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<------- are you talking about this one? Yes, this is one of them. well i would be happy to explain! you see in my opinion this is a cute photo of my son and i dont beleive it shows anything inappropriate. But you see most of us are on here to find a match. I would not want to date a woman that is judgemental or prudish. But the reason i have photos of all my children on my profile is with intent! I itentionally put them there because i want to be clear in no uncertain terms that my children are very important to me and if a woman wants to date me they need to understand that! if they are not interested in loving my children they have no chance with me. Not all women want this and thats fine but just not with me. But you see i understand motives and i am quite perceptive of the intent of some on here to drag people into dog fights for they can complain to mingle. I am also aware of the pesonalities that wish to take their own misery and vicarisouly share it with others. Well i dont except this character flaw and ignore it for the most part, but i do slip sometime i am human. So to all the haters take your life failures and swallow them cause im not gonna eat them. I am sure next will come the disection and assumption posts and thats fine too! I know who i am! As a matter of a fact i am quite confident with who i am! But sweetheart your vicarious and continous insults without logic are not opinion nor fact they are obvious and its clear your opinions are swayed by your malice not your intellect. So lets just agree to disagree and be done with it! |
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<------- are you talking about this one?
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Why do men cheat?
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lol.....F in lol this question is so wrong!
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Thinkingaboutit, Why do you have a shirtless child in your photo? cause thats my son and im proud of him! |
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Edited by
thinkingaboutit09
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Sat 01/24/09 01:59 AM
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OMG how is this possible? I just dont get it! there has to be a woman out there that sees the world as it really is instead of some utopia that doesnt exsist. First of all men think with there little johnny and women like it too. second of all society conditions itself to what sells and sex sells third of all excuses why you dont have time are just excuses yes support one amother, but dont lay your personal insecurities off on someone else. Obviously you are not a man that knows reality when they see it. Raising a family isn't an excuse, it a time consuming reality that I don't regret. It takes rearranging your mindset and it isn't easy as some may think. What I find extremely sexy and wanting more is a man who not only thinks with his johnny but his mind. Men who only think with their johnny come a dime a dozen. 
"It takes rearranging your mindset and it isn't easy as some may think". answer for excuse 1 "its Called discipline" "Obviously you are not a man that knows reality when they see it. Raising a family isn't an excuse, it a time consuming reality that I don't regret". answer for excuse 2 Done it! Oooohhh did i mention i cook, do laundry, and clean too.... yep and i work out. "What I find extremely sexy and wanting more is a man who not only thinks with his johnny but his mind. Men who only think with their johnny come a dime a dozen."[/ I dont beleive that i ever said the word "only" in my comment. This greatly changes the meaning of my comment so plz dont misquote! |
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Edited by
thinkingaboutit09
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Sat 01/24/09 01:47 AM
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Lets dig deeper on this issue, I think the answer is far more intricate then everyone is thinking. One we have lady (who we will call l) so we have l=? Now we add in guy (who we will call g) and we get g=? So now lets start a basic calculation and go with l+g=? Alright so we have this narrowed down to l+g=? now we have too add in issues that can arise...so now we get l+g-q-w-e-r-t-y-a-s-d=? For the full equation that comes too (l+g)-(q-w)-(e-r)-(t-y)-(a-s)-d=whodathunkitstopoverthinkinguselesscrap There you go. 
well i cant say your wrong |
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Edited by
thinkingaboutit09
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Sat 01/24/09 01:29 AM
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Okay i have to tell a story cause im just the shallow jerk
 
I was married young my wife was 19 and i was 21. I spent half my life with her. My wife was 5'9 135 pounds and an extremely nice body. After our first child she started getting self contious. You could not even tell she had a baby one week after giving birth except her boobs got bigger 
I would tell her over and over she looks great, but she insisted on pointing out stretch marks that you needed a spot light to see. Child two she was about 145 pounds after giving birth. Her but was a little larger and so where her boobs
On a daily basis i tried to encourage her and she wasnt self contious but still it was a regular thing about her weight and stuff. Child three again she was about 145 pounds
I always reminded my wife how beautiful she is and that i acctually liked the extra weight it turned me on. Lights during sex became a problem, on and on... My point is it is not always the mans fault and i was a good encouraging husband but its still my fault right? you know i really was telling her the truth too, it didnt bother me in the slightest as a matter of fact her being the mother of my children only made her more desirable to me and i loved her more and more. However this problem persisted and i mean she was a very beautiful woman! I never stopped encouraging her but it gets frustrating!!!!!
Then always with the dim lights and having to okay every outfit over and over. Men are not as shallow as some women portray us to be, it has been my experience this is a womans problem not a man giving it to them. It gets offensive when we cant have an adult conversation about facts without being labeled shallow and bigoted. Sorry ladies but this is a problem more in your mind than in reality. Now if you have a serious weight problem or had some jerk mentally abusing you thats a different matter. Women are attracted to confident men and men are attracted to confident women. It is unattractive to whine and make excuses why you are failing at anything. I am sorry if this offends people but the reality is weight can be controled! Thats a fact!!!!!! so if you cant control yours plz dont asks others to feel sorry for you or expect people do cater to your whoas me crap its wrong! As for the time issue, I like to jog and excersise and i have found that when i excersise my body requires less sleep and i have never not had the time to excersise. I am a single dad with a job and a commutte, i went to college and worked at the same time and still found time. This is about personal preference of your time thats all. so plz stop beating up on us cause we didnt do it. |
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"Whatever"? That's the best you can retort with? Tell me I'm wrong! Don't give me any crap about being "sensitive" to your feelings. Tell me who YOU would rather look at -- the slim, slender, fit guy, or the fat guy? And I don't want to hear any of that bull about "it's what's inside that counts," either. I hate to tell you, but my boyfriend is on the heavy side, but he treats me better than any man ever has, and that is all that matters. good see you found someone that doesnt care about health and excercise good for you! So why the pouting? Why make the person that does work hard to stay in shape the bad guy/girl? because your jealous and its easier to call us shallow than look yourself in the mirror and call yourself fat. just be happy with who you are and stop making other people out to be shallow cause of your faults. this is what im saying, not that heavy people should give a damn what i think but why do fit people have to be shallow when we look for common interests? its about you sweetheart not me thats why and stop laying the guilt trip! I don't recall ever saying I was unhealthy, ever. Don't make assumptions about what you know nothing. I wasn't pouting, just stating facts. And I have nothing to be jealous of, have never been, nor ever will be that way. That's just ridiculous. If there is any guilt it's all on you. It must be hitting pretty close to home to get you all riled up about a simple statement. There is some things I would change about my body, but not much. I won't let any man make me feel unworthy about anything. You seem to have made the wrong assumptions about what I was saying and why I was saying. well i aint stupid and i can read between the lines deny all you want i never say these things ever, but i get tired of the whoas me crap. i post here and say this because its true. i see this "get to know people crap" all day and the lady doesnt even comb her damn hair. so dont tell me im trippin cause the truth hurts and our society could use a good dose of reality Wow, you sure understand women. 
pretty damn perceptive huh? 
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Oh, stow it, Flo! Spare me. You know damn well as I do that if guys whistled and cat-called at you, you be offended as hell and scream harrassment. Damned if we do, and damned if we don't. Why whistle call or cat call? To me that insinuates that you are thinking with your little man in mind. Come over and have a decent conversation that doesn't involve screwing you. If it were easy, there would be no problem. Society conditions us at an early age about what is "sexy" or not "sexy." Raising children, keeping a household going, involved in PTA or church, making sure everyone elses needs are tended to, has a way of adding a few pounds before you know it. We think we are selfish if we put ourselves first before motherly duties. I believe we need to shed the guilt of putting ourselves first. We need to support one another in this effort. OMG how is this possible? I just dont get it! there has to be a woman out there that sees the world as it really is instead of some utopia that doesnt exsist. First of all men think with there little johnny and women like it too. second of all society conditions itself to what sells and sex sells third of all excuses why you dont have time are just excuses yes support one amother, but dont lay your personal insecurities off on someone else. |
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"Whatever"? That's the best you can retort with? Tell me I'm wrong! Don't give me any crap about being "sensitive" to your feelings. Tell me who YOU would rather look at -- the slim, slender, fit guy, or the fat guy? And I don't want to hear any of that bull about "it's what's inside that counts," either. I hate to tell you, but my boyfriend is on the heavy side, but he treats me better than any man ever has, and that is all that matters. good see you found someone that doesnt care about health and excercise good for you! So why the pouting? Why make the person that does work hard to stay in shape the bad guy/girl? because your jealous and its easier to call us shallow than look yourself in the mirror and call yourself fat. just be happy with who you are and stop making other people out to be shallow cause of your faults. this is what im saying, not that heavy people should give a damn what i think but why do fit people have to be shallow when we look for common interests? its about you sweetheart not me thats why and stop laying the guilt trip! I don't recall ever saying I was unhealthy, ever. Don't make assumptions about what you know nothing. I wasn't pouting, just stating facts. And I have nothing to be jealous of, have never been, nor ever will be that way. That's just ridiculous. If there is any guilt it's all on you. It must be hitting pretty close to home to get you all riled up about a simple statement. There is some things I would change about my body, but not much. I won't let any man make me feel unworthy about anything. You seem to have made the wrong assumptions about what I was saying and why I was saying. well i aint stupid and i can read between the lines deny all you want i never say these things ever, but i get tired of the whoas me crap. i post here and say this because its true. i see this "get to know people crap" all day and the lady doesnt even comb her damn hair. so dont tell me im trippin cause the truth hurts and our society could use a good dose of reality |
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"Whatever"? That's the best you can retort with? Tell me I'm wrong! Don't give me any crap about being "sensitive" to your feelings. Tell me who YOU would rather look at -- the slim, slender, fit guy, or the fat guy? And I don't want to hear any of that bull about "it's what's inside that counts," either. I hate to tell you, but my boyfriend is on the heavy side, but he treats me better than any man ever has, and that is all that matters. good see you found someone that doesnt care about health and excercise good for you! So why the pouting? Why make the person that does work hard to stay in shape the bad guy/girl? because your jealous and its easier to call us shallow than look yourself in the mirror and call yourself fat. just be happy with who you are and stop making other people out to be shallow cause of your faults. this is what im saying, not that heavy people should give a damn what i think but why do fit people have to be shallow when we look for common interests? its about you sweetheart not me thats why and stop laying the guilt trip! |
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it takes work to stay in shape, the older you get the harder it gets. stop whining and get excercising. I am sure when men stop bathing women find this unattractive lets be realistic here you dont get to 200 pounds overnight! This is really about people in general they make excuses for themselves and try to make there problem someone elses. so either rock that body or get on the treadmill but whining about it is
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Emotional Blackmail
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good night Gypsy.... i still think your hot!
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Emotional Blackmail
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lol ya we make ya say stupid sh*t!!!! 
Not!!!
nah thats just lack of blood flow.... |
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me too acctually lol.... see what women do to men.. get us all crossed eyed and shat |
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 my toilet paper doesnt make you horny???? howwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
rude!!! well if it was used maybe..... 
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Emotional Blackmail
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five come here sweetheart i have something to show you..."jelwelry store window" I know i know its so expensive but isnt it beautiful.... i just had to show you.... 
im trying to show off my muscals... |
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 lol its hard to fall for a lil kid in the shower!!!
kudos!! |
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five
come here sweetheart i have something to show you..."jelwelry store window" I know i know its so expensive but isnt it beautiful.... i just had to show you....
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Emotional Blackmail
Edited by
thinkingaboutit09
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Fri 01/23/09 01:42 AM
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four.... oooohhhh baby i just want to vidoe tape you for i have you with me when your not here.... Think she is breaking down, by the time you get to pitch 1001 she is yours! go man go! I got to ration my ammo or they wont fall for it anymore.... 
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