Ha ha. If I wasn't his type, I wouldn't be in bed with him. Let alone a relationship with him.

A lot of my rich male friends, tell me they're sick of essex women, sucking money out of them like leeches. Especially on dates. You should see a show we have over here called 'TOWIE', and the 'Made in Chelsea' one. Then you'll see that essex women are easy to rope in, as long as you have money. Pathetic. No wonder they can't find a guy who'll stay with them or marry them. It's so laughable. Just because some of my wealthy friends are rich, why should they take easy women? The same with my female friends.

I find it too weird if a guy gives me his number after only one or two days. What does he expect me to say to him? Awkward. At least give me a few months, before you do that. I usually first, do answer machine messages, so it doesn't feel as intimidating. Some men always just want a woman that badly, that they give their number out to just anyone. And I'd rather have a clear view of who he is, before accepting his number.

It's quite difficult to get me into bed. So if a guy manages to, it means I must like him a lot. A whole lot.

I hear ya ;). It's been so hot, that I've only been having icy drinks for breakfast. Instead of my usual tea or coffee. They're more refreshing. Can hardly eat. Plus, the ice in the drinks will be doing my throat some good, I reckon.

Without sounding like a misery guts, I prefer to be spontaneous, than do a coffee date. I think it doesn't help, when you've seen it done lots in commercial or movies. It would be too predictable for me, and would make it feel more like an interview.

Is one person not enough for you then?

I choose friend. I always hated gossip. So if the "friend" can't tell me to my face, they're a scaredy cat, and are probably more worried about being in with the in-crowd, which is why it's sometimes a mistake for me to ever let them in. If they're more worried about their social status, then what are they doing being in my life? I remember Missy Elliot made a song called 'Gossip Folks'. Let the chips fall where they may, because how would you know half of what anyone told you was true? You're only going by what they tell you. But is their truth the REAL truth? Life's too short for me to wonder about what whoever is saying about me.

*holding my hands up* I solemnly swear not to let Patti Stanger get involved. Even though she's a hoot.

The first thing I look for-Quality.

The way he treats himself and others.


A turn-off for me-Grubbiness.

Who cares? It's individual choice. So my reply doesn't matter that much anyway. Thankgod.

It's all about your self-confidence. If a guy can't see that your satisfied with yourself, he'll look elsewhere. He'll think you care more about your looks?

Had a few breathing difficulties, recently. So wouldn't want to put a guy through that.

Not sure if I belong in this thread. Shall I keep one foot in, and one foot out, for equal measure? :)

No. Just because you dress smartly, and style your hair, I would never think you were a snob. You just have style, is all. You treat people so kindly. That's what matters. And people want to be your friend because they see how welcoming you are. Let people judge. As long as you don't suddenly lower the tone, we should be fine ;)

I won't doubt him.

My intuition will tell me whether he's a good match for me.

I'll go all giddy.

I'll feel comfortable enough to be brutally honest with him.

I won't stop smiling all day, every day.

I'll easily forget this or that, due to daydreaming about him.

I'll accept the keys to his house.

I have no rules. I don't even follow the usual one's, when it comes to dating. Just want to enjoy the date without having expectations.

Some men are classy enough to keep their hands off me, but that doesn't mean they won't want sex. I pick no. He'll know when I want "it". I'll give him the look.

It's pretty easy to move me to tears, but any song with a lot of violin in it.

Just a few that do:

Ellie Goulding-Explosions.
Ellie Goulding-How long will I love you?
Take That-Eight Letters
Todd Lundgren-Can we still be friends?
George Michael-Praying for time
Toni Braxton-There's no me without you

When some loser is only wanting to have an affair with me.

I decided never to lower my standards.