WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS?

The married man has a wife, the single one doesn't.

Pretty simple.

Dating is just hard. Probably one of the hardest things in life. With a dating site or not. Mingle is definitely not like other sites out there. You take it or you leave it, then come back when you need it again. So...giving up on dating? Its up to you, everything in life requires patience.

@42BlackBBW I do try not to think about what others think, but I'm empathic by nature so I frequently put myself in the shoes of others to try and understand them better. If that's a bad trait to have, then I'll take a bad trait.

@laughsandgiggles I do indeed talk like this. I prefer to speak in a manner which is understood rather than listened to. When I was young, I taught myself to read (age 3) and then I couldn't stop. I was particularly enraptured by works in obscure dialects, or at least those beyond the societal norm. Thus, I have adopted a manner of speaking elegantly rather than speaking in barbaric, short mutations of what used to be a respectable language. And, I do believe if I could relax, I would not have such a conundrum when around women. However, I find that most women that I do talk to find myself to be attractive and charming, but I am generally just the good friend or older brother figure. My only difficulty is that I am a perfectionist when it comes to the approach, and I generally spend more time thinking rather than acting, because I'd rather not appear to be a fool in front of a woman whom I am interested in courting.


@42BlackBBW I find that many women appreciate a forward approach, but I favor shy girls who would likely shut down in the face of such boldness.