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Topic: starting to feel like im wasting my time
ChinchillaZilla Joined Fri 01/27/12 Posts: 174	Wed 05/30/12 06:09 PM
been on here for a few months now and dont have much to show for it. im getting the feeling that im not going to find what im looking for on an internet dating site. aot of the men on here (or at least the one that message me) are only after one thing. sigh what is a girl to do?

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Wed 05/30/12 06:10 PM
start messaging the guys that you like

norwichboy Joined Sun 01/15/12 Posts: 124	Wed 05/30/12 06:17 PM
been on here for a few months now and dont have much to show for it. im getting the feeling that im not going to find what im looking for on an internet dating site. aot of the men on here (or at least the one that message me) are only after one thing. sigh what is a girl to do? dont have much to show for my time on here either,, when i do get to talk to a woman on here, they ask me for my yahoo id, or some other form of internet id and when i dont give it to them,,, they de-activate their accuont. go figure?

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21786	Wed 05/30/12 06:20 PM
been on here for a few months now and dont have much to show for it. im getting the feeling that im not going to find what im looking for on an internet dating site. aot of the men on here (or at least the one that message me) are only after one thing. sigh what is a girl to do? Give them what they're looking for?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 05/30/12 06:20 PM
been on here for a few months now and dont have much to show for it. im getting the feeling that im not going to find what im looking for on an internet dating site. aot of the men on here (or at least the one that message me) are only after one thing. sigh what is a girl to do? It took me around 5 years.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 06:22 PM
been on here for a few months now and dont have much to show for it. im getting the feeling that im not going to find what im looking for on an internet dating site. aot of the men on here (or at least the one that message me) are only after one thing. sigh what is a girl to do? If this isn't working for you, get out and meet people in other ways.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Wed 05/30/12 06:27 PM
been on here for a few months now and dont have much to show for it. im getting the feeling that im not going to find what im looking for on an internet dating site. aot of the men on here (or at least the one that message me) are only after one thing. sigh what is a girl to do? If this isn't working for you, get out and meet people in other ways. way to support mingle2

norwichboy Joined Sun 01/15/12 Posts: 124	Wed 05/30/12 06:37 PM Edited by norwichboy on Wed 05/30/12 06:39 PM
Try going to church, you can meet alot of people there and you might get something out of the sermmon

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 06:44 PM
been on here for a few months now and dont have much to show for it. im getting the feeling that im not going to find what im looking for on an internet dating site. aot of the men on here (or at least the one that message me) are only after one thing. sigh what is a girl to do? If this isn't working for you, get out and meet people in other ways. way to support mingle2 I never understood those who used sites like this as their only way of meeting people.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 06:45 PM
Try going to church, you can meet alot of people there and you might get something out of the sermmon Church is probably the last place I'd look to meet someone.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76425	Wed 05/30/12 06:50 PM
Honestly Dating Sites are just that a site. They give you the tools to use to meet others. The sites do not pair you up all the way you have to use the tools they give you in order to find someone. So if one just waits for others to contact them they could be missing the one they connect with. So go through the profiles within the search and contact the ones your interested in. Nothing comes without a price.....here it would with time and effort in contacting others.....Never know what you will find...

norwichboy Joined Sun 01/15/12 Posts: 124	Wed 05/30/12 06:55 PM
Try going to church, you can meet alot of people there and you might get something out of the sermmon Church is probably the last place I'd look to meet someone. i didnt say to look to meet someone in church, i said you can meet alot of people there, maybe you should try just going

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 05/30/12 06:57 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Wed 05/30/12 06:58 PM
I was watching an advertisement on television the other day about E-harmony dating web site and they were bragging about letting you "communicate" with your "match" for FREE. oh wow. I thought to myself, on Mingle, we can communicate all the time FOR FREE.!! With anyone. HEY, MINGLE ROCKS!! And I've been here a long time, met a lot of people and found a great guy.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 05/30/12 06:58 PM
been on here for a few months now and dont have much to show for it. im getting the feeling that im not going to find what im looking for on an internet dating site. aot of the men on here (or at least the one that message me) are only after one thing. sigh what is a girl to do? You only have 32 posts in 5 months, how is anyone supposed to "know" you if you don't participate more in the forums?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 07:11 PM
Try going to church, you can meet alot of people there and you might get something out of the sermmon Church is probably the last place I'd look to meet someone. i didnt say to look to meet someone in church, i said you can meet alot of people there, maybe you should try just going I'm fine with not going to church.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Thu 05/31/12 08:38 AM Edited by Optomistic69 on Thu 05/31/12 08:41 AM
I was watching an advertisement on television the other day about E-harmony dating web site and they were bragging about letting you "communicate" with your "match" for FREE. oh wow. I thought to myself, on Mingle, we can communicate all the time FOR FREE.!! With anyone. HEY, MINGLE ROCKS!! And I've been here a long time, met a lot of people and found a great guy. I have been on three of these sites One I don't bother with Another I have been banned from And this one Mingle2 which is not only free but they, Mingle2 are a pretty fair bunch And of course I have found the wonderfully talented and lovely Jeanniebean.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45390	Thu 05/31/12 09:04 AM
starting to feel like im wasting my time Time is never wasted, if you are living it as you go. As far as making the most important decision of your life, wasting time figuring it out could save your future.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Thu 05/31/12 09:27 AM
been on here for a few months now and dont have much to show for it. im getting the feeling that im not going to find what im looking for on an internet dating site. aot of the men on here (or at least the one that message me) are only after one thing. sigh what is a girl to do? You only have 32 posts in 5 months, how is anyone supposed to "know" you if you don't participate more in the forums? I agree.

nichole33 Joined Fri 06/01/12 Posts: 15	Sat 06/02/12 12:53 AM
well sweets ill tell you something in the real world thats all they want to or they use you too get to what they want so just look for friends and see where it ends up you never know someone u just are friends with can introduce you to a great love that is looking for someone just like you sweets good luck..

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sat 06/02/12 01:00 AM
I have been banned from a dating website for flirting, twice :/