Topic: OK, for the guys...
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Tue 07/14/09 11:48 PM


... What, for you, is the difference between a girl who you want to date (IE try something meaningful with), and a girl you think of as just a screw?


I actually don't want to "screw" anybody that isn't important to me...of course I've made the mistake of screwing someone that was of utter uselessness to my life, but that didn't become apparent until after. Besides I'm just looking for friends, my failure rate of relationships is appalling.




Hey Jessi thats my buddy Billy

He's cool...believe what he says to be true....well....not all of it, he is a cynic

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Tue 07/14/09 11:51 PM
Edited by snarkytwain on Tue 07/14/09 11:52 PM




apparently i ask for too much. (been told this in the past)


By who? Have people (friends or girls), given you a "number"? Are you wanting a girl with a higher "number"?

Is all this number stuff total BS?


it's not about the number, it's about the qualities. i'd like a girl who i find attractive and who's smart and classy. a non-smoker, light drinker, extrovert who is even tempered and has a job. a woman between the ages of 25 and 35, preferably without kids(but 1 or 2 is ok), who likes to chill at home with me on the couch most nights. and of course i want a girl who likes me the way i am, is physically attracted to me enough to desire to have sex with me and who is honest and faithful.

that's about it. oh yeah, it'd be great if she had nice teeth.


. . .


We all have the one we imagine. Don't give up on her.

You didn't reply to mine...Why not?


Wasn't much to reply babe. :wink:

I actually don't want to "screw" anybody that isn't important to me...of course I've made the mistake of screwing someone that was of utter uselessness to my life, but that didn't become apparent until after. Besides I'm just looking for friends, my failure rate of relationships is appalling.


It's funny. I'm at this really weird place in my life atm. I love the idea of having a crush, being in love, marriage... But if I think of individiual men as a whole, I just... fizzle and die.

Men have REALLY disapointed me. frown

Hey Jessi thats my buddy Billy

He's cool...believe what he says to be true....well....not all of it, he is a cynic


Gotcha. :wink: I'm pretty cynical too.

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Tue 07/14/09 11:55 PM



We all have the one we imagine. Don't give up on her.



it's like sandra bullock in practical magic. she wanted a guy with all of these impossible traits, then at the end of the movie she gets him.

life ain't a movie.


. . .

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Tue 07/14/09 11:56 PM




We all have the one we imagine. Don't give up on her.



it's like sandra bullock in practical magic. she wanted a guy with all of these impossible traits, then at the end of the movie she gets him.

life ain't a movie.


. . .


No it's not. But we can have hope. Always have hope.

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Tue 07/14/09 11:57 PM



poking random hot chicks to satisfy the urge seems like treating them like toilets. in that equation they're just some object to aim a bodily function at. you don't take the toilet out for breakfast or miss it when you use another one.


(btw, i'm saying that's a bad thing )


So I THINK you're saying that you don't have sex unless you already respect and like her?





it's like any other fun activity. it's more fun with someone you enjoy being with otherwise. i love vegas but i'm not going there with someone i don't like to be around.

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Tue 07/14/09 11:59 PM

It's funny. I'm at this really weird place in my life atm. I love the idea of having a crush, being in love, marriage... But if I think of individiual men as a whole, I just... fizzle and die.

Men have REALLY disapointed me. frown


I find people in general to usually be disappointing, at least in the states. Some people are genuinely good people, but most just seem to have a head full of air and helium...apparently not enough helium to get them to float away...and then my theory that there is a drop of cyanide in the gene pool for every person born, but that probably isn't true and I was never really good at science anyway so I'm probably way off.

By the way, my name is Duane...not Billy, we pull that on new people and they start on calling me Billy. Started ever since Billy thought for whatever reason my name was Billy.laugh laugh

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Wed 07/15/09 12:05 AM
Edited by BillySuvol on Wed 07/15/09 12:06 AM
He must think youre cute Jessi...cuz he never actually told anyone his real name before bigsmile





















Including me.....cuz maybe if he did I would have stopped calling him Billy drinker Now who is the cynic :banana:

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Wed 07/15/09 12:06 AM





We all have the one we imagine. Don't give up on her.



it's like sandra bullock in practical magic. she wanted a guy with all of these impossible traits, then at the end of the movie she gets him.

life ain't a movie.


. . .


No it's not. But we can have hope. Always have hope.

i've been looking for 15 years. i'm all out of hope.


. . .

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Wed 07/15/09 12:09 AM
Can I count how many comments I see tonight which I believe were typed with the users EYES CLOSED?? noway

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Wed 07/15/09 12:23 AM

He must think youre cute Jessi...cuz he never actually told anyone his real name before bigsmile





















Including me.....cuz maybe if he did I would have stopped calling him Billy drinker Now who is the cynic :banana:


I told you my name wasn't Billy, and you still call me Billy!laugh laugh

And I've mentioned my name several times on the forum, you just don't love me enough to look.:cry: :cry:

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Wed 07/15/09 12:36 AM




poking random hot chicks to satisfy the urge seems like treating them like toilets. in that equation they're just some object to aim a bodily function at. you don't take the toilet out for breakfast or miss it when you use another one.


(btw, i'm saying that's a bad thing )


So I THINK you're saying that you don't have sex unless you already respect and like her?





it's like any other fun activity. it's more fun with someone you enjoy being with otherwise. i love vegas but i'm not going there with someone i don't like to be around.


Touche! (Ya like that Billy? :wink: )

I find people in general to usually be disappointing, at least in the states. Some people are genuinely good people, but most just seem to have a head full of air and helium...apparently not enough helium to get them to float away...and then my theory that there is a drop of cyanide in the gene pool for every person born, but that probably isn't true and I was never really good at science anyway so I'm probably way off.


LOL!!!!rofl (First time I used that smiley in AGES.)

My theory is that everyone has depth, but most have shoveled so much **** into their pool that there's nothing left but shallow.

Took a while for me to accept that so very many people are ignorant fools who WANT to be ignorant fools. Still makes me want to cry. tears

By the way, my name is Duane...not Billy, we pull that on new people and they start on calling me Billy. Started ever since Billy thought for whatever reason my name was Billy.


Hi Duane! Yay! I love being inside inside jokes! happy

He must think youre cute Jessi...cuz he never actually told anyone his real name before.


I feel so loved! love

i've been looking for 15 years. i'm all out of hope.


My mom was fifty when she found love. It's never too late.

Can I count how many comments I see tonight which I believe were typed with the users EYES CLOSED??


laugh I like you more and more Mister!

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Wed 07/15/09 12:42 AM
Remember what I said earlier?

Bout people typing with closed eyes???


I've seen it in this thread now 7 times



funny

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Wed 07/15/09 01:02 AM
I said....

"okay ready for your answer?"

You replied,

"Yuppo!"



Which is me warning you that you would have nothing

And then I answered your question....with



Men "date" women and "think of just as a screw" them for the SAME EXACT REASONS

Do you really think we are dogs? That all we want is to HUMP?"

Okay, maybe...there are the small percentage of men who are like that. But who cares about them because I do not even consider those people men.

So, the difference is this. When we meet a girl we ask ourselves some questions. And they are ALL different for ALL men. Some of the questions may be, "Does she like football?" "Does she like my Mom?" "Does she like Video Games?" "Will she lick my nipples and not make it a big deal?"

Now, if this girl...in his opinion allows him to answer YES to those questions, whatever they may BE, she then goes from "just a screw" to "possible" girlfriend.....

So, you girls bigsmile :banana:

Its your choice, not ours :heart:



And you said...................



Wait... but... that's what GIRLS do! frustrated So then what the hell?

I must be doing something majorly wrong here. ohwell





And...

That was your answer???


Like, next subject?

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Wed 07/15/09 01:08 AM

I said....

"okay ready for your answer?"

You replied,

"Yuppo!"



Which is me warning you that you would have nothing

And then I answered your question....with



Men "date" women and "think of just as a screw" them for the SAME EXACT REASONS

Do you really think we are dogs? That all we want is to HUMP?"

Okay, maybe...there are the small percentage of men who are like that. But who cares about them because I do not even consider those people men.

So, the difference is this. When we meet a girl we ask ourselves some questions. And they are ALL different for ALL men. Some of the questions may be, "Does she like football?" "Does she like my Mom?" "Does she like Video Games?" "Will she lick my nipples and not make it a big deal?"

Now, if this girl...in his opinion allows him to answer YES to those questions, whatever they may BE, she then goes from "just a screw" to "possible" girlfriend.....

So, you girls bigsmile :banana:

Its your choice, not ours :heart:



And you said...................



Wait... but... that's what GIRLS do! frustrated So then what the hell?

I must be doing something majorly wrong here. ohwell





And...

That was your answer???


Like, next subject?


That WAS my answer. laugh I DID ask "What the hell?" OK, then... here's one. How does a woman even KNOW what questions he's asking himself, and how does she let him answer yes to them?

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Wed 07/15/09 01:41 AM
All of them other than,

Do you want to watch football?

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Wed 07/15/09 01:44 AM

All of them other than,

Do you want to watch football?


You forget, women don't think like men. All of the ones you posted, or all the questions any man could possibly ask himself?

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Wed 07/15/09 01:44 AM


I said....

"okay ready for your answer?"

You replied,

"Yuppo!"



Which is me warning you that you would have nothing

And then I answered your question....with



Men "date" women and "think of just as a screw" them for the SAME EXACT REASONS

Do you really think we are dogs? That all we want is to HUMP?"

Okay, maybe...there are the small percentage of men who are like that. But who cares about them because I do not even consider those people men.

So, the difference is this. When we meet a girl we ask ourselves some questions. And they are ALL different for ALL men. Some of the questions may be, "Does she like football?" "Does she like my Mom?" "Does she like Video Games?" "Will she lick my nipples and not make it a big deal?"

Now, if this girl...in his opinion allows him to answer YES to those questions, whatever they may BE, she then goes from "just a screw" to "possible" girlfriend.....

So, you girls bigsmile :banana:

Its your choice, not ours :heart:



And you said...................



Wait... but... that's what GIRLS do! frustrated So then what the hell?

I must be doing something majorly wrong here. ohwell





And...

That was your answer???


Like, next subject?


That WAS my answer. laugh I DID ask "What the hell?" OK, then... here's one. How does a woman even KNOW what questions he's asking himself, and how does she let him answer yes to them?


You can never really know what a guy is asking himself because it's going to be completely different for each guy.

What I would ask myself, chances are, is going to be vastly different than what Billy would ask himself.

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Wed 07/15/09 01:45 AM
thats exactly what im saying....


thanks man

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Wed 07/15/09 01:46 AM
and it took a man, who understands the 7 and 14 concept of mine to finally understand me

hey sweetheart

touche ;)

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Wed 07/15/09 01:55 AM
Well damn... then I gotta start working on my ESP!