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Of course I value intamcy over sex. I am not an animal; but an intelligent person. As for you laughing; I doubt it you just seem to mask it with words. Does it make you feel superior to put someone down? I see that time and time again in your posts. I feel sorry for you as you are such a sad man. You think talking down to others on this site makes you a better person but it doesn't. I comprehend quite well and I don't need to get over myself as I am just responding to the tripe you are writing. I am just trying to figure out who messed with your head. As I've said in other threads, I denigrate the posts that I feel are illogical or ignore the facts. I do that, because we seem to condone in adults, behavior we would not accept from children. Namely entering into a conversation in which the person has no idea of what they are talking about. The fact that you value intimacy over sex is great. I applaud the fact that you are normal in that regard. It doesn't change the fact that I wasn't the one who said that many independent women have the same hierarchy of needs as men. I looked at your profile and it explains a lot about who you are. You even look bitter on your pictures. Try a smile and lighten up. I have Asperger's Syndrome, so I don't smile a lot. That's doesn't mean I'm not happy. That's what I mean about your "reading between the lines". You look at a picture of an autistic man and assume he must be unhappy. Maybe you should wait until you get to know someone before you start trying to diagnose what is wrong with this life? oh have I touched a nerve? Good, now you know what it feels like. You should also wait to get to know a person before making assumptions about independent women. Incidentially your facts are based on your experiences but that doesn't make them facts; just experience. I would love to stay here and argue with you but I have to go out an be indpendent and fix my deck. Then off for a nice bike ride to enjoy a sunny day. You go ahead and sit behind your computer all day and whine to whoever listens. You are not getting any sympathy from me. 
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If I may point something out....Not saying this to be offensive...just a casual observation. You guys seem wound awfully tight and kinda clenched up. Just a thought....among the people who I do hang out with. Do your thing....just consider relaxing and maybe laughing occasionally.
This message will self destruct in 5....4.....3.....2... |
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oh have I touched a nerve? Nah, I was just testing you to see if you had any normal female feelings. Have a nice day. Just because I disagree with you and think you are irrational and over reactive, doesn't mean I wish you any ill will. 
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Take it easy guys we are family,besides this is about giving different views.Take what u want and leave what u don't.My opinion is thi;it depends with the circumstance that led one to be indepentant,if its by choice the curriculum for such scenario advocates for singleness,total freedom and most probably multi-patners as in most cases Edited humuh sunday 17-07-2011
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Well done Gentlemen!
Spider... Mr. Hum.... Well spoken. You get respect points for that. (they only count with me....but, I am running for Emporer...think about it) |
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Stepping away from this thread now....
I leave saying this.... You guys are trying way too hard. Seriously. You are your own worst enemies. We all have good vocabularies. We all have good and desirable attributes...... Accept the fact that the common denominator in your failed relationships is you. Make your changes there. |
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Edited by
Spidercmb
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Sun 07/17/11 10:38 AM
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It would be nice if he could have "personal experience" with a dictionary. What did I spell wrong? While dictionaries are good for finding correct spellings, they are well known for containing definitions of these words so that we can all communicate effectively. Youve decided that because you have personal experience with independent women who were also bitchy, that independent and bitchy have the same definition. I didn't say that. I said I've met independent women who were just "bitchy, impossible to please and flaky". I didn't say all. That's a problem that I'm seeing repeatedly in these forums, people are adding meanings to my posts that I clearly didn't intend that then becoming outraged at me. It's kind of funny that adults can't seem to address the actual arguments made by others in a discussion. This is like me thinking that chubby and mysogynistic have the same definition if Ive had a personal experience connecting the two adjectives. Yeah, I have some extra weight. But I've lost 43 pounds this year and I'll lose the rest by this time next year at the latest. I've lost 13 pounds since my profile picture was taken. So your cracks don't bother me, I know the problem exists and I'm taking action to fix it. |
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For me, the reason why some other independent women are still single because they don't want men to depend on them in any case,,,,I think you know what I mean. Most of that kind of women are so choosy/picky,,,, they may seem what we call perfectionist but they were just more concern on "how" the man would treat them in future.
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Wooo ,i cnt jus believe my post caused ths much controverse ! calm dwn guys u dnt nid 2 b on each other-s throats ! like humuh said,we are a family !lets enjoy e discusions ok ! peace ,mwaah !
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singmesweet said earlier... Many women want the same things on the list you have for men. singmesweet now says... I don't think most independent woman fit what he's saying, actually. Women who think like men are more likely to cheat. If sex is her top priority, she makes her own money and she isn't concerned with Honesty, that's the perfect formula for cheating. I was just working with what you gave me, but now you want to pretend you never made this statement? Or is it that you want to ignore the implications of what it would mean to be a woman who valued sex over intimacy? That's still a load of bs. Just because some women want the same things you listed that men want, it doesn't mean they can't be honest. Perhaps you should stop generalizing based just on your personal experience. |
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It ain't like that my friend.
Around here...people speak thier mind and then tommorrow we laugh together again on different stupidities. Sure we bark and snap....what pack of dogs doesnt? at days end....when differences are set aside....everyone here are basically friends. |
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I don't value sex over being the person I am as it simply isn't the cornerstone of a relationship. I figured that out years ago. All I am saying is independence needn't be a bad thing. You are reading between the lines of my post and that's a bad thing. I didn't say what you think I said. Just read the words, don't try to understand what else I'm thinking. singmesweet said that "many" independent women share the same hierarcy of needs as men. I DIDN'T SAY THAT, SHE DID. GO TO PAGE TWO TO SEE THAT SHE DID, IF YOU NEED TO. That would mean that such women valued sex over honesty, intimacy and building a family. I'm talking to HER about what SHE said. Such women are more likely to cheat. YOU said "I don't value sex over being the person". WHAT? So you value intimacy over sex? Wow, you are a woman who has the normal hierarchy of needs and I'm not talking about you! Get over yourself and/or work on your reading comprehension. you are just a bitter man This isn't about me. Singmesweetly stated that some women shared the same hierarchy of needs as men, I was addressing that statement. Besides, I don't have time to be bitter, I'm too busy laughing. Actually, I said some women want the same things as men. I never said anything about lacking honesty. You threw that in there, I didn't. So please, don't put words into my mouth just to make this argument suit your needs. Just because you favor sex over honesty does not mean everyone else works the same. Many are able to be honest while enjoying sex. If you're unable to do that, perhaps that's something you need to work on. |
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You just aint gonna play along........
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When it comes down to it, men who are intimidated by independent woman, for whatever reason, are not going to change their minds. They're still going to want women who need them all the time, or who will at least pretend to need them. There's nothing wrong with that. There will absolutely be other men out there who do want and appreciate independent women.
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Why I love independant ladies.....
I can deal with my own personal catastrophies with encouragement instead of demands. When love is thrown out there to an equal and it is returned with extra love....that is the love of a soul just willing to take the chance....that should be respected, Independant ladies just got a thang going for them. I like it. Then again, I like tough women. |
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When it comes down to it, men who are intimidated by independent woman, for whatever reason, are not going to change their minds. They're still going to want women who need them all the time, or who will at least pretend to need them. There's nothing wrong with that. There will absolutely be other men out there who do want and appreciate independent women. The same can be said of weak women/men...... That got nothing to do with male/female...... You either attract parasites or you don't. |
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We all have different preferences. Some include being needed more than others. Or having others do things more often for them. The same thing isn't going to work for everyone. There's no need for anyone to bash anyone else because of their preferences. And no need to put someone down for being independent just because of some personal experience.
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I was just trying to prevent a newbie getting his @$$ kicked cause he doesn't understand procedures.
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I have no idea who you're talking about. The one who was putting down independent women is not new.
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Curtey.....
I am standing up for a man with limited experience who don't need to get tore up by the locals. Deal with it. Consider being friendly.....just a thought. |
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