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nobody in to nice guys. i'm begining to wonder myself. i guess its true nice guys finish last.
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Yes they do
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It's not that your profile sucks, it just takes time. You won't find someone as soon as you join
 I have been here since last March  Good Luck 
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 There's a "why do good girls always finish last?" thread currently running. Maybe you should go in there...if you're both running at the back of the pack and all, maybe you can keep each other company.  Just a thought. I have 'em randomly. Sorry. It's been one of those days.  Welcome to mingle. 
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Just relax, have fun..
Profile is fine good things come to those who wait, or so I have heard.
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You are correct SIR!
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There are plenty of "nice guys" that feel no one wants them. There's a girl out there...it takes time. Keep living. Best wishes.
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Thu 09/24/09 05:22 PM
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Welcome Get more pix and preferably with a smile, have some confidence and don't play the victim by saying "nice guys finish last". Not only is it annoying to hear from every other guy on this site but it's a pathetic attitude to exude. Not many girls would be attracted to that personality. Smile! Be vibrant! Have fun! |
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what about, that my life sucks, and my profile does too.
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Keep on truckin' man. I feel ya.
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what about, that my life sucks, and my profile does too. What? Are you an emo kid? 
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what about, that my life sucks, and my profile does too. ,and so does your love life. This could go on for.....well, forever. I think you can do better than that. |
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nobody in to nice guys. i'm begining to wonder myself. i guess its true nice guys finish last. "a hundered grand on my wrist, yeah life sucks..." |
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yup.......nice guys finish first. Good thing I am an azz
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Negativity is NOT sexy!!! It doesn't sound like you are in the right frame of mind to be looking for a relationship...maybe you should read "In the Meantime" by Iyanla Vanzant...good insight.
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Finding the right person is not like ordering your favorite meal at McDonalds. It takes time. Sometimes it takes a lot of time. Be patient and, in the meantime, be happy.
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Your right your profile sucks. Come on you are a high school graduate and you don't bother to use capitalization or proof read your profile for spelling or the word you are trying to use.
Your picture is not flattering. No smile and a t-shirt that looks like you have worn it a week. Which of the interest that you mention do you realisticly see attracting a girfriend? You don't even mention shareing them with a female. Come on you are old enough to man up and stop whineing. Clean up your profile, add some engageing photos, participate in the forums and you might see some action. Less likely as a smoker in the consevative bible belt where you live professing to be and agnostic but it's possible. |
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Give the kid a break. I don't think he ever got over the awkward high school years. And as for grammar, vocabulary, and fashion, I would not include the vast majority of Mingle2 patrons at the high ends of the spectrum.
There is someone for everyone. Further, I would advise him not to take "internet dating" too seriously. You never know who you are actually dealing with on these sites and con artists and scammers flourish here. My advice would be to get a cute dog, like a golden retriever or a labrador retriever. Chicks dig cute dogs and they would likely approach him at a park [or at least his dog]. That would be a good cue to start a conversation with them. |
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He is not a kid anymore. If he wants to find someone on an adult dateing site then be ready to face the music. He ask to be rated and I gave him the unvarnished truth.
Telling someone to get a dog as "chick bait" is an irresponsible reasoning and only puts and innocent animal in the hands of someone who is not forward thinking enough to take on a decade or longer responsibility. Fresh out of school I doubt he could afford the care an animal would require. Finding independent houseing with a large animal is very difficult. And you can't just expect someone to want the dog and him because they might pet the animal. If you come on line thinking that "internet dating" is not "serious" and only give it a half baked attempt then about all you will get is a half baked response. Many dynamic people come on line and present who they are in a well organized and thoughtful way and they attract like persons. This young man is not a bad person but he is hiding his light under a bushel of poorly crafted words, a sloppy presentation, and a negative self pitying attitude that people will rarely respond to. |
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He is not a kid anymore. If he wants to find someone on an adult dateing site then be ready to face the music. He ask to be rated and I gave him the unvarnished truth. Telling someone to get a dog as "chick bait" is an irresponsible reasoning and only puts and innocent animal in the hands of someone who is not forward thinking enough to take on a decade or longer responsibility. Fresh out of school I doubt he could afford the care an animal would require. Finding independent houseing with a large animal is very difficult. And you can't just expect someone to want the dog and him because they might pet the animal. If you come on line thinking that "internet dating" is not "serious" and only give it a half baked attempt then about all you will get is a half baked response. Many dynamic people come on line and present who they are in a well organized and thoughtful way and they attract like persons. This young man is not a bad person but he is hiding his light under a bushel of poorly crafted words, a sloppy presentation, and a negative self pitying attitude that people will rarely respond to.  |
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