The real answer is that every guy wants to have sex no matter if they are looking for a meaningful realtionship or not. it goes for me too. we all think about sex. If that woman has something more that makes a man feel like having more with her than just sex, then you'll know. He will show it. A woman wont be able to tell rite away. i doubt men can tell rite away either. It all takes time. Dont worry bout wat the other sex really thinks of you. Dress how u feel or like. Of course u wanna be clean and presentable, who doesnt. But @ the same time you dont wanna have to change urself cuz others dont like it. srry i rote so much.

dudes basicly got it

i dont want to have sex with any girl till i know im goin to stay with her, but i cant lie and say i dont want or think about it.

and bottom line just b urself on both sides, bein urself will atract just that, wen if u go out like a nerd ur prob gettin a nerd, wen if u go out like a hooker ur prob gettin a pimp. lol not tryin to b rude.

and the body on its own can tell u alot. not just in looks either.

Nothing! I wouldn't think of having intercourse ( not screw or f**k) with a woman I didn't have a meaningful relationship with. And I don't start dateing a woman just to have sex with them.

So am I strange?

Ron

Asking me, I'm done with this option. Used to be such an option when i was 10yrs younger.






























Now I just want to screw everyone.






















Just Kidding. Don't worry.



























I'm not done with those options yet.

to me, i agree with what other guys say, when a girl is giving you lots of sex, well...it's hard not to want that, let alone pursue a relationship with the girl that's putting herself out for you in that way, but it's not everything.

For me, if a lady has a beautiful smile, and can laugh and be genuine then I would think about a dating her. If she's dressing like a tramp, then that leads me to believe that all she wants is sex. If she doesn't know how to dress properly then she needs a mother figure to teach her or she needs to go to charm school.

i don't really care whether or not if she dresses like a tramp or a lady, it's her personality that counts

I guess I am the odd ball I just want to make love to the woman that wants to share everything about her life with me and the other way around. I never cared for one night stands even when I was younger

Well, I'm not surprised that there are many different answers here. But let me see if I get the gist...

Dress in a comfy, casual way that's clean and not trampy but still womanly. Check.

Be genuinely happy, open, and gregarious. Check.

Be myself. Check.

Now, to figure out how these vocal chords of mine work when men are around.

Well I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone I didn't want to screw. Also I don't see really wanting to screw anyone I couldn't see myself in a relationship with.

You aren't the only oddball then. I was and am the same way.

if you want my honest opinion, not meaning to sound rude, but one thing about you that would make me cautious if looking for a date is that you're sticking your tongue out...not to be prejudiced, but in my experience most girls that do that are just really like..."I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks i'm just going to be me". a great way to be, but the bottom line is, it can be an insensitive attitude to have. not saying that's who you are, but it's how it all comes across.

hey snarky

you forgot one

Hang out with the same asshh89&!*(le again after 4 years of drama...CheCk

Ohhh Billy! Jealous? Ya shouldn't be. Seriously I thought about you all night, actually... honest possum. And at the same time I kept thinking, "WTH Jess? He's HOW far away? Ya DORK!" So thanks. Ya effed me up real good. Happy?

Little pic history here...

That was taken the summer after my divorce. I was sitting in my friend's house, depressed. I got mad at myself for letting myself wallow in self-pity, and snapped the pic at me sticking my tongue out at myself.

It cheered me up. I love that pic.

I only pay the girls I just view as a screw?



<<<--- Does not just screw for screwing sake . . . anymore.

hey i'm 43 and i still have to remember how they work! i would say maturity, that is the difference for me. immature individuals are not long term prospects. tantrums are not attractive.