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Okay so the consensus here is that it's due to past hurts or pains, and that we aren't going to allow it again. I hope I didn't misspeak. IF that is the case, then why are we all here??? We're all here because, despite the walls and the fear and the wariness, hope springs eternal :) |
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Edited by
ladywolf9653
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Sun 05/17/09 05:52 PM
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Have had it turn out well, and have had it turn out horribly. I try not to let the past dictate my future, and also try to avoid judging people by the actions of the "bad" ones I have encountered. I have some walls, but I don't want to be sitting on my porch when I'm 80 wondering "what if". So, I make the leap and hope like heck it works. If not, I heal fast ;)
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Hello and welcome to the site :)
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Nope, but I've run away from those who thought it was love when I knew it wasn't.
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hi im new
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Hello and welcome :)
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Hello
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Hello and welcome to the site :)
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true or false......
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I find that I tend to attract those with traits which I am lacking. I guess it's a subconscious way to balance and/or ground me. So, in that case, I tend to disagree with the OP. Although, in most cases, i thnk we all have a little bit of everything - somewhere - inside us, that just needs to be coaxed out, and the particular type of person you attract might be what is needed to do that. I find the same thing, at least in those that I attract or am attracted to. I am drawn to the potential for balance, as well as common interests/traits. I don't think I could date someone exactly like me - I'd want to kill him in a week, tops! 
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Fiesty_baby ( destiny) and I
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Don't know either of you well, but congrats to you both :) Love is far too precious these days, so stick your tongues out at any jealousy and enjoy the fact that you found it!
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Hi Um Exuse me!
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Hello and welcome :)
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What if.
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If we were a couple (which I'm assuming, if I fell in love with him), I'd handle it the same way I would had he been cheating with another woman - I'd end the relationship. I'd be a supportive friend, but our relationship would be over.
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Ladies
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Hello and welcome to the site :)
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Ex problems?
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For me, would depend on a couple of things. The lunch would be a bit hinky, but if she's not acting any differently, maybe it was truly harmless. As for asking you to leave so he could drop something off....how long have they been divorced/how long have you two been dating? Maybe she was just looking to avoid drama?
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Exciting Saturday night....
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My friends hosted a bbq, not exciting but a lot of fun. People brought their guitars & amps and set up in the garage, so we had live music and great food!
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How do ya get anyone here
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As others have said, post in the forums and have patience. And yes it's a real site with real people :) I met the guy I'm currently dating through Mingle.
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New To Site
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Hello and welcome :)
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What's your timeline?
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I don't think there's anything to be embarrassed about, being out here. I know that some view being single as a bad thing, but I've never thought of it as such. *shrug* Should I still be out here posting 5 years from now, I'll just credit it on the great people out here and the entertainment value of the personality mix :)
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Dating One Or More?
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I think that it's ok to date more than one, especially when you're determining whether or not the interest is there. It's only when you discover that you're really interested in getting to know one individual that it's time to cut the stringers loose.
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Whoa, there's a forum here?
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Hello and welcome to the site :)
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not so sure about this
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Hello and welcome :)
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Would you...
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As everyone has said, no. Not only would you be miserable, you'd be preventing him from possibly finding someone who WOULD love him and be happy to be with him.
"Settling" should never be part of a marriage. |
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