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Maybe the sound of her voice is so grating to him at the moment that he is choosing ignore as a better option than homicide... or going out and getting drunk and meeting a floozy... 
I was just telling someone that when I was younger, at moments like those, I'd say to my lady friend: "Can't you think of a more constructive use for your mouth?" |
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i think being open minded is important to, for one is not always right, some things should be met in a happy middle actually most things should be, sometimes that is impossible, everyone is different. shoot sometimes one is wrong and needs to change their mind too not cause they are told to, but because they didnt realize before the communication and now they are open to move to the other side. if you dont agree and its a very strong subject <not him leaving his socks on the bedroom floor>
then you have to decide if you can live with it or move on ..
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i think being open minded is important to, for one is not always right, some things should be met in a happy middle actually most things should be, sometimes that is impossible, everyone is different. shoot sometimes one is wrong and needs to change their mind too not cause they are told to, but because they didnt realize before the communication and now they are open to move to the other side. if you dont agree and its a very strong subject <not him leaving his socks on the bedroom floor> then you have to decide if you can live with it or move on ..
HMMM ya had to agree with Waterloo by meeting in the middle 
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Maybe the sound of her voice is so grating to him at the moment that he is choosing ignore as a better option than homicide... or going out and getting drunk and meeting a floozy...
I was just telling someone that when I was younger, at moments like those, I'd say to my lady friend: "Can't you think of a more constructive use for your mouth?" omg if i was angry at you and you said that i know id laugh! then maybe mad again... maybe lol... but some women may want to take you up on that offer and decide that its a tough piece of meat they put in their mouth so they have the need to chew harder
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I think adj just wants to argue.
I was joking, for the most part  .
you mean like i was on my first post where the multiple laughing emoticons were in the post and yet it was taken to heart 
my first post in this thread does this not mean that not all but a lot (actually most - your word) of the confrontations must be brung to the forefront by the female in the mix then after all if most mean do not want to be confrontational and do not want to tell you something because it may bring on a confrontation it is obvious then that most confrontations must be initiated by the woman then never thought i would see teh day two women would admit this in such a short time frame less than 3 minutes apart honesty what a breath of fresh air thank you ladies 
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i think being open minded is important to, for one is not always right, some things should be met in a happy middle actually most things should be, sometimes that is impossible, everyone is different. shoot sometimes one is wrong and needs to change their mind too not cause they are told to, but because they didnt realize before the communication and now they are open to move to the other side. if you dont agree and its a very strong subject <not him leaving his socks on the bedroom floor> then you have to decide if you can live with it or move on ..
HMMM ya had to agree with Waterloo by meeting in the middle
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i think being open minded is important to, for one is not always right, some things should be met in a happy middle actually most things should be, sometimes that is impossible, everyone is different. shoot sometimes one is wrong and needs to change their mind too not cause they are told to, but because they didnt realize before the communication and now they are open to move to the other side. if you dont agree and its a very strong subject <not him leaving his socks on the bedroom floor> then you have to decide if you can live with it or move on ..
HMMM ya had to agree with Waterloo by meeting in the middle
the heck with right and wrong, make love not war 
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Maybe the sound of her voice is so grating to him at the moment that he is choosing ignore as a better option than homicide... or going out and getting drunk and meeting a floozy...
I was just telling someone that when I was younger, at moments like those, I'd say to my lady friend: "Can't you think of a more constructive use for your mouth?" omg if i was angry at you and you said that i know id laugh! then maybe mad again... maybe lol... but some women may want to take you up on that offer and decide that its a tough piece of meat they put in their mouth so they have the need to chew harder
Never knew chewing canmake it harder
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i think being open minded is important to, for one is not always right, some things should be met in a happy middle actually most things should be, sometimes that is impossible, everyone is different. shoot sometimes one is wrong and needs to change their mind too not cause they are told to, but because they didnt realize before the communication and now they are open to move to the other side. if you dont agree and its a very strong subject <not him leaving his socks on the bedroom floor> then you have to decide if you can live with it or move on ..
HMMM ya had to agree with Waterloo by meeting in the middle
the heck with right and wrong, make love not war
i can get down with that were you at 
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I believe I am very upfront Singmesweet!Sometimes the woman will find it a bit too much too take and question how I can feel and say the things i believe! Too some it may appear creepy...but to most it paves the way to better relationship!
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Edited by
buttons
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Mon 06/15/09 12:21 PM
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omg lol i think like a tough steak it would make it soft real quick easier to swallow though
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like my best friends says
sometimes it's easier to bullsh1t then to tell the truth
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You know what I'd like to see more of? Men being upfront and honest about things. Now, I'm not saying all men are like this, but from what I've seen and what other women have told me, many men avoid confrontation like the plague. It isn't that difficult to just be upfront about what you're thinking. If something isn't working out, let us know. It can't be that hard. |
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i think being open minded is important to, for one is not always right, some things should be met in a happy middle actually most things should be, sometimes that is impossible, everyone is different. shoot sometimes one is wrong and needs to change their mind too not cause they are told to, but because they didnt realize before the communication and now they are open to move to the other side. if you dont agree and its a very strong subject <not him leaving his socks on the bedroom floor> then you have to decide if you can live with it or move on ..
HMMM ya had to agree with Waterloo by meeting in the middle
the heck with right and wrong, make love not war
i can get down with that were you at
I'm down here
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You know what I'd like to see more of? Men being upfront and honest about things. Now, I'm not saying all men are like this, but from what I've seen and what other women have told me, many men avoid confrontation like the plague. It isn't that difficult to just be upfront about what you're thinking. If something isn't working out, let us know. It can't be that hard. I'm sure it can. I don't have issues like this with women, which is why I was speaking specifically about men. |
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 I'm sorry OP (singsmesweet) for taking this topic off course
but it was all Buttons fault and Waterloo - my mind just wandered right into the gutter. |
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You know what I'd like to see more of? Men being upfront and honest about things. Now, I'm not saying all men are like this, but from what I've seen and what other women have told me, many men avoid confrontation like the plague. It isn't that difficult to just be upfront about what you're thinking. If something isn't working out, let us know. It can't be that hard. I'm sure it can. I don't have issues like this with women, which is why I was speaking specifically about men. |
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Maybe the sound of her voice is so grating to him at the moment that he is choosing ignore as a better option than homicide... or going out and getting drunk and meeting a floozy...
I was just telling someone that when I was younger, at moments like those, I'd say to my lady friend: "Can't you think of a more constructive use for your mouth?" that is kinda a compromise if she goes down some you will come up some is that what yer saying waterloo
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The people I have been around that complain about this are so confrontational and 'offensive' that their partners simply avoid the conversation because the consequences are two high and they realize from experience that they will lose any argument anyhow. And I don't blame either one of them. People need to find compatible partners.
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You know what I'd like to see more of? Men being upfront and honest about things. Now, I'm not saying all men are like this, but from what I've seen and what other women have told me, many men avoid confrontation like the plague. It isn't that difficult to just be upfront about what you're thinking. If something isn't working out, let us know. It can't be that hard. I'm sure it can. I don't have issues like this with women, which is why I was speaking specifically about men. I didn't say anything about waiting around for answers. I just said it would be nice to see more being upfront. |
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