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Topic: Love or convenience?
spiritfilled24's photo
Mon 12/13/10 02:48 PM
How many people truely believe that Love exists?Is it really that googoo,gaga,my world turned upside down and sweep you off your feet feeling like everyone says?Or do you believe in convenience?Well,he/she is there for me,they do everything a good woman/man is supposed to but I just don't think I'm 'in'love with him/her.They put up with my b.s.,the family loves 'em...I guess I could grow to love this person.What is your opinion?

kc0003's photo
Mon 12/13/10 02:53 PM
it does exist, but the timing (among many other things) has to be right.
convenience is nothing more than another way to say settle, if that is good enough for some people i guess they can live with it.

newarkjw's photo
Mon 12/13/10 02:57 PM
Well I'm not in a gang or no chit but you need to chill your azz. That's right I said it.........smokin

Seakolony's photo
Mon 12/13/10 03:02 PM
Oh it exists..........but don't understand why you can't be head over heels and convenient to ur partner at the same time..........things that make u go hmmmmmmmmm??

krupa's photo
Mon 12/13/10 03:05 PM
I like convenient love. Why else do you think they made rip away pants with velcro seams.

ps.....

That is not a gang sign she is throwing dude...I think it means she just got back from an Ozzie Osbourne concert.

May777's photo
Mon 12/13/10 03:06 PM

How many people truely believe that Love exists?Is it really that googoo,gaga,my world turned upside down and sweep you off your feet feeling like everyone says?Or do you believe in convenience?Well,he/she is there for me,they do everything a good woman/man is supposed to but I just don't think I'm 'in'love with him/her.They put up with my b.s.,the family loves 'em...I guess I could grow to love this person.What is your opinion?


watch the movie...... Leap Year :heart:

newarkjw's photo
Mon 12/13/10 03:09 PM

I like convenient love. Why else do you think they made rip away pants with velcro seams.

ps.....

That is not a gang sign she is throwing dude...I think it means she just got back from an Ozzie Osbourne concert.


I always get those messed up. Rock on....drinker

Himself1's photo
Mon 12/13/10 03:10 PM
Love is there for sure, all around, everywhere, tingling like a sneeze or snow covering everything from the inside.

That doesn't mean tho that people don't settle for less, settle for convenience sake, settle because they have an idea of a family and they're willing to cut a toe and a heel to make the dream a reality.

Of course dreams aren't reality, most people awake to discover this. But love very much is.

I think the problem is not love, but peoples conception of what love is. People want love to absolute them, they want to melt with another person. IMO people are complicated and changing beings of spirit sex desire and need, and if people generally had a more humble attitude towards love in a relationship, maybe so many of them wouldn't break.

Just my 2cents.

BTW seriously like you pix spirit - cool sexy attitude!

no photo
Mon 12/13/10 03:20 PM
Love exist. if you accept each others difference thats love. if you understand each other thats love. Convience is if you enjoy each other without taking advantage. This idea go along with comfort of knowing one another.

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 12/13/10 03:23 PM
Of courselove exists!!!


Con love also exists!!


Nothin wrong with either one....


He slips me a 50.....


I'm in love!!!!bigsmile :heart:

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 12/13/10 03:53 PM
O its there and i think i just found it love love love love

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 12/13/10 04:21 PM
oh, its real, it just takes awhile to find.

kc0003's photo
Mon 12/13/10 04:30 PM

Oh it exists..........but don't understand why you can't be head over heels and convenient to ur partner at the same time..........things that make u go hmmmmmmmmm??


because the question (as i read it) puts convenience in place of love, not assuming one can have both.

chelsea466's photo
Mon 12/13/10 04:49 PM
Of course love does exist.
Some of us just prefer to settle for less meaning convience. Whether we know it or not.
Just have to be patient and wait and see what the future holds.

willing2's photo
Mon 12/13/10 04:54 PM
Edited by willing2 on Mon 12/13/10 05:12 PM
Yep, it can be found.

I am very grateful to have the kids I have.smokin

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 12/13/10 05:02 PM
It all depends in what you are looking for in love and what you want to get out of it.

Seakolony's photo
Mon 12/13/10 05:03 PM
Gotcha was just pointing something out to the young lady..........is all but thank you KC for your unending wit and charm

Cheer_up's photo
Mon 12/13/10 05:06 PM
Love is a amazing thing when it happens you will know it see theres different types of love you can love a person and theres inlove with a person that is so deep true love but as for convience thats not true love thats more like a friend love to help out with splitting the bills and stuff flowers i was inlove years ago over 15 years ago but life is so short and time passes so fast :)

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 12/13/10 05:07 PM

How many people truely believe that Love exists?Is it really that googoo,gaga,my world turned upside down and sweep you off your feet feeling like everyone says?


It depends on how well she kisses. bigsmile

spiritfilled24's photo
Mon 12/13/10 06:07 PM
Thanks for that and yes,I love rock and roll lol.

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