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late night confessions
Edited by
John1932
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Mon 08/03/09 11:47 PM
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i confess that i had to look up the word "fickle".
–adjective 1. likely to change, esp. due to caprice, irresolution, or instability; casually changeable: fickle weather. 2. not constant or loyal in affections: a fickle lover. Origin: bef. 1000; ME fikel, OE ficol deceitful, akin to fācen treachery, fician to deceive, gefic deception Related forms: fick⋅le⋅ness, noun Synonyms: 1. unstable, unsteady, variable, capricious, fitful. 2. inconstant. 1, 2. Fickle, inconstant, capricious, vacillating describe persons or things that are not firm or steady in affection, behavior, opinion, or loyalty. Fickle implies an underlying perversity as a cause for the lack of stability: the fickle seasons, disappointing as often as they delight; once lionized, now rejected by a fickle public. Inconstant suggests an innate disposition to change: an inconstant lover, flitting from affair to affair. Capricious implies unpredictable changeability arising from sudden whim: a capricious administration constantly and inexplicably changing its signals; a capricious and astounding reversal of position. Vacillating means changeable due to lack of resolution or firmness: an indecisive, vacillating leader, apparently incapable of a sustained course of action. Just giving ya a hard time cause i know it ticks you off.... 
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Edited by
John1932
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Mon 08/03/09 11:31 PM
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Can't you meet a nice Christian guy in church? As logical as that might seem.... My guess would be that the " Christian " guys in churches are just as bad, if not worse, than guys that aren't religious. No, what it means is, just because someone is not compatible does not mean that are BAD as you put it, just because a relationship doesn't work out, does not mean the other party was bad or mean or evil, it just means, they weren't the one. Christians arent perfect people and never claim to be, if they do, then they had better question whether they really are. Christians are people just like anyone else, they make mistakes and do things wrong, the difference is, we recognized our sin and try to learn off it and correct ourselves instead of repeating it over and over. Please don't turn this into a christian bashing thread. Well..I'm not gonna bother to go there since this is the wrong forum section for it. LOL, If you didn't want to go there, then BACKSPACE would have taken care of that. I wasn't getting defensive, just taking my side on the debate. Sorry if you took it wrong, I guess it does look kind of harsh, it wasn't intended. Guess i could have left out the bashing part. True. Backspace could have been used...but then again...you got my point. As I said, it wasn't intended the way you took it. Lets move on...
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"who is funny, sweet, caring and faithful and has a love for animals and family life." Well, there is the crux of your problem right there, young lady. Guys who love family life are either boring as hell and not funny, and that's why they figure being married and raising a family is such a hoot and more fun than a barrel of monkey. The other type of guy who perhaps is funny, he will not be sweet, as his goal with establishing a family is to have a close-knit group who cannot escape his brutal abuse of them. A guy who is funny, sweet, caring, yet likes a family life, will never stay faithful. That type of guy uses his marriage as a springboard to have affairs with a never-ending stream of married women, one after another. The fact he has a family will make the other men's wives think he's caring; he is free of STD; and that he won't talk. Well, two out of three ain't bad. Really, Sweety, Sassy, Simple, there simply isn't one swset chance you (or anyone else, no matter who they are) of catching a guy like you want with the attributes you attribute to him. He, simply, does not exist. I would like to suggest, that in order to keep yourself from a big heart-ache or two, and to help you eventually lose your God-given innocence, that you somehow alter the criteria you look for in a possible mate. Try fifty-ish, balding men with pot-bellies; or young men who go out drinking every Friday with their buddies from high school and come home drunk and want to make love to you but can't and are scaring the bejeesus out of your children during the proceedings. Thats totally untrue, wow people with tough lives just assume the whole world is that way. I have been hit and knocked down many times, but I don't jump up and say, my dream girl doesn't exist. I know she does exist, its just a matter of if she wants to exist with me.. There is the difference in your argument.. lol Good post though... |
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Edited by
John1932
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Mon 08/03/09 11:27 PM
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ok ma i don't really know about all that. However if you care for a real conversation and an open discusssion that is fair minded and balanced then I would love to continue this conversation at some later point in time. sounds good...go for it, in another chat..... 
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Topic:
Hello, and thank you Mingle
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Hello and welcome
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Topic:
Beam of Life
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Nice write, good job
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Topic:
late night confessions
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I confess to whatever it is I didn't do
 Its easier that way |
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Topic:
late night confessions
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i confess that i think i just threw up a little in my mouth.   I'm sorry to laugh. I love your honesty. She's evil  But she is a joy to talk to...  Unless she bites you... Its all good Calleigh... |
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Nahhh!!!!
best wishes and all.... |
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Topic:
Philosophy on Life..........
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laugh love share care play fair don't take life on this planet so serious, it's not permanent. 
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So few nights ago, I looked at a profile and then found that the person who I looked at decided to add me as a friend. Figuring why not, I decided to accept, and we talked briefly. Next night, we ended up on the phone and online chatting basically all night and into the morning, and talked some yesterday too. Now at this point we're more or less just friends, but I had found out she was traveling into the Cleveland, Ohio area today to visit family, and Cleveland is just a couple hours away from me being just outside of Detroit in the suburbs. So I had come up with the idea that maybe we meet for a day or two while she's home. She didn't mind the idea (although my family has), and we've been trying to work out me getting there and all by bus since. Today though I've been having some second thoughts, I mean I do want to see her and I know she wants to see me, to see just how things transfer from over the phone/online chat to real life meeting, especially considering she won't be in the area again for a while considering the costs to travel from where she lives, and not having a whole lot in the way of funds. The same could be said for me traveling to where she is. But at the same time, I wonder if this is too soon, if the timing isn't right and by meeting we're sort of rushing this, or is it possible to rush a real life meeting in the first place? Thoughts? UHHHH!!!!, I know its none of my business, but I was curious... What happened to the 16 year old girl you were in love with last week on the other thread you made about if age mattered, is this the same or different. I was just curious cause you said her parents was letting you stay the night with them and your parents are saying heck no!!! |
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Topic:
Happy Birthday, Mr.President
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its almost bedtime and still nothing.
Nite everyone |
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Topic:
good night
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nitey niters lol
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Time is an amazing force, it can heal wounds and even build some of the best relationships you can imagine, one thing that time cant do is make you young again, it will only make you older. Give it some time, but not all of your time.
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Edited by
John1932
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Mon 08/03/09 08:20 PM
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Ok, How about i start with this. Me and my girl have been dating since Feb of 08... So about a year and a half... We've had our ups and downs like every couple but i loved her with all of my heart... Well almost 2 weeks ago now this is wut happened... Me and her where hanging around the house (my sisters house bc she was letting us stay with her for a little while) tryin to get **** together... Well my sister wanted us out by the weekend so we had to find a place to stay. Neither one of us had a job at the time bc there was really no jobs to get. So we didnt really have anywhere to go but we usually figure something out. Well it was around Noonish and she said she's gonna go put in a couple applications... she also said she would be back around 3-4pm. Well she left and didnt come back till 10am the next day with 2 small hickies on her neck... She said she went to her aunts house and her Aunt wanted her to move in with her for a while. Well i told her that if she moved in with her aunt that we couldnt be together bc i would most likely be moving out of town bc i have nowhere to stay in the town i live in. Well we where talking about it all day. (I let the hickies on her neck go for the time being) Finally i said "Lets just go to sleep and we'll talk about it in the morning." she said ok and we went to sleep... When i woke up the next morning... She was gone with all of her stuff... My Brother in-law said she was being really quiet and packing her stuff while i was sleeping so not to wake me... then she snuck out when he left the room... Its been almost 2 weeks and i haven't seen or talked to her since... I cant stop thinking about if she's ok, where she is, or if she even cares. If you took the time to read all of this... can u please give me some advise? I really need it. if you sister wanted you guys out, have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe she set that up to give the girl a way out, far fetched maybe, but possible. I know it is hard to endure, the hardest part is knowing that someone who was supposed to love you did this too you. She promised to love and commit to you and then she broke it by running. She showed up with hickeys on her neck, maybe she was wanting to make you jealous so you would leave her. I don't know why people are such cowards, but if she did it to you, then she will do it to the guy she left you for and the chain will continue, it is her life that will end up miserable and unhappy, all you can do is push it away and move forward, it is so hard, but you can do it. Surround yourself with family and friends. I was so devastated when My wife left me for her first husband that I fell to peaces, it was so bad that i had to relocate back to my home town and surround myself with my family. I left my job and took refuge in my family. You don't need to be alone if you can help it. surrounding yourself with friends and family makes a world of difference in the healing process. Good luck and hang on... |
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Ok, I might have done something bad... 
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No not racist. Just a birth certificate forging, socialist with no credentials . if you wanted to elect a BLACK president you should have elected one with um....charecter maybe. How about Michael Jordan, i mean.....duh, uh. He very well could be racist too though, he couldn't even decide what religion he was during his campaign. Funny how much he lies and they still love him....Hitler anyone?  Can you prove any of that? That is what makes them so angry... besides even with proof it doesn't stop the craziness. TrueYou are right Half that stuff didnt even happen. And Obama forged his birth certificate when he was a baby? What? But the other half did Still worthless unless proved, and no one could. Talk is cheap and hearsay is blasphemy, I want to see PROOF.. Otherwise it is just talk |
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Topic:
Letting Go............
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Awesome read, great job...
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Topic:
how do you compare
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I used to design and build websites and Community forums, and I must say, this is the bomb, I think the next one I ever make is gonna be similar to this one.
Love it.. |
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