I am a down to earth Christian country girl who is wanting to meet a man to develop a friendship 1st and foremost and see what may develop from there. I want to meet someone who is funny, sweet, caring and faithful and has a love for animals and family life. I want to someday again be on a hobby farm with all sorts of critters. Love animals! I want to be with my ultimate best friend! AS in the song from John Michael Montgomery "Home to you" ..Thats what I want. :) I know no relationship is perfect, but I want to be with someone who we work together through the issues to make "us" stronger. I want to be totally be IN love with the person I am with and them also with me and not just love each other. To always have each others back and no matter what, the world falling apart around us, we know we have each other. So, is that out there? Is there anyone else that wants that too and is willing to make it happen and not just say they want it, but its not possible. We get what we put into it. So, any men out there like this? If so and you want to chat let me know....please be real...if you are real, I may ask, "why the heck are you single?" LOL

apparently not....which is WHY most of the men out here that have messaged me to see if there is "more" have not gotten too far...most are just players and not seroius anyways, except just to be players

its a very reasonable request, good luck with that

May be I'm in the same topic
Why I'm still single? just because as you, still waiting for the right one, with a lot of love and romance, somebody I can see it every morning to see the eyes and without word telling her how much I love you, so I'm a single guy still waiting.

Good luck to you dear

(((Sweetsimplesassy)))

How ya doing my dear friend?

Nice Profile Id climb the tree for you .

Are you kidding me?

Your telling me that you cant find that guy you described anywhere?
WOW, Im in shock.

You are the one I have been looking for forever, loves animals, wants a fairy tale relationship that doesn't seem to exist. Your supposed to be here dang it. Looks like Im moving to Minnesota. lol

Girl, I don't know what the problem is, but you should be drawing them in like a magnet. I know there are losers out there that completely ruin it for the good guys, but please don't hang in the towel, we are out there and if I lived there, I would wink and nudge and email chat and, hummmmm that would make me look like a perv wouldn't it. Maybe some of these guys that message you think the same way I do and they jump in to deep and look like fools, when they may be the real deal.

Hang on, don't give up.

Thanks! :)
Thats very Sweet of you. I am in the process of enrolling back to school this fall and making a move about an hr from where i am now, maybe I will end up meeting "the one" during my schooling, who knows, i am patient and open to God's will in my life...

Can't you meet a nice Christian guy in church?

As logical as that might seem....

My guess would be that the " Christian " guys in churches are just as bad, if not worse, than guys that aren't religious.

Where I live everybody dresses up and goes to church. I have seen some hotties going in the churches and I think..hummmmm I wonder what he would look lie naked, then I feel dirty.

No, what it means is, just because someone is not compatible does not mean that are BAD as you put it, just because a relationship doesn't work out, does not mean the other party was bad or mean or evil, it just means, they weren't the one.

Christians arent perfect people and never claim to be, if they do, then they had better question whether they really are.
Christians are people just like anyone else, they make mistakes and do things wrong, the difference is, we recognized our sin and try to learn off it and correct ourselves instead of repeating it over and over.

Please don't turn this into a christian bashing thread.

Actually there are some really good folks here on Mingle. I have very high standards so that is no faint compliment. I would suggest you give some of them and opportunity to tell you what they are like on a real level. YOu might be very pleasantly surprised how many of them would bring a serious commitment to a reciprocal relationship.

you hang in there you will find someone you just to cuite not to what litte i have read you are a very nice lady and no all guys players some of us not so goodlooking one is nice lol

One of my ex's I did meet at church, just because two people are Christians doesnt mean they are compatable

OK,,first,,,YES, I am like this, BUT,,,I cannot accept critters in bed with me if they have more than two legs, unless we have been properly intruduced, Second, I can't see having a hobby farm w/o a really great hobby...And third,,,IThink that all above fits but with less critters and maybe a small country home,wink,,
I hope you find him, or he finds you, but most of all I pray you find a love thats true,,,,,,,,,,,wink..

I am an alpaca farmer

You don't have to get naked to feel dirty. I can name exactly 17 ways of becoming dirty without imagining naked choir boys.

1. Take a hot bath with scents, put on a white silken nightgown, and go out n play contact rugby on a muddy field.

2. Take your daughter to her first communion, get a professional photographer to take picutres, her hands clasped in a prayer-type position, and throw eggs in the air and stand under them when they fall.

3. Invite the minister and his wife over, serve tea and buscuits, and ask the reverend if the notion of free will is more important a tenet of Christianity than the credo of accepting the Holy Trinity as One God, and what was the last time the he and his missus had a roll in the manure heap behind the barn. (** This is to be understood without any sexual connotations. The roll should only be a frolicing in the spirit of good, clean fun. Get your mind out of the gutter.)

4. Go on a pilgrimage to Lourdes and sprinkle Holy Water on your neighbour's aunt whom you took there to get her arthritis cured; and then engage in a mud-slinging cultural exchange with some atheists.

5. Excite your otherwise skeptical mother into a state of religious ecstasy, pray with her for the soul of all your ancestors going back to however long your family goes back (mine goes to Adam and Eve, but I appreciate some people's only go for a few generations) and dig out the old oil tank from the back yard with your bare hands.

6. Volunteer to be a Sunday school teacher and demonstrate to the toddlers how to soak your blouse through and through with drool and mucuous. (** This is to be understood without any sexual connotations. Get your mind out of the gutter.)

Etc.

"who is funny, sweet, caring and faithful and has a love for animals and family life."

Well, there is the crux of your problem right there, young lady.

Guys who love family life are either boring as hell and not funny, and that's why they figure being married and raising a family is such a hoot and more fun than a barrel of monkey. The other type of guy who perhaps is funny, he will not be sweet, as his goal with establishing a family is to have a close-knit group who cannot escape his brutal abuse of them.

A guy who is funny, sweet, caring, yet likes a family life, will never stay faithful. That type of guy uses his marriage as a springboard to have affairs with a never-ending stream of married women, one after another. The fact he has a family will make the other men's wives think he's caring; he is free of STD; and that he won't talk. Well, two out of three ain't bad.

Really, Sweety, Sassy, Simple, there simply isn't one swset chance you (or anyone else, no matter who they are) of catching a guy like you want with the attributes you attribute to him. He, simply, does not exist.

I would like to suggest, that in order to keep yourself from a big heart-ache or two, and to help you eventually lose your God-given innocence, that you somehow alter the criteria you look for in a possible mate.

Try fifty-ish, balding men with pot-bellies; or young men who go out drinking every Friday with their buddies from high school and come home drunk and want to make love to you but can't and are scaring the bejeesus out of your children during the proceedings.