Topic: Do u think Sex is necessary for this age....
ALBYAK's photo
Sun 06/28/15 09:15 PM

I want to enjoy sex for as long as my body will allow. I don't think age should be a factor. It gets on my last nerve, that lots of newspaper articles, like to portray anyone over fifty as fragile. I know some of the most athletic fifty-somethings you'll ever meet.


At 65 I am more sexually active and certainly more fit than at 45:thumbsup: amazing what exercise and a gym will do for your body and sex drivebigsmile

OK, A little Viagra also :thumbsup: modern medicine gets a little credit alsoblushing

Searching_4_You's photo
Mon 06/29/15 10:10 AM

Personally? I crave it. I want to continue having a healthy sex life for as long as possible. Having said that, I will note that a lot of different things can constitute "sex", depending on the variable and possibly changing abilities of the partners involved. As far as I'm concerned, at it's core sex is more a matter of intent than of mechanics, in that it is possible to share pleasure by multiple avenues.

Sometimes, people just have to get creative. :smile:


ViaMusica --- You hit the proverbial nail right on the head. Great post.

RDLADYBUG58's photo
Thu 07/09/15 08:37 PM
I totally agree, as long as I'm breathing I will always want it....

vlady6's photo
Thu 07/09/15 09:33 PM
i like your attitude.

no photo
Fri 07/10/15 02:02 AM

Do u still fill like having SEX.....


your 40?, you make it sound like 40 - 50 is near death

bibarnes's photo
Sat 07/11/15 03:17 PM
I am 72 and still able and willing. Minor problem, is no partner. I live in the Lake Chapala region of Mexico and expat women complain that the only men they can meet are married, gay, or going back to the states next Thursday. Trying to get to meet for coffee is damn near impossible, figure that one out.

Sex would be great but, so would coffee and a walk or a sightseeing trip someplace close or not. A movie, dinner, lunch,,,breakfast :-).

Well the last checkup said I had a 40 year old heart and a 60 year old right knee. Gotta be careful to not twist it. All my pieces parts work well, not great like when I was 30 but well enough that I don't have a pharmacy in my bathroom.

Bottom line is that talking about sex should not be a big taboo. It shouldn't be the first conversation either or it might be the last.

no photo
Sat 07/11/15 05:52 PM

I am 72 and still able and willing. Minor problem, is no partner. I live in the Lake Chapala region of Mexico and expat women complain that the only men they can meet are married, gay, or going back to the states next Thursday. Trying to get to meet for coffee is damn near impossible, figure that one out.

Sex would be great but, so would coffee and a walk or a sightseeing trip someplace close or not. A movie, dinner, lunch,,,breakfast :-).

Well the last checkup said I had a 40 year old heart and a 60 year old right knee. Gotta be careful to not twist it. All my pieces parts work well, not great like when I was 30 but well enough that I don't have a pharmacy in my bathroom.

Bottom line is that talking about sex should not be a big taboo. It shouldn't be the first conversation either or it might be the last.

no photo
Sat 07/11/15 05:52 PM
Your absolutely correct :wink:

soufiehere's photo
Sat 07/11/15 07:24 PM

I am 72 and still able and willing. Minor problem, is no partner. I live in the Lake Chapala region of Mexico and expat women complain that the only men they can meet are married, gay, or going back to the states next Thursday. Trying to get to meet for coffee is damn near impossible, figure that one out.

Sex would be great but, so would coffee and a walk or a sightseeing trip someplace close or not. A movie, dinner, lunch,,,breakfast :-).

Well the last checkup said I had a 40 year old heart and a 60 year old right knee. Gotta be careful to not twist it. All my pieces parts work well, not great like when I was 30 but well enough that I don't have a pharmacy in my bathroom.

Bottom line is that talking about sex should not be a big taboo. It shouldn't be the first conversation either or it might be the last.

I got a hoot out of this :-)
Simple, honest, on point.

Kristine's photo
Sat 07/11/15 08:16 PM
I love sex,I cannot imagine not having it even if it means getting creative.

SitkaRains's photo
Sat 07/11/15 08:20 PM

Do u still fill like having SEX.....


Why yes I do, and I pray to God I still want to til the day I die....
And I also pray my guy does too...blushing

panchovanilla's photo
Sat 07/11/15 08:23 PM
Your prayers have been answered, Miss Rains.happy :banana:

SitkaRains's photo
Sat 07/11/15 08:30 PM

Your prayers have been answered, Miss Rains.happy :banana:

Oh thank God for that one and as soon as I can get to my knees I will be sayign prayers of thanks sexy man

Ayla59's photo
Sat 07/18/15 08:58 AM
What a pointless question!.. Who wouldn't want the endorphins! if for nothing else, there is plenty sheer physical/medical reasons why aging (drying) women, but men alike REALLY should continue their sex life until they die.. BUT as someone so eloquently put it here, to be willing and able and ACTUALLY finding someone to DO IT with is two different ball games entirely... Particularly if MAKING LOVE is in question.. not just having sex, but either way...
I think it's sadly so true that we all need at least TWO HUGS a day just to survive, how many did you get today? explode

 Maria195's photo
Sat 07/18/15 10:24 AM
Are you kidding me? Of course we all need SEX love :banana:

TMommy's photo
Sat 07/18/15 01:38 PM
necessary? must not be..hahaha

it is the icing on the cake

but the cake is the substance
the conversation, the companionship, the compassion, understanding..

klippes's photo
Sat 07/18/15 05:20 PM
too bad you are not closer to dallas, texas, you have one of the NICEST smiles I have seen lately.
The smile of a woman is the FIRST thing I notice

TMommy's photo
Sat 07/18/15 08:38 PM
I flew in to Dallas airport once
It was much more wide open and spread out then what I was expecting
but ooooh man was it hot
I was there in late august of last year
whew good thing there was a pool

oh and if that compliment was directed my way? thank you happy

Cruella64's photo
Tue 07/21/15 09:56 AM
Sex is a basic need maslowe's hierarchy of human needs

smokintiki's photo
Tue 07/21/15 10:59 AM
hurray,i agree.i came out of a longterm relationship at 50 so ive just began the second half of my life,hoping it can be as good or better than the first.have a great day. ;)