OK i need some advice...been out of the dating game for awhile. feel like she is into me but not ready to meet face to face yet?i asked a couple of times all i got was (lol,maybe;),is that a good thing that we are clicking and wait it out,or its jus a good conversation past time?any advice would be helpful thnx

use a webcam for viewing if they not comfotable meeting. either she want a relationship or not. there is more female wanting a good man. you cannot tell if they any good until you live with them. deflate the ego on both side act honest and resposible. first be happy with yourself, pls do not act desperate. make sure it not a bait and switch pertaining to who the person claim to be. technology is so advance use a video webcam. then its legit.

How about suggesting a choice of two "safe" places like a Tim Horton's; or a local farmer's market and put a time limit like 20 minutes or half an hour.

There is no such thing as hard to get. I If she is evading your suggestions to meeting that means she is not in to you but just keeping you open for a rainy day kind of thing. Do you really want that? I'd say move on to someone else.

Good idea...you never know, she might just be nervous.

True many girls tend to play "hard to get". When a girl plays hard to get they r just being cold and unreadable. When a girl acts on their emotions they r now just desperate and obsessed. Men, in general, instinctively like the chase. I know its sad to say ... society made it into a game. If she's real..try to turn the tables around..she will fall onto your hands..if not then she's just taking up your time..

Not everyone is eager or brave enough to jump into the real time interaction that forces others into their life or they into the life of another

some signs of interest , when meeting hasnt occurred, might be

1. She participates in conversation by paying attention to your interests, hobbies, concerns,, enough to mention them herself in future conversations

2. She participates in conversation by asking questions about you, your interests, hobbies, and concerns

3. She is open to exchanging numbers so you can speak more fluently and freely with each other.

4. She starts to use some of your 'sayings' or incorporates some of your verbal ticks into her own speech.(called unconscious mimicking)

5. She remembers your 'birthday' or other special events you tell her about.

6. She speaks sometimes or often about you or herself in the FUTURE tense, suggesting she plans to still be in communication at a later date.



...these are a few,,,its really about being honest about signs of INTEREST,, if all they do is listen and then have to go and dont return your messages or write you back,, its a bad sign


IF they contribute to the conversations, try to prolong their time speaking to you, return your messages , nudge you, write you back,,,,its probably a good sign

How long have you been chatting? If you're local and she won't meet you within a week or two, move on. If it has been less time than that, give her a little more time.

Sheesh.
Maybe she IS hard to get.
Doesn't know you well enough to meet you.
Personally, I would step back from the
sitch until she makes a move.
That way you know.