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Topic: Personality changes
carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Thu 03/21/13 01:57 PM
Are some people so sweet that they just become rotten? No I think they are already rotten they just cover it up with sugar coating.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Thu 03/21/13 02:01 PM
Thanks. That helps.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 03/21/13 02:05 PM
Thanks. That helps. Do you agree?

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Thu 03/21/13 03:18 PM
I have noticed this so many times when people get into a relationship. Some become very mellow and seem happier and nicer than ever. That I can I understand, It is when they claim to be so in love and yet they become mean and nasty to others including people that once were their friends. My only guess is either they are not as happy as they say they are or Jealousy has reared its ugly head. What are your thoughts? and sometimes it's the rude and hateful so called "friends" that are the problem.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Thu 03/21/13 03:19 PM
Thanks. That helps. Do you agree? Yes

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14968	Thu 03/21/13 05:50 PM
I have noticed this so many times when people get into a relationship. Some become very mellow and seem happier and nicer than ever. That I can I understand, It is when they claim to be so in love and yet they become mean and nasty to others including people that once were their friends. My only guess is either they are not as happy as they say they are or Jealousy has reared its ugly head. What are your thoughts? Some people are mean and nasty, when they are jealous of others. Some women get that way, when thinking some other woman wants their man. True friends do not treat friends bad.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 03/21/13 05:58 PM
Some people put their best foot forward and watch their manners when first going out. They just can't maintain it because they are simply rotten inside.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 03/21/13 06:30 PM
I have noticed this so many times when people get into a relationship. Some become very mellow and seem happier and nicer than ever. That I can I understand, It is when they claim to be so in love and yet they become mean and nasty to others including people that once were their friends. My only guess is either they are not as happy as they say they are or Jealousy has reared its ugly head. What are your thoughts? and sometimes it's the rude and hateful so called "friends" that are the problem. Not really sure how all the friends they had before could be the problem. This does not make sense to me.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 03/21/13 06:32 PM
I have noticed this so many times when people get into a relationship. Some become very mellow and seem happier and nicer than ever. That I can I understand, It is when they claim to be so in love and yet they become mean and nasty to others including people that once were their friends. My only guess is either they are not as happy as they say they are or Jealousy has reared its ugly head. What are your thoughts? Some people are mean and nasty, when they are jealous of others. Some women get that way, when thinking some other woman wants their man. True friends do not treat friends bad. I agree . its just a shame when this happens.Jealousy is a nasty thing.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 03/21/13 06:33 PM
Some people put their best foot forward and watch their manners when first going out. They just can't maintain it because they are simply rotten inside. yeah that is true for sure.

Zdzd657 Joined Wed 03/20/13 Posts: 51	Thu 03/21/13 06:38 PM
Some people put their best foot forward and watch their manners when first going out. They just can't maintain it because they are simply rotten inside. yeah that is true for sure. Another thought: maybe the partner catches the "MINE MINE MINE" super protective disease. And of course if the friend has really fallen emotionally under the influence for that partner, likely that friend will be easily persuaded to shun previous friendships in order to keep partner happy and quiet

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 03/21/13 06:41 PM
Some people put their best foot forward and watch their manners when first going out. They just can't maintain it because they are simply rotten inside. yeah that is true for sure. Another thought: maybe the partner catches the "MINE MINE MINE" super protective disease. And of course if the friend has really fallen emotionally under the influence for that partner, likely that friend will be easily persuaded to shun previous friendships in order to keep partner happy and quiet oh I am sure some people would rather give in to their partners jealousy issues rather than face losing them.

Zdzd657 Joined Wed 03/20/13 Posts: 51	Thu 03/21/13 06:55 PM
Some people put their best foot forward and watch their manners when first going out. They just can't maintain it because they are simply rotten inside. yeah that is true for sure. Another thought: maybe the partner catches the "MINE MINE MINE" super protective disease. And of course if the friend has really fallen emotionally under the influence for that partner, likely that friend will be easily persuaded to shun previous friendships in order to keep partner happy and quiet oh I am sure some people would rather give in to their partners jealousy issues rather than face losing them. Seems selfish

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 03/21/13 06:57 PM
Some people put their best foot forward and watch their manners when first going out. They just can't maintain it because they are simply rotten inside. yeah that is true for sure. Another thought: maybe the partner catches the "MINE MINE MINE" super protective disease. And of course if the friend has really fallen emotionally under the influence for that partner, likely that friend will be easily persuaded to shun previous friendships in order to keep partner happy and quiet oh I am sure some people would rather give in to their partners jealousy issues rather than face losing them. Seems selfish or maybe insecure?

Zdzd657 Joined Wed 03/20/13 Posts: 51	Thu 03/21/13 07:04 PM
Some people put their best foot forward and watch their manners when first going out. They just can't maintain it because they are simply rotten inside. yeah that is true for sure. Another thought: maybe the partner catches the "MINE MINE MINE" super protective disease. And of course if the friend has really fallen emotionally under the influence for that partner, likely that friend will be easily persuaded to shun previous friendships in order to keep partner happy and quiet oh I am sure some people would rather give in to their partners jealousy issues rather than face losing them. Seems selfish or maybe insecure? Or maybe a significant other that makes them secure!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 03/21/13 07:11 PM
Some people put their best foot forward and watch their manners when first going out. They just can't maintain it because they are simply rotten inside. yeah that is true for sure. Another thought: maybe the partner catches the "MINE MINE MINE" super protective disease. And of course if the friend has really fallen emotionally under the influence for that partner, likely that friend will be easily persuaded to shun previous friendships in order to keep partner happy and quiet oh I am sure some people would rather give in to their partners jealousy issues rather than face losing them. Seems selfish or maybe insecure? Or maybe a significant other that makes them secure! Not sure I understand.

Zdzd657 Joined Wed 03/20/13 Posts: 51	Thu 03/21/13 07:47 PM
Or maybe significant other that does not makes them secure**** I can see how that could cause confusion

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 03/21/13 07:57 PM
Or maybe significant other that does not makes them secure**** I can see how that could cause confusion Don't worry I confuse easily lol. This made me think though does insecurity cause Jealousy? I think it does .

Zdzd657 Joined Wed 03/20/13 Posts: 51	Thu 03/21/13 09:51 PM
Or maybe significant other that does not makes them secure**** I can see how that could cause confusion Don't worry I confuse easily lol. This made me think though does insecurity cause Jealousy? I think it does . Oh certainly. Definitely agree... Good example: unfaithful partners Honestly which I tend to veer away from insecure and jealous women

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Fri 03/22/13 07:16 AM
Well I honestly feel everybody feels jealous or insecure at some point in their lives. I also believe some people are perceived to be jealous when all they really want is reassurance or to know where they stand with somebody. I know this to be true cause it happened to me.