Hello people out there. Can somebody really tell me why can't i get a date. Whats wrong with my profile? Is it my looks? Pls tell me somebody.

You haven't exactly been here for very long. Besides, women are not a fast food drive thru for you. Spend time in the forum's and, get to know everybody. Welcome to M2.

One week....and one day.....



For how long before you joined this site could you not get a date?


Expand on your profile, share information about YOU.....and check the spelling...


and Mutual Match, I hear, has a high success rate...

KEEP ON TRYING MY BRO

One may want to tell people a little more than that, for it may leave the wrong impression that one might be lazy in a relationship, and don't want to write very much. one might want to take the time to do it anyway, for it is a reflection back on the creater of the profile, and doesn't one want to attract like minds? We are constantly learning on this site, and finding out more what we want from a person, don't you want them to realize it? I think so, for you are trying to find out.... but you already know you can do it.....don't you.... you like reading more, rather than less about the people that you see on here, for it entices you....well, entice them, and give something for them to think about.
good luck! hope this helps!


look at profiles with high posting numbers for examples to get good ideas that fit you....

well saying that you are a "ladies man" may not be the finest approach because it can have negative connotations...

but otherwise, just be yourself and participate in the discussions
and you will certainly meet some nice people who don't want to date in general and live 48,651 miles away!

but not mine!!!!

Mine is there to confuse people...

well........................there's no mistaking that you rock.....you could insult people on yours, and we'd still love you, and get a great giggle on as well

Ytes, I agree...Saying you are a "ladies man" will make women think you are a cheater as well

You will get some hits.. just continue to be nice, and youll get bites.



You will.. just patience.. If you post in the forums youll get seen more too!


Just keep puttin yourself out there, when its time, its time.



Tips: dont be lookin for "the one" have fun, and date, and get to know people over coffee, and dinner.


dont post a thread about what a "nice guy" you are. youll get negative posts in return.

Good luck, and God Bless.

just be yourself and relax...................
rome was not built in a day my friend

Everybody is right. You have to have the watermelon out at a picnic awhile before it attracts ants. Or whatever that expression is.

sad story bro

maybe change your pic to one that looks more friendly (smile!)

The "ladies' man" comment is a huge red flag and has a very negative meaning. Being a “ladies’ man” screams being a player, or being smooth, untrustworthy, and creepy.

I would get new pix. The one you have as your main is not attractive. Smile!

Enjoy the site!

Don't they know....it's instant gratification society these days! lol

Said it all really, just take your time and join in i have been here only a week and slowley i am making friends just keep at it. Anna x

You sounds desperate man... Take it slowly and smell the coffee and enjoy the aroma...

Where is everyone finding this "Ladies' Man" reference!? I looked at the young man's profile and could not locate it.

I would offer that one's "popularity" on this site is affected and can be determined by several factors. Among them are : (1) your degree of activity and messaging, (2) females seeking males with your characteristics, [in a search], and (3) your activity, if any, in the forums.
There is no rhyme nor reason to romance. Generally, women are more discerning than men are. They would likely take the time to read your profile. So, there may be facets of your bio that do not interest them. A positive and upbeat byline could not hurt your chances. If you have messaged any women on this site, you might have made the mistake of "coming on too strong". While all women are not the same, I do not think that the majority of women on this site would enjoy racy, provocative messages from a stranger. Especially, if they are your introductory messages. Activity in the chat forums might go a long way in making your profile more prominent. You would likely impress a great number of women with intelligent, candid, and honest thoughts on a variety of subjects.

Look a little bit closer...LOL

Its because the Hokey Pokey is really what it is all about...

... and I'd have to say... you aren't exactly filling us with volumes of information to go by here... like one post and you give up... jeez... how f-ing romantic is that... I bet you have to beat the women off with a plank, don't you?