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Edited by
salvatore35
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No, it isn't my objective. However, it's obvious that a lot of what you say is to get reactions from people. I can't take that seriously. But if ever there was a miscommunication...you just stepped right into it. Mabey if partners would only listen to the heart...and stop what the mind wants to hear....relationships would thrive! I've tried communicating in your other thread and anytime someone disagreed with you, you'd say they were full of hate. So you weren't the best at communication either, were you?  And for anyone who is wondering what she is taliking about..it is called WE ARE ALL ONE.I invite you all to read the pages and find that quote. I expect to hear from you soon singmesweet. You can bash my idea's but don't ever lie about me...I am here now and challenge you!FIND IT! |
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Not only didn't i say that...but i believe a mod should be informed about you for lying about me in a thread!
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Not only didn't i say that...but i believe a mod should be informed about you for lying about me in a thread! |
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Woah dude. I'm not trying to lie about you. Relax.
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Edited by
salvatore35
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Mon 06/15/09 02:02 PM
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Woah dude. I'm not trying to lie about you. Relax. I am sorry for getting this topic off thread.i will leave you now! |
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going to say this again. this thread and many other threads are good examples of why someone might not communicate. I have seen many times when someone gives opinions/feelings/beliefs....they are jumped on. now i'm not talking about the offensive posts...i'm talking about genuine feelings. they are told they are wrong or there are arguments etc. My profile is a good example of this -- women write and tell me I'm WRONG for having standards and preferences and for being outspoken about them. But isn't it better for me to lay all that out right up front so everybody KNOWS whether there's any point in contacting me in the first place? Apparently, that concept is too deep for some. IMO....when I see a profile like that...whether I agree or not...i can respect it. at least I know where you stand. I used to have my i'm your girl/i'm not your girl on my profile (when i was looking) and someone emailed me telling me i was demanding lol i emailed him back saying...then i'm not your girl |
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Woah dude. I'm not trying to lie about you. Relax. I am sorry for getting this topic off thread.i will leave you now! |
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Lex...on the flip side of that.... there are some that don't put a lot of info like that on their profile. and if someone doesn't like lack of info...they can move on as well
it's all about differences. finding someone that communicates the way i do would help the relationship. i don't want someone that loves drama anymore than i want someone that i have to guess |
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yep a lot want to not agree to disagree
just like the picture debate i have made many points as why i have no picture and still get attacked for it i give the privilege of seeing my picture to those i wish no one has the right to see a picture of anyone and that goes on and on it will be another new thread or 2 in the next month about it |
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Lex...on the flip side of that.... there are some that don't put a lot of info like that on their profile. and if someone doesn't like lack of info...they can move on as well Sure, and that's OK, too. But I appreciate having that sort of information right up front because it can be a big help in figuring out if this is someone I would want to know more about. But in the ABSENCE of this relevant information, my "default setting" is to presume that the person is far more mainstream than I am -- it's a safe enough assumption, given that I have yet to run across more than a handful who aren't! -- it's all about differences. finding someone that communicates the way i do would help the relationship. i don't want someone that loves drama anymore than i want someone that i have to guess Exactly. Finding someone that communicates the way I do would be a freaking miracle. But it would be nice.... |
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yep a lot want to not agree to disagree just like the picture debate i have made many points as why i have no picture and still get attacked for it i give the privilege of seeing my picture to those i wish no one has the right to see a picture of anyone and that goes on and on it will be another new thread or 2 in the next month about it |
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yep a lot want to not agree to disagree just like the picture debate i have made many points as why i have no picture and still get attacked for it i give the privilege of seeing my picture to those i wish no one has the right to see a picture of anyone and that goes on and on it will be another new thread or 2 in the next month about it dont tell it still is on occasion but not often and not for very long |
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Lex...on the flip side of that.... there are some that don't put a lot of info like that on their profile. and if someone doesn't like lack of info...they can move on as well Sure, and that's OK, too. But I appreciate having that sort of information right up front because it can be a big help in figuring out if this is someone I would want to know more about. But in the ABSENCE of this relevant information, my "default setting" is to presume that the person is far more mainstream than I am -- it's a safe enough assumption, given that I have yet to run across more than a handful who aren't! -- it's all about differences. finding someone that communicates the way i do would help the relationship. i don't want someone that loves drama anymore than i want someone that i have to guess Exactly. Finding someone that communicates the way I do would be a freaking miracle. But it would be nice.... i would like to see more info myself...but that is me. it's all about differences. i have yet to find someone like me when it comes to communicating lol. because of things in my life...i tend to try to handle it myself. i'm trying to learn to let others help...even if it's just to lend an ear. i suspect i'm more like a guy than anything (except physically lol) that is why i understand the man's point of view more |
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I think the point of this thread has been lost. Basically, I just said I'd like to see more men being upfront about things, rather than avoiding them. That really could be said about anyone, in all kinds of scenarios. Not necessarily dating only.
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I would like to see more woman being upfront
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I would like to see more woman being upfront 
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not only am I upfront but I like to keep things short and sweet
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not only am I upfront but I like to keep things short and sweet Have I seen you on an episode of "Next"?   You know I love you Fran! 
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not only am I upfront but I like to keep things short and sweet Have I seen you on an episode of "Next"? You know I love you Fran!  so many other ways  to profess your love for me  
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i prefer to be up front
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