf... spinning in the winter... yardwork.... sometimes frisbee golf (we have a course here near where I work)... swimming/boating when ever I get the chance... :)...
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do you suck it in?...
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Well Lebron..
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Lebron doesn't owe anyone anything except those two beautiful little babies boys of his. Everyone else, for lack of better words, can SUCK IT!!!  Burning the guys jersey is just uncalled for  . Way to show "loyalty" Ohio fans...I like you only if you do what I say 
Just my two cents...do your thing Lebron  , bleep the haters 
I agree... he is a professional ball player, this is how he makes his living, I think he is free to make the choices that he thinks is best for his career. I liked watching him play for the Cav's, I am sure I will enjoy watching him play for Miami... As for how he "did it"... hmm, he made lots of money for a charity he likes, seems pretty "stand up" to me...  for Lebron, for such a young man he seems to have a good head on his shoulders, and has his heart in a good place...
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Iran so compassionate
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yeah, let's bomb them, so they won't die by stoning, but depleted uranium shots. You didn't care about what Iran was doing before, why the sudden interest? China leads by the death penalty, followed by Saudi-Arabia, where death by stoning is also used. Interestingly, those are the "allies" of USA. China is not an ally.... *sigh*.... $.02
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Cheating
Edited by
AGoodGuy1026
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Fri 07/09/10 06:20 AM
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anyone that wants more than one shouldn't be in a monogamous relationship. If someone wants more than one then either leave the relationship or let the others know you don't want to be exclusive. If someone wants to "play the field"...I don't care...just be honest about it. IMO cheating is cowardly. It implies tricks, lies, etc. Something I have no use for myself Now if someone is honest with me, then I have a choice to be ok with it or move on, but I could at least respect their honesty yes, it's that simple... sadly, cheaters have poor character and are selfish and immature... so they cannot realize the simple things mentioned above....
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When do you quit?
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Sometimes you give it all you got even though some folks wish you would stop... Can you read between the lines? My thoughts.... 1. nothing wrong with giving it your all - as long as it is giving all of your feelings, not stalking them or harassing them... 2. if they tell you directly "it's over" or "I just dont feel that way" - have enough respect for them and go away... 3. if you think you are reading between the lines and they don't want you -- get some self esteem, then ask them directly (but be prepared for #2 to be the answer)... 4. if the cops show up! LOL!!! Seriously, stop beeing needy and passive aggressive... be yourself, be honest and direct... and take the answers they give you. Respect them enough to leave them alone no matter how bad it hurts - it's the mature thing to do. $.02
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kiddos
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IMHO: I think children are basically the same... what I think is different is their access to money, and information is much greater than other generations...
I wanted and acted the same as todays "youngins'" do when I was their age, the difference is that I did not have the funds, nor all of the information.... as for lack of respect and consequences... that has not changed a bit! LOL!!!... "terrible twos", "rebellious teens"... all the same as before. In so far as broken homes, yes = there is more divorce now -- but home life was just as bad for many young people "back in the day" there was abuse and bad parenting, just not as much divorce. To think that just becuase there was not as much divorce that homes were better -- is a falicy. $.02
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Long or Short Hair?
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Long hair. I was dating a girl who had short blond hair. When she would ( trying to put this delicately ) perform oral. She looked like Dennis the Menace. Totally wrong visual for the moment. It got to the point where we couldn't have sex because all I could hear in my head was "Ohhhh Mr. Wilson!". She was offended, but I can't help I want a lady to look like a lady and not a boy. lady's look like lady's because of other things, not their hair... If a woman feels sexy and confident, I dont care what the length of her hair is.... $.02
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Lesbian guys
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bleh, just another example of the male pre-occupation with lesbians...
Uhm, lesbians don't like men, they like women... lesbian means women who like women, why would a man want to be described with a female term? Might as well just call yourself "pretty"... *sigh*... Me thinks your "just a man"... $.02
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Oh Shoot
Edited by
AGoodGuy1026
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Tue 07/06/10 12:11 PM
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OP: IMHO: - you were "zoned" for a reason, and if you try to change your behavior to "change her mind" you will come off as fake (or desperate) anyway...
trying never hurts tho, but it's kinda a selfish thing... cause if you know your in the zone, you know how she feels already... to me it kinda shows lack of respect to try to "convince" her that your needs should be hers (and visa versa)... but who am I anyway?? $.02 
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For some reason I get the feeling there is more going on here than meets the eye...
Child custody is a very touchy subject, soooo many emotions - so many angles, soooooo many variables... I am sorry this is happening in your life... I hope the child is being taken care of... Far too often, the child suffers for the adults behavior... I hope this is not true in this case... Good luck to you! $.02
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