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What happended to the good men ages 35-55 huh? Well, part of the men that age will be completely jaded by now, either through lack of luck (like me) or because some other woman ruined him for the rest of you (i.e. divorce). That's just part of them though.

You see, a truly honest to god good man is easy to find, you probably already know one, but just can't see him. He's that guy that's attentive to you, helps you out when you need it, sometimes shows up with pizza and beer just to watch movies with you. Oh, you probably tell the gals "he's just a friend," but I bet if you asked, he's dying to go out with you. Now a woman's first response is usually "I don't feel that way about him." But in fact, most ladies just have never thought of having those feelings for that type of guy, and a friendship is a great place to start a relationship. So, that's where you find a few more of the "good" ones.

Another place to find them, church. I'm not saying become a religious zealot by any means. But some people need the inner peace derived from sitting in a large room with 200 strangers. Meditation helps no matter where you do it, but some need that. These good men, probably aren't even on the internet dating sights. Might not have the self confidence to do it.

Just remember, most truly good men have had some person in the past take complete advantage of there soft hearts, and then dump the like a bad habit when something that only appeared better came into view. These men will be cautious, emotionally conservative and rather quiet. They know they can be easily hurt and are less likely to put themselves into situations where it can happen again. If you feel you're having to wait for a guy to come around, odds are, he's a good one. Be patient, and a little agressive, you'll bag him.

Ok, this has nothing to do with WHO I am looking for but Manson does it for me -- so, I'm looking for a guy like HIM!

This is a great live performance of The Reflecting God:

Your world is an ashtray
We burn and coil like cigarettes
The more you cry your ashes turn to mud
It's the nature of the leeches, the virgin's
Feeling cheated
You've only spent a second of your life
My world is unaffected, there is an exit here
I say it is and then it's true,
There is a dream inside a dream,
I'm wide awake the more I sleep
You'll understand when I’m dead
I went to god just to see, and I was looking at me
Saw heaven and hell were lies
When I’m god everybody dies
Scar/can you feel my power?
Shoot here and the world gets smaller
Scar/scar/can you feel my power?
One shot and the world gets smaller
Let's jump upon the sharp swords
And cut away our smiles
Without the threat of death
There's no reason to live at all
My world is unaffected, there is an exit here
I say it is and then it's true,
There is a dream inside a dream,
I'm wide awake the more I sleep
You'll understand when I’m dead
(bridge)

(chorus)

"each thing I show you is a piece of my death"
Shoot shoot shoot motherf*cker
No salvation, no forgiveness
"this is beyond your experience"
Forgiveness...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YklMkOgYq84

yea, I've read that one too, there are alot of different articles on the net with both sides.. I guess it's all about our personal perspectives, like every thing else. I do monthly full moon fires (Shamanism) and put more energy into it than most.

WASHINGTON (Reuters) - At least five people, including the gunman, were shot and killed during a shooting spree at a fitness center near Pittsburgh, according to media reports on Tuesday.

The Pittsburgh Post-Gazette reported on its website that a man with a duffel bag walked into an L.A. Fitness Center in Collier township and began firing.

CNN quoted a local official as saying five people were killed and up to another 15 wounded. The shooter was among the dead, Collier township manager Gary Vituccio told the network.

One witness told the Post-Gazette that she was in an exercise class when a man entered through a back door and began shooting.
"I was crouched to the side with a girl who was not my friend ... shoot ... shoot ... shoot," the woman was quoted as saying.

She added she had been told as many as eight to 10 people had been wounded.
Another witness was quoted as saying she had heard 12 to 15 shots.

http://www.reuters.com/article/newsOne/idUSTRE5740C620090805
Everybody is loosing his mind lately??????

I can't understand what's wrong with people, how can someone be so disturbed???

Naa man, Its not to hell with the mingle people.
You guys are cool and alot nicer than most people online...
I kno taking her back is a mistake.
I'm changing the situation. It was my idea and she agreed it would be best. We're moving out of town to a city where no one knows us. We're going to start our lives together and only concentrate on eachother. Start fresh. If this doesn't work. I'll be ok with letting her go. Because then I'll know its REALLY not going to work.

Please don't critisize me for my decision. I'm pretty sure most of you guys given a similar situation would end up doing the same thing. Love is a very powerful thing and its VERY hard to overcome what it tells you to do. I'm sorry for not following advise from you that really knew what I was going through but thank you all for listening when I really needed it.

Thank you everyone,
Allen*

OLD FARTS! is that jail bate????????

Mr. Anton_K,
You should take this thread in your spaceship and launch it into the sun so we can stop fighting...and we can all just get along