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Mon 02/23/26 06:02 AM

Why peoples don’t want to reply a message on Mingle2. I don’t understand :thinking:
If you send a message most of the users replied late (very) and sometimes don’t.


Sadly, not everyone online accepts a kindly refusal, so when a woman fails to reply to your message when she is not interested in you, in part she wants to avoid any unpleasantness. Some guys online do not like to receive a message from a woman saying she is not interested, however respectful it may be said, and feel the need to take issue with her, instead of moving on. There are many reasons you don't receive a reply, and as others have said here, no reply is a reply. Good luck in your search.

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Mon 02/23/26 05:41 AM
Of course they can, just don't give up on your search and you will find the one for you, and all your dreams will come true.

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Sun 02/22/26 12:04 PM
Old English Proverb.

"Better late than never"

smile2

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Sun 02/22/26 11:37 AM

Do more women have this happen quite regularly?

Men sending you a message that they like your profile or photo or something and then they continue to tell you it can't go anywhere because we live too far apart or some other reason.

That always has me thinking, mate, we have never even exchanged a single word, yet you assume that we potentially have something going because you have an interest in me?????
How bout sending a message like, "I really like you/am interested but dammit, we live too far apart. What a shame!"

I never know why men do this. Is it arrogance or simply being dim?

I also never know what to think of it. Get PO or find it hilarious. I lean towards the first because well... I am a Taurus hihi, and I do find it presumptuous.

Now it this happened with great guys... but it's always men I wouldn't even want if they were the last specimen with a penis on the planet, lol.

You girls have this happen as well?



I guess this maybe some guys tactical approach, in the hope, that in stating you live too far away, results in a reply saying no, distance doesn't matter. Receiving a positive reply.

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Sun 02/22/26 11:17 AM


To everyone here in Mingle2. waving

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Tue 02/17/26 01:59 AM
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Tue 02/17/26 01:55 AM
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Tue 02/17/26 01:31 AM
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Mon 02/16/26 01:41 AM
It does cost money to add security to your home, whatever you choose, indoor PIRs, door sensors, outside alarm siren, outdoor lighting, security cameras, warning stickers and signs. If you have ever had your home burgled, its not just what they steal, but the feeling you have for sometime afterwards knowing someone has been in your home. Having had that experience, I have good security and in my opinion its needed today more than ever here in the UK. Stay safe.

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Sun 02/15/26 03:24 AM
Thank you all for the kind thoughts.

Maybe next year I will have found 'the one'. smile2

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Sun 02/15/26 03:20 AM
Thank you all for your kind thoughts. Maybe next year I will be with 'the one', you never know your luck here in Mingle2.

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Sat 02/14/26 03:18 AM
I didn't receive a valentine card again this year, well not as yet, but I'm not dating anyone. I just thought there may be a secret admirer out there. Hope you all do better than me.

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Mon 02/09/26 01:47 AM
Sure is! Good luck in your search.

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Mon 02/09/26 01:38 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Mon 02/09/26 01:40 AM
Sounds like you are promoting moving to another site. whoa

I agree relationships traditionally were different at their beginning, no internet back in the day, and I think most people had patience to give time for a relationship to grow or not. These days not so much, either online or in the real world, no patience in my opinion, seems more like an instant society. A few dates then talk marriage, does not make for a good start, taking more time to really get to know each other in person is the best way. If in a long distance relationship starting from online, you need to see each other as often as possible in the real world, and keep in very regular contact online to learn about each other before taking any big steps such as relocating, again taking time so both people are certain. Good luck in your search here, and wherever you choose to search.

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Sun 02/08/26 12:57 AM
Try 'Realms' on here, see menu at the top. Good Luck.

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Sun 02/08/26 12:23 AM
That is interesting.

I wonder if I will receive a "Valentines Card" from a woman this year.happy

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Tue 02/03/26 01:11 AM
I think you need to chat online just long enough to decide they are real and you want to meet in real life, then the sooner the better in my opinion. I once met someone online who said they would be happy to go on a date with me, but it would never be any more than dating. They were at least honest. I declined, because I would like to think when dating that it could become something more serious, that is why I wanted to date her. I am still not sure whether I did the right thing, maybe I should have just enjoyed the date, it just seemed over for me before it even started. My profile photos on here are age progressive, I have been on here that long. laugh I love the forums.

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Sun 02/01/26 03:05 AM
It could be lust.

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Fri 01/30/26 12:56 AM

So many other social platforms to choose from, maybe they have taken people away from the dedicated dating and social sites like Mingle2. The forums here are all great, not many similar sites have them, and they do provide a good place to meet people in my opinion, long may it continue.

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Tue 01/27/26 11:46 AM
Make it so.

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