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Me either, no love today....
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mmmmmmmmm
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I trust God And he was a man!! Jesus turned water into wine, He was God in the form of man, so I guess there is not much of a choice there. trust God... |
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Topic:
How Nice is Too Nice?
Edited by
John1932
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Wed 08/05/09 05:27 AM
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There is a difference in 1)being a yes man or yes woman and 2)agreeing on someones point of view. You may have your own opinion, but if someone makes a good point against your opinion, then what is wrong with saying, "Good Point" or "thats True" or "Good Job" I have my own opinions, but if I am debating an issue and someone makes a good point against my opinion, I will let them know they have made a good point. That is not being a Yes man. That is being someone who agrees to disagree. I guess that is the nice side of me, the side that wants to respect other peoples opinion while still standing firm to my own. I want to be a nice person because thats who I am, not because I want people to think I'm nice. hope that makes sense. Well, yes. It is good to be able to agree to disagree, but would you say yes to three different opinions without having your own? I think not. No, but if it was a good point to considering a view on a topic then I would acknowledge that it was a good point. Sometimes Good points are made and I may change my opinion based on them points. For instance, If a friend of mine wanted to marry a woman and he asked my opinion, I would tell him that if he loves her and she loves him then go for it, I am happy for you. You two would make a good couple. Later I may hear someone else s opinion that says no, they shouldn't get married, they make a bad couple and will never last. well I will stand firm to my opinion that I think they should get married, but if this person says, yea, but you don't know what I know, this friend of yours has three different woman that he is seeing at the same time and one of them is pregnant with his child, then my opinion will change because of the points that were made, the new facts that make me see that this isn't such a good idea after all. Wow, sorry to go so deep into this... lol |
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Topic:
How Nice is Too Nice?
Edited by
John1932
on
Wed 08/05/09 05:12 AM
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There is a difference in 1)being a yes man or yes woman and 2)agreeing on someones point of view.
You may have your own opinion, but if someone makes a good point against your opinion, then what is wrong with saying, "Good Point" or "that's True" or "Good Job". Someone may write an excellent poem, or a great article, I may not agree to what that poem or article says, but I will still recognize that the writing style and imagination is good, so when i tell someone that it was a good write, it doesn't always mean that I agree with what it says, but could very well mean that they did a good job and put some effort and skill into the style in which they wrote it. I have my own opinions, but if I am debating an issue and someone makes a good point against my opinion, I will let them know they have made a good point. That is not being a Yes man. That is being someone who agrees to disagree. I guess that is the nice side of me, the side that wants to respect other peoples opinion while still standing firm to my own. I want to be a nice person because thats who I am, not because I want people to think I'm nice. hope that makes sense. |
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Edited by
John1932
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Wed 08/05/09 04:32 AM
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OH man, I am so on this one....
Maybe |
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constant defiant behavior will eventually elicit a physical response. for those of you who do not think so i pose a question for you. You just found out your 10 year old son participated in the rape of a girl. what is your punishment for that? read the article it happens. Just wonder what the correct non-violent punishment would be for this situation. Or do you think we may want a physical punishment. I know there are a lot of people who would agree with physical punishment. http://www.azcentral.com/community/phoenix/articles/2009/08/03/20090803liberia0804.html If he did that, then I screwed up somewhere and he needs to face the consequences just like everyone else and go to jail... |
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Edited by
John1932
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Wed 08/05/09 03:27 AM
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Dhs runs most laws in the state, they believe in there bi laws that spanking children is harmful to there growth. They believe that you can 're direct' your child to a better understanding. are you for spanking or re directing your child. Were you spanked as a child or talked too. I have never had a spanking in my life.......... from my parents! NO JOKING>>> they did not believe in it... Out come, I spend my life feeling as i was never loved! When all the other children, got chores, and allowance, spankings. I got what ever i wanted, Go to your room.. OK GREAT! I can watch colored tv, turn on the radio, play games, call my girlfriends and with in 20mints i am walking out the house to go and play. While all the other kids are grounded for 2 weeks.. who suffered.. ME, I had no one to play with.. Haa haa ha Yes! I had children, YES i spanked them and YES they love me so much and respect me. NO! I hated my parents, and i did not respect them not until I turned 28yrs old... Now I know the Truth.... they were beaten with belts........ OOOPPSSSS>>>>> WOW, I don't spank per sae, put I do swat very firmly to get their attention, maybe even 5 swats depending on the severity and I made sure it did sting a little. My step dad used to beat me with a belt until I was bleeding, he believed that if there was no blood, then it was not a spanking, roughly 20-30 licks, then a soaking in the tub. My arms, legs and butt got the attention most of the time, but when he was really mad, he would welt my back up pretty good too. He tried it with my daughter and took her into the bathroom and locked the door so my mom couldn't stop him. luckily I walked in just as he was about to start hitting her with the belt, needless to say I went through the bathroom door and he got an arse whooping that night and is never allowed around my kids anymore... |
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I think it is OK to poke fun at someone else s fun, but not at their misfortunes. If that makes any sense..
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Does the experience of lifes ups and downs matter. When a woman loves a man ? What a wonderful question. Yes I think our experiences matter. I have had two long term relationhips, one was my husband, the father of my children and the second was with a man who I loved so much, it hurt. My husband had an affair for three years, I found out and it almost killed me, now I am over all of that and we all get on and are quite the nuclear family. My second ended because of cultural differences, the primary factor, there were other contributing factors of course. He is American and I am European, there were many difficulties, he would explode like a shaken bottle of champagne, if he took my words the wrong way and I could bore you all with the details, but I will not. My experiences, despite their behaviour and how I loved both these men, have contributed to how I am now, I looked at my own behaviour and their reactions and what I found was that they were both unhappy about the same things, my behaviour in those relationships, and that was hard to face, but I did. I know what love is for me, I never want to ask it, I never want to be asked to prove it, if I love him he will know I do. Those two men in their loving of me have taught me alot, how not to be bitter when it all ends, and I am not now, I was for a time, anger, hurt, resentment even hatred at times, but all I was doing was turning that back on myself and I was the one suffering. My recovery from that was long, and now I am happy. Happiness is an ongoing journey not a destination, and in my journey, amny things matter when I love a man. Well said 
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seriously, What do men want?
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marry a fat ugly girl, you said. lady ?? ladylid2012 are you drinking  when you write quotes on here babedoll ??   Slowly backs out of room and runs like Heck... |
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mmmmmmmmm
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smoking trees lol up in smoke  man made booze, god made pot. who can you trust ?? Not you apparently LOL |
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SPRING, put the shoe on the other foot girl, i feel your pain. this site is like the lamest site ive ever been on. a lot of unsociable stuckup girls here. snap *&^%$#$@ like are all you girls on that time of the month, at the same time ??? lol i hear you JOHN, and tbrich imdn nice girls are RARE. TAKES TIME, too meet people hear. lol rofl lmfao yea rightttt like what 6 months. got to be crazy to be here. like one flew over the cuckoo nest lol  WHOA WHOA WHOA, There are a lot of nice lovely ladies on this site. Talk to them to be friends, don't try to jump in their pants. Some of them don't want to date, they only want friends, read thier profile before you jump in and start asking...Then you wont get the stuck up answers.. |
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Edited by
John1932
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Wed 08/05/09 02:28 AM
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sleepytime!! thanks for the input guys Do you know that the forum rules actually say we are not supposed to tell people goodnight or Bye.. i read them earlier and that kind of shocked me.... Sorry, off topic, thats against the rules too, LOL |
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GREEATTT!!!!!
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Yes you should share everything, but the question is when?
You don't want to do it out of anger, you don't want to use it against them in an argument. You want to approach it before it gets out of hand. easy said than done I know. depends on your partner. |
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Topic:
Negros in the Bible
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Jesus looks like that because the europeans portrayed him as such. It is been proven though that he was dark skinned not black and he spoke with a lisp. What does it matter really what color he was though? People waste too much time and energy on what color he was and not the message he delivered. I mean come on black white red yellow purple green who really cares just love one another. I dont see how they proved that he spoke with a lisp, but OK |
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Topic:
Negros in the Bible
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Yes, of course...so why in all the pictures of Jesus he is fair with blue eyes... interesting. ethnic conceit Yep. exactly... |
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Topic:
Negros in the Bible
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Mormons believe that being black was a curse from God for sin... and all those who are black are living the sins of the fathers. What a terrible thing to teach your children..or anyone..  Yea, I agree, that is Hogwash, its not in the Bible, so where do they get that teaching? |
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Topic:
Negros in the Bible
Edited by
John1932
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Wed 08/05/09 01:20 AM
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Negros in the Bible Genesis 2:7 Proves that Adam is Black. And the LORD God formed man of the DUST of the ground…. Dust is in color brown. Exodus 2:17-19 Moses Mistaken for an Egyptian this proves Moses was Black. …And they said, An Egyptian delivered us Egyptians are a dark skinned people. Exodus 4: 6 Moses’s black hand turns white, “leprous as snow.” …he put his hand into his bosom: and when he took it out, behold, his hand was leprous as snow. Numbers 12:9-12 Miriam’s black skin turns white, like a skinned knee. Let her not be as one dead, of whom the flesh is half consumed… Job 30:30 Job’s skin is Black. My skin is black upon me… Song of Solomon 1:5-6 Solomon is black and beautiful. He got blacker in the sun. …I am black, because the sun hath looked upon me… Isaiah 29:22 The face of Israel is black and will never turn white. Jacob…his face now wax pale. Jeremiah 8:21 Jeremiah is Black. …I am black… Jeremiah 12:9 God’s heritage (Israel) is different shades of brown. Mine heritage is unto me as a speckled bird… Jeremiah 14:2 The Jews (Judah) are black. …they are black unto the ground… They are in color as the ground is different shades of brown. Lamentations 4:8 There visage (face) is black. Their visage is blacker than a coal… Lamentations 5:10 our (Israel) skin is black. Our skin was black like an oven… Ezekiel 1:7 The Angels are black. …they sparkled like the colour of burnished brass. Burned brass. Ezekiel 40:3 Black Angel. …a man, whose appearance was like the appearance of brass… Bass is in color brown like a penny. Daniel 7:9 God, the father is a black man with wooly hair. …the hair of his head like the pure wool… Daniel 10:5-6 Christ’s arms and feet are black. …and his arms and his feet like in color to polished brass… Polished brass is burned brass. Acts 13:1 Simon called niger (black). Niger is Latin for Black. Acts 21:37-38 Paul mistaken for an Egyptian this proves he was black. …Art not thou that Egyptian. Revelation 1: 13-15 Proves Christ is black. …his feet like unto fine brass, as if they burned in a furnace http://www.thecomforter.info/main/ They were all Mideastern decent, they weren't white, but I dont think they weren't black either, they were more Arabic. different ethnicity didnt come about until the tower of Babel when they decided to build a tower to heaven and because of their arrogant ways, God mixed up there tongues, (languages) character features so they could not communicate and to create confusion among them. Revelation 1: 13-15 Proves Christ is black. …his feet like unto fine brass, as if they burned in a furnace since when is brass black? If our Arab descendants were black, then I guess your right.. |
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I was talking to a friend via email today...and a thought struck me. Of all the guys I know, I am the least " guy " like. I don't sit around drinking beer. Hell...I rarely drink at all. I am not completely fascinated by boobs. They are nice and all, and I can appreciate a nice pair just like other guys. But they don't completely mesmerize me. I'm not into watching porn. I don't find toilet humor, or the Jackass show/movies funny in any way. Considering the fact that women, for the most part, expect guys to appreciate a fart joke, or look at their chests rather than their face when they are trying to have a conversation.... Should I just pack up and go home??? I mean, I like sports and stuff...but that's about it. Nahhh!!! Its your feminine side, we all have em. Just some are more sensitive than others. Im the same way, except for boobies, I do like boobies, but I dont touch em or gawk at em with out permission. |
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