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Mon 12/17/07 07:48 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 07:52 PM

beer- Bud light or Milwaukee's best, and Corona
Hard Liquor- 151 Rum and 151 Vodka
Mixed drinks- Liquid Cocaine, mind erasers, and long island ice tea.

As you can tell just about anything with alcohol is good with me:smile: :smile:


Bud Ice was the best thing they had but come on.... NO More Bud! That is the worst popular beer. And I love alcohol! drinker However, they do make the funniest commercials. Dude!

p.s. I'll have a Bass and Jager as well. So many good drinks.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:43 PM

about the tattoos,
it appears a little selfish. i think that if you are aware
of spending issues this is a real big problem for a potential
relationship...of course, as a disclaimer, i also started the
"I'm cheap" and "I'm weird" threads...


Seriously...... "Selfish". It's a little early to be tagging him like that don't you think?

If the relationship becomes more serious maybe he will too. I like the thought that there is growth and .... Dear>>>>>> Does he have your back???? That is one of the most important things in any relationship.

For now it's been one month and you don't know the guy. Maybe he spent his money wisely on the last gal and she screwed him. Now he is just enjoying a little life without worry.

Jeeeesh!

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Mon 12/17/07 07:34 PM

White Russiandrinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker


Actually a White or Black Russian sounds good right now. drinker Slide one down my way as well.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:33 PM
Race! No one told me we are in a race. Can't we all just slow down a bit?

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Mon 12/17/07 07:29 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 07:31 PM
My ex is Hindi and we even have kids. Never a dirty look.

What city and area do they live in?

Chriminy

I'm currently looking for a purple woman to mate with!

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Mon 12/17/07 07:26 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 07:28 PM

I can only speak from my own experience...My ex told me that if I didn't care enough about her (love?) to worship her and do what she wanted, when she wanted, then she could get it somewhere else...I wish her and her five previous ex-husbands the best of times (I was her third and seventh)(I'm not too bright either!) Most of the women I have met are so insecure in themselves that they need a man (or another woman) to make them feel whole and worthwhile...neurosis and psychosis abounds in both of the sexes. Physical, emotional and psychological abuse and neglect is like a plague on society. "It is better to go through life alone, than to be with someone you can't trust or respect". Now that I've PO'ed just about everyone...Have a Merry Christmas!!!


Didn't PO me. I understand cheating. Don't agree with it but completely understand it. I don't ever expect to do it again and I have been tested several times already and passed with flying colors. I tell others who are cheating to consider other means of resolving problems. In my situation I requested counseling for me and the wife. She told me I should go to counseling by myself because I was nuts. She refused because she knew the counselor would tell her that she was wrong. Simple as that.

Still looking for a woman I can trust to be who she says she is and appears to be! Haven't found one yet but my freinds have so there is hope!




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Mon 12/17/07 07:23 PM
Yeah but the manner in which it is stated makes me out to be the bad guy "Disrespectful, Selfish, and No- Self Control."

I am very well known by my freinds to be extremely respectful, generous, and normal behavioral controls.

You can label me for one act for one day or even a couple of weeks but it doesn't take into account the "WHOLE" life I had led and lead now.

I was shocked when I found out the marriage I worked so hard for was failing. It was a real heartbreaker to learn that my ex hid personality traits until after we were married and had kids.

Luckly I have always had a key to the home and see my kids any time I want. Essentially my divorse worked out better than anyone I know.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:14 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 07:15 PM
Actually it's spelled Kahlúa and its a good drink.... But.

Beers: Almost any (especially pale ales) but here are a few: Imports, Rolling Rock, Guiness, LaBatt, Sam Adams, Becks, Corona..... drinker

No bud or coors.... third from the bottom is MG. PBR on Tap a good cheap beer. Grolsh too.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:09 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 07:17 PM

i only see one real reason people cheat....

their selfish, disrespectful people that have no self control.

anything else is an excuse. if it wasn't they could break up with somebody before they cheated, easy as that.


I had very young kids and my needs were not being met by the wife. It was real tough to know that I would be exiting a part of my childrens lives not to be able to come home to them.

I wasn't being disrespectful.... per se.... I was at my wits end and my need for intimacy was essential to my sanity.

Selfish??? Well don't we all have needs that must be selfish but they are considered normal?

Self Control??? I waited for 1 year....and it wasn't the only year I waited patiently. I think that is more than enough Self Control in a relationship. I left after I was with another woman but it was a difficult time.

Never cheated again though! She used that as the reason for our relationship problem when, in fact, it had nothing to do with the problem whatsoever.



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Mon 12/17/07 07:02 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 07:05 PM
You forgot Borderline Personality Disorder.. I love you I hate you Come here Leave me. Back and forth and it leads to cheating.

How about f*ing Vanity and attention.

My ex had both conditions and she was a repeat offender.

I cheated many years ago and it was because my wife at the time didn't want intimate relations at all. I didn't understand it as everything in life was soooo cool... new home, had great kids, money comin' in.... but she wouldn't get together with me any longer..... Soooooo eventually I ran out of patience and I fell for someone who had "Life" in them. My ex in 10 years after the divorce has never dated anyone. Not one person. She's still lifeless.





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Mon 12/17/07 06:58 PM
In the 6th grade and finally with the coolest people I've ever seen. My whole daughters class are all together, non-click, party little animals. I'd let anyone of them take care of me in my old age.

J

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Mon 12/17/07 02:24 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 02:25 PM
I resolve to get rid of all resolutions. I'll drink to that! drinker

Party on Wayne! drinker

Okay I'll say one. No bread and rice after 4PM. That'll get rid of the tire or at least balance it better.

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Mon 12/17/07 02:22 PM


All jokes aside this was a serious topic and why is it mostly white girls answering me lol yall some funny ass people


Maybe b/c we felt you were trying to speak for all of us and we felt the need to set the record straight. Women of all colors have higher standards then to date you...


But low standards is why this site exhists. Have you seen most of the profiles here? drinker

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Mon 12/17/07 02:17 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 02:20 PM
Ya seeeeeeeeee peoplessssss. Give'm a break!

Don't worry dude! I've been lamb basted here before.

All I'll say is why does color matter to anyone? I'm about the the attraction first and then the am I attracted second. If I can have sex before the first and the second thought even better.

drinker

I will add this. My ex-wife is Hindi. My other gls: Italian, Hispanic, & Whities. I keep in touch with all the formers except 1 who was the biggest liar on the planet.

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Mon 12/17/07 02:15 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh drinker drinker drinker

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Mon 12/17/07 02:13 PM
Sung to the tune of Auld Lang Syne

More beer more beer more beer more beer. More beer more beer more beeeeeerrrr. More beer more beer more beer more beer more beer more beer more beeeeeeeerrrrrrrrr! drinker

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Mon 12/17/07 02:09 PM
Hey! I resemble that remark! drinker

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Mon 12/17/07 02:09 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 02:10 PM
I'm touching my..... oh damned!

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Mon 12/17/07 02:08 PM

sorry i don't find u attractive at all.. and yes your profile just puts me of even more...there's more to life than sex.


I absolutely agree. Beer! drinker

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Mon 12/17/07 02:04 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Mon 12/17/07 02:06 PM

Us women understand that MOST men think about sex quite often. You just gotta be smooth about it and work us up a bit. Don't just lay it all out there to begin with. Your profile is the 1st impression-something tells me that WOMEN in general aren't contacting you on here, not just black.


What I find funny is that there are assumptions made by the people on this site such as, "You aren't getting any", and "you don't have someone". I have had people say that about me here and they are way off base.

I like this site cause I get to explore different ways of communicating and debating topics, even being funny.

People who are even edgy can be fine. I will agree with you that their tactics are going to offend many. But they could potentially turn it around with a kinder approach. Mean works too.




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