and HUGS to you Auburngirl..

HUGS back

Hugs around for all our widow'd members.

Good Morning Don

((((Auburn)))), always good to see you.

You too Don

Well, it's about the start of a new work week. Hope everyone has a good one.

Must be a busy week for everyone. Or y'all are out enjoying the summer!

hello guys hope all is will.
tammy

I hope all everyone has a great summer too

HI everybody...hope you have a great day!

I'm having a fantastic summer. But Boy is it HOT here in Alabama. Geez oh man.

I survived my 10th anniversary of being widowed LAST Saturday June 13th. Big milestone day for me. It was manageable. I am moving forward in my life.


And it's the first day of summer today! Who has vacation plans and where to?

Auburn, never gets easier, we just get more practiced at it.
We keep going & that is what counts.
We will always have them in our minds & hearts.
Many blessings to you & know we are always here.

So where ARE all the widowed folks? I worry about you all when I don't see people pop in from time to time.

Doing a motivational weekend,working on me. Woke up this morn, missing Gwen very badly. asking that question, "WHY"????
She was such a good person, beautiful, smart & loved by all that met her. My past is very clouded, is this my prurgatory, payment for my past actions. Are all of our questions answered, at our death?
Just one of those days, I will work through it.

Hugs Don

((((Don)))
Sorry you are so down. We all go through those days ,and although you may have a clouded past as you put it, you have also done a lot of good .
So put on your apron and start cooking!
tomorrow is another day and you have ;lots of friends who love you!(even me) you old fart!

How did you knopw I had beans, the other nite?
Pervert, peeking in my windows.

I have had those thoughts that if I had been a better person but I know my mate would have kicked my behind for thinking that. I can say this because we talked about our son's illness being punishment.

He would have laughed and said he was the punishment then looked over the top of his glasses, put his hands behind his back, and asked me who gave me life and death power. Did I get to choose who lives or dies is sick or well. He would remind me that being human was the deal. Sometimes we will screw up and others hopfully have our act together but being perfect, or imperfect, didn't make him the prize. He didn't want to live up to that. Then he would ask me if the "big guy" didn't forgive us for our sins?

Yeah the big guy forgive us.

Just felt the need to send out hugs to all of you.
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