Beauty fades Dumb stays forever.

People see beauty on many different levels looks will never keep a bloke.

Look in the mirror seethe learn to love yourself always remember that you're number one

I tend to agree that there is a media version of reality that younger people seem to buy into...or that we are spoon fed by the media where there is a disproportionate emphasis on things shallow and superficial.

nonetheless, I am sure there are plenty of young women your age who have down to earth values. :)

the technology generation is impatient. Impatient to find someone, impatient about waiting for relationships to evolve naturally, impatient with themselves, their partner. Not a foot tapping, urgent impatience, but an impatience born from learning as children that everything can be resolved with the click of a mouse, and that they deserve "the best." (whatever that is).... so commitment becomes harder when one feels that they need to move on to whatever other options are out there because "the best is yet to come"

.....even though those options are usually no better than their current situation, there is an impatience urging younger folk on to seek some fantasy that does not exist.

not true of all younger folk (or older folk) just techno-social thing I have noticed

Or... why even bother dating if you're not beautiful

Everybody is beautiful, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There is no set guidelines for "beauty". Yes the culture may have their own view on what beauty is, but that doesn't mean every body thinks or feel the same.

I'm sorry but this is sentimental loaded BS

It's the absolute truth though. The things or people you personally think are beautiful, does absolutely everybody else think the same? Since it's a derogatory question and I know the answer lol I'll assume the answer would be no. So with those things being no, how would this be any different?

Beauty is only skin deep. I believe that. When a person ages it fades away. So people who look at ken doll types are the truly insecure ones. I know my heart is beautiful and I know alot of women have called me handsome. I'm not one to argue the point of physical attraction. Some women don't know what they really want. Another woman once told me that. I think thats true. Best of luck to all of you on your journey.

The idea that someone, male or female, needs someone else is sentimental BS as well.

Do you, f* the rest.

CowboyGH: Totally agree with you bro! You got a knack for words. Best of luck to you.

You don't need a "him" (or a her for that matter) to validate who you are as a person.

If you're looking for another person to make you feel secure, maybe you are not ready for a "him" to be part of your life.

A partner should compliment your life, not be your life.



As for the second bit..what he said

LuvandDesire


Exactly, "a lot" of women have called you handsome. But that is not all, showing that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And is entirely opposite then our pesimestic friend seethestar with the following statement

seethestar

Cool . Nice line and thoughts bro. Its true. Beauty is in beholder eyes.

You are right, if you are not secure with yourself and have that kind of attitude there is no reason that I would date you.

An insecure person usually depends on others for their happiness. Who wants that responsibility...

Thanks man. I just speak from the heart. But doesn't seem woman at least not in my age area are really into the more sentimental down to Earth kinda men. My generation seems to have never grown up and still act like little kids playing around lol. But I got the faith that someday maybe :D

I always do me.

She needs to learn other's can't love you nor can you love other's till you learn to love yourself.

uh huh..me too...

up to 1,400 times a year now, not bad

O.O... wow ummm, yeah lol that's umm, yeah just yeah.

Yeah... "love" initially, doesn't exist. . And it's that sort of wishful thinking that perpetuates the delusional "in the eye of the beholder" nonsense.