freds that bad? poor fred, at least hes got me. lol

nuts. wait no. ya ok nuts.

yes and both.

im gettin ther! prob not.

wa? got the basics but spokane?

did u hear that too.... think something just went over my head. haha

so this net deal is more or less a way to pass time for most? wat the... ?

but rnt we all here to find some one?

and id think with all the options we have, and the info we give and take, that ther would b a better chance of at least havin a better time on a date then randomly pickin a girl off the streets, that u have absolutely no clue about.

isnt that the whole point of this, that we select and message people who we think r conpatable and after writin each other, gettin to know one another deciding if its right. after all that thers still slim to no chance of havin something worth while come of it?

man that sucks, wow now i realy will plan on never bein with any one. dam. and to think i thought this was goin to b alot easier, and more effective.

for me ther has to b the connection, then atraction.

size only makes a dif wen it effects the personality. on either side of the scale, if u let ur size determine who u r, in my experiances, it tends to make u ugly, no matter wat.

it does say some, but not realy who u r.

i cant stand wen a smaller girl thinks thats all and the most important part, they tend to have that im perfect aditude. get over urself wer all r human (human aka in my mind horrible). the ugliest thing in my books.

or on the other side, despise self pitty. we r who we r cuz we made r selfs that way. wen self awareness becomes self pitty, hate, or discust with ones self is wer i drawl the line. ex. iv had a freind since 2nd grade, we got alone great, had fun, prob would b quite compatiable. but bein a big girl could get over it, she has so many probs cuz of it, mainly addictions to blur reality. shes a pretty girl, realy she is. but just her self perseption is such a turn off. how can i b happy with some one whos not happy with them selfs? and another ex, another freind of mine loves life, her self, and is happy with her size, could b happier (self awareness very thin line), but is so beautifull becouse of it. to bad shes takin.

yes yes. hopefully (key word) ill never jump into anything again.

and i would say, in a long listance sich (for me more than 45 to an hour away), i would want to know for sher (well as sher as we can ever b) that it had great potential, and for me would need to, how can i say this, move, or ?. no matter wat i need my partner at least the next town away.

another good question. iv thought of it but never came to any kind of completed conclution, the sich would have everything to do with it, but who moves or wat?

thers def a dif connection made wen done through writin. completely new for some one like me, iv wrote more in the last few days then all my schoolin. sad i know. but that says alot for all u, getin me to write is one thing, wantin to write dew to good convos, never would have geussed.

man i just cant type fast enough. lol

AND IT FEELS SO GOOD! sorry instantly popped in mind.

i believe everthing happens for a resson. findin the resson is the hard part.

if it looks like one, acts like one, sounds like one ........ well u know.

u wer tryin to get us to drool, haw. good job, with all do respect. yes mam, very much so injoyed it.

come on men! u all havint gone gay right!

most definantly my biggiest goal in life. wats the point if u cant have fun.

i like talkin, i get a 1 min convo done in a min. i am horible at spellin, and it takes me for ever to type words in, and i have a key board ha. my feelins mainly come from the fact that english does not agree with me (i know, its me), but alot of the time my hands r greasy, or so dirty i dont want to reach in my pocket, or drivin (not the smartes thing to do). simple questions, random nonsence, quiet sich's, or wen im realy bis i will text while on speaker.

other wise its a call. for me the tones, laughs, and instant responce give me much more gradifacation. but im a snappy type, get er dun. too many things to do besides spellin words wrong.

thats wat i think. not dating, just finding. u cant go on a date through emails, just comunicate, one of my relationships biggiest voids. mabe good?

why so?
although iv had more fun in the last few days after discovering the community, bein a stoned monkey ramblin bout nonsence then i have ever had on the net.

billy ur great, lmao every time. comedian, def. getin paid, dif story. tell u wat, get a mic and a stage and ill pay. even if ur on an egg crate ramblin through a road cone.

so wen do u ask for the #?
and this net thing def takes a little longer than norm, but depending on wat ur lookin for, it might b a good thing.

i normaly, in the past, have rushed in too many times. takin my time just sounds like a good idea no matter wat. ha gota learn from the past some time.

its always incourageing to hear it acualy worked. that is why most us r here, i think?

food for thought, most us have a general, good list of wat we want. for the most part, in genral, its close if not the same, lovin, loyal, carin, has a brain, exc., exc., on and on. mainly the same, so we should all b conpatible.? but thoughs simple details have a major part in if we ever make contact. good thing? or bad thing? couldnt tell u, just funny how simple things can make the dif.

k so i had no clue wat time it was, and i have a good drive tomorrow.

hate to post and run but i like my truck in one workin piece.

like always good times and thanks for the input. but im goin to sleep.


peace

it might help. the last thing i thought would happin did, how many girls u know think about bare feet and get any other thought but eeww. lol

wer both self imployed, live r own lifes (by own i mean more on r own terms), arent all that social, on at odd times, and realy went to the net as a last resort (so no likey the net). kinda hard for me to judge.