I'm working on a foolproof screening proccess. Its still in development....but its fun mastering the proccess!

I feel much younger and sometimes im ashamed of it frankly....lol I dont feel 40 at all!!!!

This is the key, find someone you enjoy outside of sex! If you just like kicking it with them you wont get bored. I have this issue, i really love the girly girl type, but they tend to have little in common with me! Wheres the princess that likes to do guy things?????????? Gosh i wish i could find her!!!!!!!

idk but almost everyone i have met on here my first impressions where often incorrect as far as the details of their character. So even if you wanted this i think you would be missing out to say the least to set boundries on who you meet. but this one the ladies set "NIC" i would consider the one exception. Besides i have never in my life met a woman that acctually has been able to do this without emotion even when they say they can.

lol this is so true and have to admit my number has been pulled before and even though its not always intentional you have to ponder wether your statements are acctually you in a real life scenerio. and i admit not always in my case they are more like good intentions....lol but very good observation.

with complete liberty and death!

Okay based on the content of this thread i would like to share some information make people feel safer. I have a drgree in Computer science and there are ways to make it near impossible for someone to hack your computer. keep in mind that i am no computer guru i acctually never worked for long in computers. but hopefully this information will help people secure their computers and more importantly their families.

Computers send packets of information across data lines and in every packet there is an address. What they call a mac address. this info can be traced and back to you. it is all encrypted but not difficult to dycipher. however they sell software that encrypts this info in a way that makes it near impossible to get passed. thats only part of the equation because they can still hack in to your computer and steal info. So thats why we have firewalls, i sujest using two firewalls this is difficult to setup but it can be done without conflict if done properly. what a secondary firewall accomplishes is the algorythm that is attempting to get thru does not realize that it has got passed the first firewall and it moves on and never acctually gets thru. So I know that you can very cheaply make your computer near perfectly secure. Ofcourse there is no way to ever make it completely secure. But you can make it near impossible. i hope this helped and i am sure there may be better ways but this is how i secure my computer!

I stand by my statement! I am sorry cause i can see your trying to avoid a dog fight but the reality is neither of us have enough information to make a sound judgement. So i think its better to just give eachother the benefit of doubt.

well im glad you dont like it..... I think the state is quite improved by your feelings

Thank you for the compliment about my son

well the problem is you have been misinformed. The picture i had up was not in anyway a pornagraphic photo and i did take it down. It was just my son with no shirt showing his muscals. i thought it was cute! The rest of your statement i find paranoid and unrealistic. I have in no way endangered my children by posting pictures of them up i know that and to assume otherwise is wrong. there are ways to responsibly use computers without endangering your family and i have already done that so sorry your just not right in my case okay?

well see i am glad i know that i acctually think you are quite attractive and i had an impression you where a very nice person. but now i know to not contact you. see a goal was accomplished in me posting that pic so its not all bad. But you know i have received many compliments on that pic and i am seeking a woman that is comfortable with her sexuality. your photos acctually made me think that you are comfortable with your sexualty so that comment wasnt aimed at you. they are quite sedutive even though they arent showing anything. you see even though you may see me as unattractive i have no problem saying i think you are. You really are limiting yourself though cause i am a wonderful person and i think my greatest quality is my caring heart, so i think your thinking may be causing you to miss out on a wonderful man. not to say thats me but everyone has flaws and you will never find a perfect man. i have been chatting with quite a few people and the one i find the most attractive is for her mind and her heart. Assumptions really limit ones ability to see life as it really is. I am confident and I dont need anyone to tell me who i am and i will be myself and hope that a woman finds me attractive just the way i am. Honestly i almost did not want to post those pics and added them later cause i felt i was being a little brash. but thats just me so in the long run i think i did the right thing. But you know what about the guys that are not as confident as me? Your comments might make them hide in a shell and may do more damage than you intend. Not all people have many options, some have few and its difficult for them to find someone. But you know what for all the woman looking for a male punching bag bring it! I could probably use a little more humility in my life so i really am intrigued by the criticism as long as it is construtive and not without content and filled with malice. I value others opinions and like to know how others see me and i like to know why i can be so misunderstood at times. So pretty lady your comments dim your beauty in my opinion and i hope you can see that as a construtive statement and not an attack. Mr. over anylizing

dont get me wrong i realize this, i also realize that my photo was not the same as the other. i am just saying why do people feel compelled to critisize others? In my opinion this is wrong! I can understand if it was hurting another but if not its not right. Honestly when people do this it makes me think they are gossipy and enjoy talking bad about others and its something i loathe. I have never once thought it was wrong that someone posted any pic. I dont care what it is thats their personality and they are smart to show who they are if they want a good match. I have photos of me up that are hints of who i am and the different sides of my personality. i have half naked photos of myself that i know some woman find shallow and brash. But you see i dont want that woman that sees a photograph and makes such assumptions. I am quite modest acctually I rarely wear revealing clothing it makes me feel uncomfortable unless the surroundings warrant such clothing. I wear suits to work and am usally dressed quite conservative. I am proud of my body though and i know that it helps to find someone when you show that you are concerned about taking care of yourself. Some people are looking for someone they can share this common interest in. Sites making rules is fine i mean the kkk is a legal a orginazation but im not looking to join that orginazation either. I am not offended by others opinions unless they have no real warrant or substance. This i find is really about them not how you offend them. they have this close minded oneness that they see as reality. I myself try to look at ones opinion and see if i am wrong or see their point of view. When someone refuses to admit they are wrong and unwilling to understand that others are entitled to thier opinion is quite mind boggling to me. I mean is it accurate to think that your way is best? Is it right to think someone else is weird or strange cause they see things differently? Does someone have to be stupid or immoral cause they dont share your opinion? Is posting what you dislike really constuctive in anyway if you know that it will offend someone? honestly i think that thier are some on here that are bigoted and unrealistic. try to open your mind to what may be and not so much to what you think you know.

wow i am starting to beleive we live in communist china. Its amazing how restrictive people are and they feel they have the right to make rules or impose there will on others. Sometimes i wonder if people just post to say something and really dont have any real moral coviction at all in there opinion. No logical thought proccess just jump in with there judgement and oponion. Ofcourse their opinion should be imposed on others as well. I dont see any realistic risk what so ever posting a picture. are you saying some perv might masturbate while drooling over my kids picture? How would i ever know? Well i would of never thought of it but thanks for the thought. I think moms are just a little over protective sometimes.... and when i see women with kids in there profile i just think she is showing us her children thats all.... whats the big deal jeez...

This is just not true at all california is a very large state and one of the most diverse places in the world! There is absolutley no truth to that statement other than what you have experienced. Besides L.A. that is shallow central as you describe is filled with a majority people from other places. Its extremely popular for a reason, its because its a wonderful place to live.

i think these photos "these photos i mean musics comment"are beautiful! I love little children!!!!! They are so precious and kissable i just dont get it honestly..... I have an imense love for my children and its really a part of who i am! Quite frankly i am still shocked and confused by the criticism. I dont think i will ever get how people associate nudity and pornography! They are completely two different subjects if you ask me. But the photo i had up was just my son from the belly button up. I thought it was very cute. But i guess some people seen it differently and i dont like that at all. I would hate for someone to see my kid in that way! it infuriates me acctually that someone would do that. Its very offensive! The worst thing you could do is attack someone about their kids ,thats really a low blow!!!!!!!

oh i realize that mirror...but boy i didnt really like getting bunched in with that photograph. oh well....

i am gonna take this photo down, not because its offensive cause frankly i think thats abbsurd. But i dont want my kid to be the subject of such gutter thoughts. Honestly i still dont get this how can anyone look at a child in that way????? How can anyone look at a child and assume that others may see it in that way????? I really dont get it at all it acctually never entered my mind what so ever or i would of never posted it but whatever

thats cool i just dont agree with you and thats okay right? I mean i respect your opinion but i just dont share it, thats all.