You can't forget it, it is a part of your life. Many pathes in this life. Don't give up on love again :)

How are you doing Greeneyes? Sad to hear that Captain. Hugs Silver, Deepheart, Sage, Martha, Trout, Auburn And all who stop by this thread this holiday (((((((((())))))))))

how are you there carold

doing okay

Hello everyone

Hello all. I have lost too many people.

I lost my dad in '98, my best friend and colleague in 2002, my brother became a Valentine angel in 2003, my husband died suddenly in July, 2003 and now I've suffered the worst loss of all, my first born son who was only 29 years old died Feb 10th, 2009.

ohhhhh///


dear Lady I read about this in another thread


but i wasn't able to reply at the time


i am sooo sorry Honey ....


i know that nothing can soothe your broken heart


and i only wish that life wasn't so darn painful


this has got to be the worst kind of pain imaginable


and my love & heart & prayers are with you



My dear Sister



God Bless Her Son's Soul


& keep him safely wrapped in Your love


and in the warm & ever present Love of Christ


& in the Light & Company of Heavenly Angels










& Comfort this loving Mother


who has suffered and is suffering the most painful loss of all

Going on 11 years now for me .... One of my best friends husband passed away a year ago January.
She asked me how I've made it through this pain. I told her I can now describe it like going down the road and be hit by a truck and getting knocked in the ditch, and finally being able to climb out of that ditch feeling numb and try to get back on the road, hurt, lost and trying to find the right path, road again.
The scenery is never the same.
Death of a loved one either husband, wife, mother, father, or child, leaves you with this feeling, its how I describe it for me.

Bless you Rapunzel, and thank you so much for the prayers. Huge hugs for you.

Love and prayers sent to you artcat, I can't even imagine losing a child.. Makes me tear up just to think obout it.. I lost both my husband then my mom in 2007.. That was a very hard time for me.. I have received love and support from family and friend and I am doing very well, moving on with my life.. But you never forget them..

Within a yr of my husbands passing, 5 of his friend passed also.. They would all go to McD's every evening for coffee and talk.. His best friend passed just 6 wks after ****.. We wives say they are all doing the same thing in heaven, looking down and helping up on our way...

Thank you Silver.
I'm glad you are doing well since your losses. I too had healed from all of mine though it's very true that we never forget.



I'm sure they are all watching over you ladies!

Artcat heard about this too. Very hard to go through must be terrible. Tears come just to read it and being a mother too. Big Hugs

I need and want to thank you all for being so kind and supportive. We all can relate to each other and it helps to have "this site" and "these friends"...thank you for letting me be able to get my feelings and emotions out where its easier sometimes....if only we could "group hug"!...well, here goes....

"GROUP HUG EVERYONE"


Will Go On

Big Hugs & much Love Back to You ~ my Sister


May the Lord be here for you & carry you soo tenderly


when your own feet are having trouble standing & walking


May He keep you somehow buffered


from this all - encompassing Loss


& protect you from this unceasing pain in your heart


the Pain that leaves you not night or day ..


and May you be kept Safe & warm & comforted


In the Secret place of Our Most High God


and i pray that only good people come into your life


those who will be so very gentle & kind & considerate


& only there to help you & bring you company & comfort

I lost my wife from lupus on Dec 16th 07 just over a year ago it's really tuff and if you have teenagers like I do, I learned I had to be even tougher, Lost my mother a year before that and we where real close, cause my dad died when I was 8 yrs old. The one thingI have learned is no matter what you have to keep going stay strong it would be real easy to crawl into a bottle pills or even worse hard drugs.Holidays suck but with a lil effort we can find happyness.Thats what they would want, that is for us to be happy and to enjoy what time we have left! Sorry kinda went every where with this.

Sorry for your loss. I know it can be tough. I lost my husband 8 years ago. My really tough month is coming up. Both our birthdays plus our anniversary is in May. I try to be up beat, but it still drags me down. But as you said, our loved ones would want us to be happy. Hang in there...it does get a little better. Baby steps.

Welcome Golden seems so young to lose someone and for the kids. Know your are going through allot Hugs

Hey everybody!!!

So glad to see y'all have kept this going!!!

Welcome to all who are new since I've been on and I'm sorry you need to be here.

This is a great place to talk with people who get it.

Hugs all around!

Hello Sister and Welcome back Auburn Girl


I saw that you were gone and i hoped all was well with you