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Topic: "overheating"...
AGoodGuy1026 Joined Wed 04/22/09 Posts: 1333	Mon 08/02/10 06:40 AM
not specific to me, but I am curious... Can a relationship "overheat"... even after months (let's say... 9 months)... can too much of a good thing be had? Can it be recovered?? Have you ever been in a relationship that has "overheated"???...

AGoodGuy1026 Joined Wed 04/22/09 Posts: 1333	Mon 08/02/10 07:01 AM
I was talking with my best friend this weekend (a woman), I was asking how things were going with her BO... she has been seeing him for almost a year, and she kept saying that things were "overheating"... I kinda assume it means he was smothering her, or things were getting too intense for her... not quite sure what she meant, hence my post! Good Question! $.02

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 08/02/10 07:22 AM
Did you ask your best friend for clarification on what she meant? We can't read her mind.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 08/02/10 07:24 AM
I like it hot

you_dont_know_me Joined Sun 06/20/10 Posts: 10168	Mon 08/02/10 07:33 AM
I like it hot naughty girl

Kings_Knight Joined Sat 01/31/09 Posts: 3718	Mon 08/02/10 08:01 AM
Before the question can be answered intelligently, the term has to be defined ...

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 08/02/10 08:06 AM
Smothering....kinky

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 08/02/10 08:20 AM
Smothering....kinky Eric!!!!!!!!!! How ya doin?

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Mon 08/02/10 08:42 AM
No, but I have been overwhelmed to the point where I wanted to lay in my bed, and not come out, praying he doesnt call, cos it was too much for me, and very hot and passionate. I relaxed some and the relationship went on, but omg... it was like.. Hahhahahah Omg those days were crazy!

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Mon 08/02/10 09:02 AM
Well Overheating---like in the bedroom is a great thing!!! But if you mean fighting-- that sucks and it's a bad sign ya gotta have calmness and talking and peacefulness with your partner but when ya close that bedroom door OVERHEAT baby!!!!!!!

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 08/02/10 03:57 PM
Smothering....kinky Eric!!!!!!!!!! How ya doin? I'm doin alright Wendy...how you doin???

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 08/02/10 04:02 PM
Maybe she has a bad thermostat

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Mon 08/02/10 04:03 PM
Couldn't tell you, I've only known them to fizzle like those snakes you get around the fourth of July.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Mon 08/02/10 04:36 PM
Maybe spending too much time together would equate to overheating? I would have to have more info. Over heating for me would mean we have so much passion together it almost uncontrollable

Kings_Knight Joined Sat 01/31/09 Posts: 3718	Mon 08/02/10 04:57 PM
Well Overheating---like in the bedroom is a great thing!!! But if you mean fighting-- that sucks and it's a bad sign ya gotta have calmness and talking and peacefulness with your partner but when ya close that bedroom door OVERHEAT baby!!!!!!! Ah jes' LUBS da way you think ... oh - I have lube ...

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Mon 08/02/10 05:19 PM
If she's meaning smothering, then yes, been there. It sucks, especially when they refuse to listen.

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Mon 08/02/10 05:23 PM
No such thing as over heating if it means what I think it means

Geniee Joined Fri 06/25/10 Posts: 68	Mon 08/02/10 05:40 PM Edited by Geniee on Mon 08/02/10 05:40 PM
If you're talking about a new couple who blow everything off to spend every waking second they can in the bedroom? Then yes, been there. It's great at the time, but eight months later, when you finally get your head out of the clouds, your life is a mess and all your friends hate you. If that's not what you're talking about, then probably no.