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Mon 10/05/09 01:15 AM

What is your favorite Clint Eastwood movie and why? The guy is a legend, and unless you're 5 years old, you've seen at least one of his movies. What movie is your favorite? And what do you identify with in the role he played?



My favorite Clint Eastwood movie is "Where Eagles Dare". It was an epic production, set in Austria amid a castle fortress. The plot had intrigue, espionage, drama, and shoot'em'up action with a cast including Richard Burton. Additionally, it featured Eastwood in a genre other than "Spaghetti Westerns". This movie was a commercial and critical success. Eastwood flourished in this World War II setting, much as he did in my second favorite, "Kelly's Heroes".

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Sun 10/04/09 11:05 PM
Is it just me, or are the Cowboys destined for ANOTHER underachieving football campaign? I truly believe that the Cowboys have a talent base to win many games and advance far into the playoffs.

But, they appear to "self-destruct" at inopportune moments. I believe that is a reflection on their coaching, [lack of discipline]. For all of Jerry Jones' business and marketing genius, he fails miserably when it comes to staff/personnel decisions. I can recall all of those "wasted years" after Barry Switzer left the organization. Let me see...there was Chan Gailey and Dave Campo. While those 2 may have been fine coordinators, they were sorely overtaxed as head coaches. Those 2 squandered what talent was left from Dallas' Super Bowl title teams of the 90's. What did Gailey and Campo have in common? They were consummate "yes men". It was not until Jones hired Bill Parcells that some semblance of discipline and order was restored. Successful teams NEED the guidance and discipline of taskmasters like Parcells. If it was not for a Tony Romo blunder, [bobbled hold on a chip-shot field goal which led to a playoff loss], Parcells still might be coaching. But, after Parcells went into retirement, Jones went back to his old ways and hired another "company man" in Wade Phillips.

Phillips is a nice guy and a likeable sort, he may even be a capable defensive coordinator. However, he does not have the leadership qualities, discipline, or ability to guide the Cowboys to playoff success, let alone Super Bowl victories. Dallas has commendable talent, offensively and defensively. But, this talent is being squandered. If anyone needs conclusive proof, refer to the debacle against Philadelphia in the last regular season game of 2008. A playoff birth was on the line, and Dallas was hopelessly battered. This overlooks the fact that Dallas had several opportunities along the way to avoid "an all or nothing" contest. All they had to do was win 1 game out of their last several. They did not. I would recommend that Jones fire Phillips and his entire staff and make overtures to Bill Cowher, Tony Dungy, and Mike Shanahan in that order.

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Sun 10/04/09 10:42 PM

I have been on this site for some time now. This is my first time posting. I haven t had a great deal of luck on this site due to the fact that when I start to be on the rite track with someone, a few days later they send their email address then invite me to sign up for a webcam site. Is there anyone on here to really meet someone?



For the most part, I have found the female patrons to be "real" on this site. I have met one or two "scammers", who actually lived on other continents, [needing money, of course]. But, they are in the minority. As a rule, the "web cams" are just a tool to drain your pocket book. They are not free. Any mention of "web cams" and sites which require a membership fee should be a red flag and reported to the Mingle2 administration. The absolute worst site for the "web cam" scammers is "AmateurMatch.com". That is an [internet dating/soft porn] purveyor that has been much maligned for having "fake female" patrons entice you to purchase a membership.

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Sat 10/03/09 09:23 PM
Hitler is justifiably reviled by civilized society for many reasons. Foremost, he waged political, racial, and military wars against individuals who: he disliked, feared, loathed, or needed to conquer in order to fulfill his "Lebensraum" conception. Hitler had no regard for the sanctity of human life; including his own Germanic peoples. To Hitler, human sacrifice was just a means to an end. What mattered to Hitler were conquests; not the losses in human life, the destruction, or the displacement of sovereign nations. Hitler's World War II European conflict is estimated to have cost the lives of over 70,000,000 people. That consists of military personnel and civilians. But, it does not address the cost in human emotions, suffering, and devastation to the European continent.

Perhaps the greatest paradox of the Hitler racial ideology was that HITLER HIMSELF HAD A JEWISH LINEAGE. Genealogists have asserted that Hitler had between a 1/4 and 1/8 Jewish composition. This was due to the fact that there was a Jewish ancestry in Hitler's immediate progenitors. In fact, I recall the surname to be "Shickelgrube". So, whether Hitler really despised Hebrews and those who practiced the Jewish faith, or he merely had a schizophrenic personality, it is better left to the historians.

Hitler used this hatred of the Jews to unite an embittered and forlorn German nation. Hitler was a master of psychology. He used the textbook ruse of uniting a faction against a common enemy. In this case, it was the Jews. To the warped Hitler mentality, the Jews were responsible for all of Germany's and Western civilization's woes. Aside from the obvious falsehood of that mantra, the Hebrews only comprised a fraction of the world's population, then and now. It was merely a tactical, [but effective ruse], to explain away all of Germany's own failings and inadequacies.

Hitler's concept of "a supreme Aryan race" was proven to be false. He was ultimately defeated by a coalition of Saxons, Slavs, Latins, Anglos, Indians, Africans, and countless other ethnic groups which he would label as "subhuman".

Any nation, organization, political group, or religious faction that would laud Hitler as "heroic" could only be categorized as "extremist" and "inhuman". Hitler's ultimate ideals were racial hatred, military conquest, the oppression and suppression of free peoples, and the establishment of a murderous regime.

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Fri 10/02/09 03:35 PM
Where is everyone finding this "Ladies' Man" reference!? I looked at the young man's profile and could not locate it.

I would offer that one's "popularity" on this site is affected and can be determined by several factors. Among them are : (1) your degree of activity and messaging, (2) females seeking males with your characteristics, [in a search], and (3) your activity, if any, in the forums.
There is no rhyme nor reason to romance. Generally, women are more discerning than men are. They would likely take the time to read your profile. So, there may be facets of your bio that do not interest them. A positive and upbeat byline could not hurt your chances. If you have messaged any women on this site, you might have made the mistake of "coming on too strong". While all women are not the same, I do not think that the majority of women on this site would enjoy racy, provocative messages from a stranger. Especially, if they are your introductory messages. Activity in the chat forums might go a long way in making your profile more prominent. You would likely impress a great number of women with intelligent, candid, and honest thoughts on a variety of subjects.

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Thu 10/01/09 11:53 PM
I think that Brett is facing that realization which champion athletes must face in their careers: I am not immortal and my body can't perform like this forever. Even at his advanced age, he is far better than most starting NFL quarterbacks. Champion athletes have a hard time walking away from their professions because their successes, the competition, and the acclaim define who they are. They are not happy unless they are competing and conquering. I do imagine that great success would be addictive.

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Thu 10/01/09 11:37 PM
I had an encounter over 6 years ago with a crazed motorist. I was going to work and some knucklehead was tearing down the highway at 90 or 95. He was moving so fast and stealthily, that I just barely saw him and avoided a collision with him, [I was going to change lanes]. The motorist also had to hit his brakes and take evasive action. He got irate and started to follow me. I presume he thought my lane change was deliberate, it was not. Well, he followed me for several miles and eventually tried to ram my car off the road. I am not a faint hearted individual. When this guy stopped the verbal abuse and hand gestures, [the finger], and resorted to physical violence, I had enough. So, I stopped in the middle of a 4 lane thoroughfare. I came to a dead stop. I knew that if he also stopped, his intent was to cause me harm. Sure enough, he stopped right behind me and got out. He threw the first punch and I had him up against the car and was pounding on him. Well, at that moment, the cops drove by and saw me beating up this motorist. It just so happened that there was a procession of 4 cop cars. So, they all took turns beating me. They did not care who started the fight or ask of its origins. This other motorist was a uniformed Air Force Captain. So, I was charged with assault and taken to court. The cops brutalized me, protected the road rage perpetrator, and threatened citizens who had seen what had actually happened, [my version].

To make a long story short, you should ignore these motorists if all they do is honk, yell at you, or flip you off. Try to avoid and evade them. But, if they physically try to harm you, do whatever you have to do to survive. Most states would allow "deadly force".


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Thu 10/01/09 10:51 PM

I can't speak for the male populace. But, I do take the time to read a woman's profile as a matter of course. A few sentences or paragraphs can sometimes tell a great deal about a person. Especially, since they presumably authored their bio. I have to admit, a knockout photo is the marketing tool which draws the attention. But, true men of substance need more than sheer asthetic beauty, [though, that is a damn good start]. I did read your profile in its entirety.


"the Great Mephisto"


From your bio, I sense that you are a person that "lives for the moment" and "seizes the moment" in a passionate way. It appears that you embrace life and its uncertainties, while finding and enjoying the beauty which exists around you. I take it that you find happiness in human interaction, rather than in material possessions. Finally, it seems that you are waiting for another free spirit to complement you and share this wondrous journey we call "life" with.

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Thu 10/01/09 10:44 PM
I can't speak for the male populace. But, I do take the time to read a woman's profile as a matter of course. A few sentences or paragraphs can sometimes tell a great deal about a person. Especially, since they presumably authored their bio. I have to admit, a knockout photo is the marketing tool which draws the attention. But, true men of substance need more than sheer asthetic beauty, [though, that is a damn good start]. I did read your profile in its entirety.


"the Great Mephisto"

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Thu 10/01/09 10:38 PM
I do not normally wear underwear. The only occasion I might is when I wear a suit or slacks, [formal dress]. I find that underwear are too constricting.

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Wed 09/30/09 10:30 PM
I want the Mingle2 patrons' views on the inadequacies of MMA "fighter" and cult personality "Kimbo Slice". Kimbo is best known for his dozens of "street brawls", captured for posterity on YouTube. The brief segments captured the fancy of teenagers and would-be street brawlers across the nation. Kimbo was quite successful in these encounters, winning all but one. The contests were held in backyards, parking lots, indoors, and elsewhere.

I have no personal animosity towards the guy. In fact, I like him as a person. He is intelligent, honest, and a hard worker. But, the difference between a gifted "street brawler" and a mixed martial artist fighting in the UFC can be measured in light years. Case in point, in the latest edition of "The Ultimate Fighter" reality series shown on 9/30/09, Kimbo was hopelessly outclassed and beaten by a guy with the physique of actor John Goodman. I was really pulling for him. But, neither he nor anyone else could transform themselves into a true martial artist in such a short time. We have got to face the music, Kimbo's only value in the industry lies in marketing gimmicks. I watched many of his YouTube bouts. But, I instinctively knew that backyard brawlers would be outmatched against dedicated martial artists. If further proof is needed, Kimbo was defeated by journeyman Seth Petrocelli in less than 15 seconds. The rapid defeat led to the immediate demise of that organization. Enough said.

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Tue 09/29/09 10:40 PM
Your bio led off with an "attention grabber": never married and without children. In the pursuit of romance, those are positive attributes to possess. On top of that, you have a radiant and friendly smile. A few more photos should start the procession of fan mail.

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Tue 09/29/09 10:32 PM
I would ditch the "horizontal" view. I have seen that before and I never really warmed up to it. Though, you are cute enough to generate response as it stands. Tell us a little bit more about you. Remember, your Mingle2 profile is all about YOU. But, leave enough out so that your admirers will e-mail you for more details.

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Tue 09/29/09 10:26 PM
You look great from the photo. Young, attractive, and with a nice smile. Though, I would suggest that you use a "solo picture" for your feature. It is not applicable in this case, but I have seen instances where young women surround themselves in a "sea of attractive girlfriends" in ALL of their photos. The only way I could discern who was the actual Mingle2 member was by reading their bio and identifying their listed physical characteristics. I think you should also tell more about yourself and what type of man and relationship you seek on Mingle2. That way you can sort of advise "would-be Romeos" that they may not fit the male profile you are looking for. It would save them time, [by not e-mailing you], and your time, [getting only messages from guys who might suit your tastes].


"the Great Mephisto"

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Sun 09/27/09 11:03 PM
I would like the Mingle2 patrons' views on the Ultimate Fighting Championship. As for myself, I feel that it is the closest thing to a simulated "street fight" that we can expect. It appears that former wrestlers are using their size and strength to hurl their opponents down to the ground and batter them. It is a simple but effective technique. I had always figured that some of the more famous wrestlers, WWE stars, etc., would thrive in a street fight. They are simply too big and powerful an opponent to deal with. Now, I certainly respect and admire martial artists who dedicate years of their lives to master a discipline or disciplines. But, there comes a point where technique can't overcome an opponent possessing extraordinary size and power.

I feel the UFC satisfies the desire of fans who want to know who would win in a "no holds barred" contest. Though, I would beg to differ with some of the UFC's marketing decisions and competitive pairings. I think that Dana White essentially directs the competition in ways that support the "party line". I believe that even the sport's most ardent detractors would have to agree that the UFC contests can provide unexpected and dynamic action.

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Sat 09/26/09 11:15 PM
Hola !mami!. Are you going to introduce me to your chicas? Seriously, you radiate sex appeal. I think you should add more text about yourself: what you like to do, what type of man you are looking for, what type of relationship you want, if any, etc. Give the fellas a clue. Otherwise, you are going to get a ton of e-mails from dudes who can't hang with you.

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Fri 09/25/09 10:44 AM
You are a cute, young woman. Though, I would get rid of the photos with the glasses. You have a pretty face and the glasses take away from that. I would also offer some advice about your essay. Guys are turned off by bios that put them on the defensive. You know, words like "I've been burned, baby-daddy, no players, etc.". When I see a woman's bio discussing her bad, past relationships, that is dissuading. We all have had bad relationships, that is one reason why we are here: to try new things and meet new people. We should not punish future relationships for the sins of past relationships.


"the Great Mephisto"

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Fri 09/25/09 10:08 AM
Nice picture with a cute baby. Your essay is compact and to the point. The only thing I would suggest is to eliminate some of your e-mail parameters. The only ones I have on my profile are: a female, between 18-59, who is not married. In particular, I ditched the "distance" parameter. You might miss out on someone really suited to you because they live 110 miles away from you. In fact, that person could not even communicate with you. For my tastes, I would travel a good distance to meet that special woman, not thousands of miles, but a fair amount.


"the Great Mephisto"

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Fri 09/25/09 01:04 AM
Anyone who hopes and thinks they are likely to meet their significant other on this site is either: (1) delusional, (2) unrealistic, and or (3) desperate. In the first instance, you are not likely TO ACTUALLY MEET the individuals you communicate with, [Mingle2 has a global base]. In the absence of a face to face meeting, all you have are images and text from someone claiming to possess a certain identity, [from Georgia, 27 years old, etc.]. Mingle2 must be recognized for what it is, a forum for adults to communicate. It is not a panacea for "lonely hearts".

Further, berating a young man who has a self-confidence crisis is not an advisable therapuetic application. You are only reinforcing what he perceives as his lack of self-worth. I think it fair to say that the majority of women on Mingle2 would not be compared to "Helen of Troy" in the beauty category. Nor would they be compared to Marilyn vos Savant in the intellectual category. So, I do not see how or why the pundit bloggers radiate an "air of superiority". I do not think that impeccable grammar would resolve his internal dilemma. I do not think that dapper dress would "make him a chick magnet" either. What the young man needs to do is to learn to like himself. He should build upon his postive traits and skills. Everyone has some talent, whether it is latent or pronounced.
Post-graduate literary skills are not indicative of a person's character and sincerity.

The young man espouses that he is an "outdoorsman". Well, every outdoorsman should have a hunting dog. If nothing else, it would teach him how to care for and be responsible for something living. I did not mean to imply that the dog would merely be a gimmick, prop, or a ruse. I think having a pet would make him socially active. Dogs need exercise, and exercise requires outdoor physical activity. Thus, he would likely have more encounters with women while exercising his pet. In any event, pets can bring happiness to their owners and ease their anxieties. Pontificating on whether or not he could AFFORD such a luxury is absurd. He never elaborated on his personal wealth. Though, he did imply that he made good money, "he does not women to want him for what is in his wallet". I also gathered that he has been out of technical school for many years. In any event, one could amply feed and care for a large adult dog with $ 50 a month.

So, I would close with this interrogative question: [interrogative, meaning I would like a truthful response].

How many patrons on this site have ACTUALLY MET AND OR DATED SOMEONE THEY COMMUNICATED WITH? If so, why are you still active on this site?





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Fri 09/25/09 12:21 AM

He is not a kid anymore. If he wants to find someone on an adult dateing site then be ready to face the music. He ask to be rated and I gave him the unvarnished truth.

Telling someone to get a dog as "chick bait" is an irresponsible reasoning and only puts and innocent animal in the hands of someone who is not forward thinking enough to take on a decade or longer responsibility. Fresh out of school I doubt he could afford the care an animal would require. Finding independent houseing with a large animal is very difficult. And you can't just expect someone to want the dog and him because they might pet the animal.

If you come on line thinking that "internet dating" is not "serious" and only give it a half baked attempt then about all you will get is a half baked response. Many dynamic people come on line and present who they are in a well organized and thoughtful way and they attract like persons. This young man is not a bad person but he is hiding his light under a bushel of poorly crafted words, a sloppy presentation, and a negative self pitying attitude that people will rarely respond to.