Unfortunately the "truth" is subjective. For example:

Even if someone said "I don't want to be with you because you're(fill in the blank)" it is still only their opinion and not necessarily truth. With that being said I think when people break up they are bitter because it didn't work out... While they think they may be telling the other person the "truth" they are really just looking for a place to lay blame. How hard is it to admit it's no ones FAULT and just part ways because you're not right for each other?

I only ask because for the past 3 years I was with this guy but it never felt right to me.I didn't know what to do.My family loved him,my daughter loved him,he did take care of us,fixed the house if it needed fixing but he was lousy at keeping a job,lousy at communicating,gave no affection to me or intimacy and had a bad smokin problem*weed.My whole family told me to marry him bc he was the best I could get.'There is no such thing as love mija,you need to be with someone who can take care of you and your daughter.'they said.Needless to say,I broke it off anyway bc my heart just wasn't in it.

I used to believe Love exists but as I get older I don't think that way anymore; its just a convenience. People have forgotten how to love as its all about possessions and money these days. Very sad.