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Edited by
msmyka
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Pshhhh don't you ladies know by now that ignoring something until it goes away solves EVERYTHING?
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Pshhhh don;t you ladies know by now that ignoring something until it goes away solves EVERYTHING? So that's what these guys are hoping for! 
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Edited by
salvatore35
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Mon 06/15/09 01:22 PM
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You see how a man and woman can mis communicate.I wrote at the end of my last post "But certainly not needed"...you you insist I said it was needed.Singmesweet..i think you ar a great girl.But our interaction is the perfect example of mis communication and goes on all the time with fueding couples. No answer needed..means no answer needed! Sorry. Needed wasn't the right word. Maybe I should have said wanted. But no, you cannot compare us to "feuding couples." We don't know each other at all, other than in the forums. You've had an issue with me ever since I said the whole "I love you" thing was a bit creepy. You keep bringing that up. That's all. So as for having an issue with you...you couldn't be farther from the truth! |
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You see how a man and woman can mis communicate.I wrote at the end of my last post "But certainly not needed"...you you insist I said it was needed.Singmesweet..i think you ar a great girl.But our interaction is the perfect example of mis communication and goes on all the time with fueding couples. No answer needed..means no answer needed! Sorry. Needed wasn't the right word. Maybe I should have said wanted. But no, you cannot compare us to "feuding couples." We don't know each other at all, other than in the forums. You've had an issue with me ever since I said the whole "I love you" thing was a bit creepy. You keep bringing that up. That's all. So as for having an issue with you...you couldn't be farther from the truth! 
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Edited by
yellowrose10
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Mon 06/15/09 01:22 PM
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hmmmmmmmmmmm maybe part of the problem could be that even when given an explanation...it's not enough. the whys and confrontations come in instead of accepting the answer (whether you agree or not) i have been guilty of this in the past....now i just accept it because, really, no one OWES me an answer. it would be nice to get one and understand it, but it's not owed to me going to say this again. this thread and many other threads are good examples of why someone might not communicate. I have seen many times when someone gives opinions/feelings/beliefs....they are jumped on. now i'm not talking about the offensive posts...i'm talking about genuine feelings. they are told they are wrong or there are arguments etc. so with that said...i'm done communicating in this thread...and going to confront fran in some other thread
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You see how a man and woman can mis communicate.I wrote at the end of my last post "But certainly not needed"...you you insist I said it was needed.Singmesweet..i think you ar a great girl.But our interaction is the perfect example of mis communication and goes on all the time with fueding couples. No answer needed..means no answer needed! Sorry. Needed wasn't the right word. Maybe I should have said wanted. But no, you cannot compare us to "feuding couples." We don't know each other at all, other than in the forums. You've had an issue with me ever since I said the whole "I love you" thing was a bit creepy. You keep bringing that up. That's all. So as for having an issue with you...you couldn't be farther from the truth! |
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You see how a man and woman can mis communicate.I wrote at the end of my last post "But certainly not needed"...you you insist I said it was needed.Singmesweet..i think you ar a great girl.But our interaction is the perfect example of mis communication and goes on all the time with fueding couples. No answer needed..means no answer needed! Sorry. Needed wasn't the right word. Maybe I should have said wanted. But no, you cannot compare us to "feuding couples." We don't know each other at all, other than in the forums. You've had an issue with me ever since I said the whole "I love you" thing was a bit creepy. You keep bringing that up. That's all. So as for having an issue with you...you couldn't be farther from the truth! send her flowers, a nice gesture but confrontation will only beget confrontation from singsmesweet - shhh my $ is on her  but I realize you just like getting a rise out of her |
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hmmmmmmmmmmm maybe part of the problem could be that even when given an explanation...it's not enough. the whys and confrontations come in instead of accepting the answer (whether you agree or not) i have been guilty of this in the past....now i just accept it because, really, no one OWES me an answer. it would be nice to get one and understand it, but it's not owed to me going to say this again. this thread and many other threads are good examples of why someone might not communicate. I have seen many times when someone gives opinions/feelings/beliefs....they are jumped on. now i'm not talking about the offensive posts...i'm talking about genuine feelings. they are told they are wrong or there are arguments etc. so with that said...i'm done communicating in this thread...and going to confront fran in some other thread  confront me don't do that I get scared easily |
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You see how a man and woman can mis communicate.I wrote at the end of my last post "But certainly not needed"...you you insist I said it was needed.Singmesweet..i think you ar a great girl.But our interaction is the perfect example of mis communication and goes on all the time with fueding couples. No answer needed..means no answer needed! Sorry. Needed wasn't the right word. Maybe I should have said wanted. But no, you cannot compare us to "feuding couples." We don't know each other at all, other than in the forums. You've had an issue with me ever since I said the whole "I love you" thing was a bit creepy. You keep bringing that up. That's all. So as for having an issue with you...you couldn't be farther from the truth! send her flowers, a nice gesture but confrontation will only beget confrontation from singsmesweet - shhh my $ is on her but I realize you just like getting a rise out of her Yup, he does. He's one of those guys who will say what someone has asked him not to say just to get a reaction. |
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You see how a man and woman can mis communicate.I wrote at the end of my last post "But certainly not needed"...you you insist I said it was needed.Singmesweet..i think you ar a great girl.But our interaction is the perfect example of mis communication and goes on all the time with fueding couples. No answer needed..means no answer needed! Sorry. Needed wasn't the right word. Maybe I should have said wanted. But no, you cannot compare us to "feuding couples." We don't know each other at all, other than in the forums. You've had an issue with me ever since I said the whole "I love you" thing was a bit creepy. You keep bringing that up. That's all. So as for having an issue with you...you couldn't be farther from the truth! send her flowers, a nice gesture but confrontation will only beget confrontation from singsmesweet - shhh my $ is on her but I realize you just like getting a rise out of her Yup, he does. He's one of those guys who will say what someone has asked him not to say just to get a reaction. remember getting your pigtails pulled in elementary school??? I just think he likes you 
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No, it isn't my objective. However, it's obvious that a lot of what you say is to get reactions from people. I can't take that seriously.
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No, it isn't my objective. However, it's obvious that a lot of what you say is to get reactions from people. I can't take that seriously. But if ever there was a miscommunication...you just stepped right into it. Mabey if partners would only listen to the heart...and stop what the mind wants to hear....relationships would thrive! |
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Ya know, the last time I had a something important to say to a girl, I requested that I might be a able to put it in writing. I explained that if I were to attempt to say it right on the spot that I would end up saying something that I would regret. Well, she told me to just say it. So I gave it my best shot. I intended to say that being 'just friends' was not comfortable to me given the feelings I had for her. I intended to have an intelligent conversation on the matter. I wanted her to be as open with me as I had been with her. Butttt... Given my habit for shooting from the hip with my words, I must have said something very wrong. Actually, I know what I said, and would rather not repeat it here. It's been two months since that conversation. That was the last time we spoke. Bahhh, I can almost make it until noon without thinking of her. So, sometimes you need to know when to give someone time to compose their thoughts. I'm sorry - hope things work out Thanks.  At this point, it's only my social quirks (problems?) that keep me from truely moving on. The more I think about it, the more I find that men are easier to be friends with. If only I found them attractive...
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You see how a man and woman can mis communicate.I wrote at the end of my last post "But certainly not needed"...you you insist I said it was needed.Singmesweet..i think you ar a great girl.But our interaction is the perfect example of mis communication and goes on all the time with fueding couples. No answer needed..means no answer needed! Sorry. Needed wasn't the right word. Maybe I should have said wanted. But no, you cannot compare us to "feuding couples." We don't know each other at all, other than in the forums. You've had an issue with me ever since I said the whole "I love you" thing was a bit creepy. You keep bringing that up. That's all. So as for having an issue with you...you couldn't be farther from the truth! send her flowers, a nice gesture but confrontation will only beget confrontation from singsmesweet - shhh my $ is on her but I realize you just like getting a rise out of her |
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going to say this again. this thread and many other threads are good examples of why someone might not communicate. I have seen many times when someone gives opinions/feelings/beliefs....they are jumped on. now i'm not talking about the offensive posts...i'm talking about genuine feelings. they are told they are wrong or there are arguments etc. My profile is a good example of this -- women write and tell me I'm WRONG for having standards and preferences and for being outspoken about them. But isn't it better for me to lay all that out right up front so everybody KNOWS whether there's any point in contacting me in the first place? Apparently, that concept is too deep for some. |
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No, it isn't my objective. However, it's obvious that a lot of what you say is to get reactions from people. I can't take that seriously. But if ever there was a miscommunication...you just stepped right into it. Mabey if partners would only listen to the heart...and stop what the mind wants to hear....relationships would thrive! I've tried communicating in your other thread and anytime someone disagreed with you, you'd say they were full of hate. So you weren't the best at communication either, were you? 
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You see how a man and woman can mis communicate.I wrote at the end of my last post "But certainly not needed"...you you insist I said it was needed.Singmesweet..i think you ar a great girl.But our interaction is the perfect example of mis communication and goes on all the time with fueding couples. No answer needed..means no answer needed! Sorry. Needed wasn't the right word. Maybe I should have said wanted. But no, you cannot compare us to "feuding couples." We don't know each other at all, other than in the forums. You've had an issue with me ever since I said the whole "I love you" thing was a bit creepy. You keep bringing that up. That's all. So as for having an issue with you...you couldn't be farther from the truth! send her flowers, a nice gesture but confrontation will only beget confrontation from singsmesweet - shhh my $ is on her but I realize you just like getting a rise out of her oh no you didn't place the exclamation point after my name!!!!!!!!!! making an emphasis I have no need to judge, I said what I thought (and it was funny too). I am not judging you one way or another - you misunderstood, so you please explain. rise = goad lesson over |
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going to say this again. this thread and many other threads are good examples of why someone might not communicate. I have seen many times when someone gives opinions/feelings/beliefs....they are jumped on. now i'm not talking about the offensive posts...i'm talking about genuine feelings. they are told they are wrong or there are arguments etc. My profile is a good example of this -- women write and tell me I'm WRONG for having standards and preferences and for being outspoken about them. But isn't it better for me to lay all that out right up front so everybody KNOWS whether there's any point in contacting me in the first place? Apparently, that concept is too deep for some. Someone is always going to complain. If you did not lay it all out there, some would complain about that. |
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