hi everyone i wanted to chime in, i believe old school is a mindset that men grow into as they learn that true value comes from a woman when she is happy and safe with a man, when i was younger the idea of intimacy with a woman was more self centered and wasnt mindful as much of my partner, as i started growing and sensing and feeling much more of life i also staarted looking at a woman with appreciative eyes, and love making took an amazing turn, not only was attention more focused on intimacy, foreplay, and connecting, my focus was how to please my woman and interesting enough it gave me my greatest pleasure and a lil male pride seeing this beautiful woman beneath me expressing her pleasure in amazing sounds and touches. Old school is a term used to express a time when respect courtesy and chilvary were considered a real mans man. he would look you in the eye his word was his bond, etc. a james bond if you woould. Today when using the term old school it refers to any man that has those old school traits. Its not exclusively age defining, but it really is. Generally men in their 30's 40's and older learn these things about themselves and mature in their way of thinking about a woman, can we all (men) agree that when you learn how to please a woman , both mentally, physically, spiritually and create that safe place that you have awoken a lovely tantalizing sexy and senuous warm loving woman that you cant wait to get home too. nothing can take the place of Gods most artistic creation, woman. Wheres my girl, ive actually got myself fired up;-) old school is a term used to actually express our respect for an individual that possesses those qualities we all admire. Quite honestly it can identify both male and female. respect honesty humility humble-strength courtesy etc. oldschool in so. cal remember guys, its ok to be a good guy, nice , polite we need you.