Old school men are out there seeking old school women. Why wouldn't/shouldn't they be?

Weird as before the women's movement was the generation of my grandparents. In those days it was barely possible to get a divorce.
The generation of young adults that grew up during the time of the women's movement was that of my parents.
And then both genders could get good studies and diplomas. My mother started working after secondary school, age 17, her one year older sister studied more and always had a great paying job and career.

Maybe things are very different in the US, but here the days of what you describe of a woman having no choices or education have long gone. Kind of like half a century has gone by since...

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that's cool

I'm glad also that things are different for women's careers and choices around the world. I don't know how it is in your area, but in the US there are still those who would like to chip away at the gains women have made and make them second-class citizens again. The fight is ongoing here just to keep the rights and gains already achieved.

I think,old school guys rock...those are the gentlemen,other factors constant!!
A woman of above 35yrs would def see quality in and of such a man,though it may be weird for the dotcom brigade🤭🤭🤭...

Technically, "Old School" refers to past behavior in general.
While many men treated their women well in public, the roles of men and women at that time were very different.
"Old School" means the woman stays in her place.
She cooks and cleans but the man is the one in control.

I believe all people should be respected for who they are.
Technically, this is a "New School" behavior which has a lot to do with both women's rights and social behavior.

Progressive roles are still evolving in society.
Some women like to be pampered, others take offense. You can hold the door for a woman showing respect and love but you can also hold a door for a woman for appearance purposes or thru some automatic conditioning.

True respect bleeds into personal interaction. You can be a gentleman in public but if that behavior is not demonstrated behind closed doors its a lie.

All people are now more self-conscious and value their personal status more than during "Old School" days. This..."Individualism" breaks the "Old School" thinking and its associated behavior.

What many think of when encountering "Old School" is the appearance of respect but if that respect is in public only, animosity will build in the relationship.

Yes, some women do still want to be kept in their place, taking care of the children, the house and supporting their man in all things.
But, many women now want careers and respect. They want to share in the housekeeping and family rearing but not be shackled to them.

Do you want your boyfriend or husband to say "No, You may not go to work"? "You must wear a dress" "You will fix my dinner and have it ready when I come home" just to get them to treat you with some respect while at the store?
~ That's "Old School".

old school men are sweet

Now that men and women are more or less equal , and that's just great ... so now when I hold the car door open for my beautiful lady , it's either a new car or a new lady !!!

im a genuine old school guy treat women with respect but i expect it back a relationship is a 2 way thing as you all know. Merry Christmas btw xRobx

I like old school guys:since I believe in courtship and romance .

I went to school and I'm old.

How old is old I'm 50 years young

Old School guy on dating a member of the women's movement, she was heard to say when he moved to open the car door, ' It's OK I can do it myself '. They entered the restaurant and he moved to help her with her coat, and she said, ' It's OK I can do it myself'. After the meal he called for the check and she said,' It's OK I can pay for myself '. When they arrived back at her house, she moved to kiss him good night, and he said, ' Probably better if you kiss yourself, and I kiss myself. Goodnight.'.

The easiest way I can put this is old school is a man who takes responsibility for his actions.We still believe in lost concepts like Honor and Duty.
Right and wrong.
This means treating everyone else with the same respect I demand for myself until they prove they do not deserve it.It means doing the right thing even when it hurts. It means to hold ones self to a higher standard than those around you. My word and my hand are my bond. and lastly,
With all due respect given, a mind always expressed fully and truthfully.
You know, what your grandmother use to call a man.

I went to an old school, used to be a converted castle from the 18th century - does that count?

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hi everyone i wanted to chime in, i believe old school is a mindset that men grow into as they learn that true value comes from a woman when she is happy and safe with a man, when i was younger the idea of intimacy with a woman was more self centered and wasnt mindful as much of my partner, as i started growing and sensing and feeling much more of life i also staarted looking at a woman with appreciative eyes, and love making took an amazing turn, not only was attention more focused on intimacy, foreplay, and connecting, my focus was how to please my woman and interesting enough it gave me my greatest pleasure and a lil male pride seeing this beautiful woman beneath me expressing her pleasure in amazing sounds and touches. Old school is a term used to express a time when respect courtesy and chilvary were considered a real mans man. he would look you in the eye his word was his bond, etc. a james bond if you woould. Today when using the term old school it refers to any man that has those old school traits. Its not exclusively age defining, but it really is. Generally men in their 30's 40's and older learn these things about themselves and mature in their way of thinking about a woman, can we all (men) agree that when you learn how to please a woman , both mentally, physically, spiritually and create that safe place that you have awoken a lovely tantalizing sexy and senuous warm loving woman that you cant wait to get home too. nothing can take the place of Gods most artistic creation, woman. Wheres my girl, ive actually got myself fired up;-) old school is a term used to actually express our respect for an individual that possesses those qualities we all admire. Quite honestly it can identify both male and female. respect honesty humility humble-strength courtesy etc. oldschool in so. cal remember guys, its ok to be a good guy, nice , polite we need you.

women like old school good guys who know how to be a bit bad...when needed