Naughty Santa!...Cookie?

Definitely on the Naughty one ;-)

Of course sex is important this over 50 forum not over 90 I still feel as I did when around 30 years old an always will.

Care to elaborate?...

I eat, I sleep, I breath and it still rises!! So Yes!! Just don't build any Relationship around that!!!

You are so freaking right! You nailed it when you explained about every type of intimacy.

this is the thing i go through i love sex but women my age or older dont seem to want it as much

It must get worse as you grow older, find ones your age do but my age do not. Got a little over 10 on you.

that is very true but it is very fun also

I'm 62 and love sex, except its finding a guy who can still perform -
they seem to be all talk and no action, if you get the meaning

its not the be and end all of a relationship, 50-50 I would say, but a cuddle and tender kisses often shared are definately welcomed, everyone needs the closeness sometime

I think that sex and the desire for it is a very personal and individual thing - probably different for all of us. I recall going through my teen years with a pretty much constant "boner". As we age however, there is no doubt that the hormones subside and we go through declining stages of activity in the libido. For guys, there is the added complication of "performance anxiety" - if we meet the right lady, can we still leave her smiling? Of course, there are also those "little blue pills" for special occasions.

If i needed (that little blue pill) i would push that little black button!!(DELETE PROFILE) Not any use lying to anyone that a complete relationship is wanted!! Its not fair to want something you can't give the other!! Guess i forgot that this is a Fantasy Site, Not Reality?

i hope these folks told you how ridiculous your question was/is.
you're too old to ask stupid *** questions like that imho.

if you are really so ignorant, why does it matter to you anyway. do you want to boink an older woman, and lack the balls to deal with her lol?

Sex after 50? oh ya.

hi, im 58 and still get rock hard, none of this limpfish stuff, sex is for pleasure, your partners pleasure, its the deepest form of giving and trust, to expose our whole being to another is a blessed union, i have been divorced for 20 years and i havent made love in all that time, havent masturbated for years, my point is, sex for over 50s isnt really a big issue, though it would be nice...lol

I think you are right that it's something we all need

Holy googly moogly , I'm gonna be 50 in two more years . If no sex is what 50 is , I am NOT going there ... Y'all have fun with that whole no sex thing ...

LOL don't worry, it is in the mind and the body follows. Just be healthy.

Sex is not necessary to live. But it is one of the closest forms of intamacy we can share. I enjoy a healthy sexdrive.

I have run in to the exact same thing. Part of western religious ideology that sex is bad except to make babies with. Sort of ridiculous to think that way to me but it is ingrained at such a young age and hard to overcome. Knee jerk reactions to mentioning sex. Many older women still have a thought process that sex is something "sex workers" do, not a good christian woman. Like I said, very ridiculous, restrictive thinking but very prevalent in older women from a more rigid time.