I'm a laid back easy going, smart, eclectic, non-sheeple type, friendly, loyal, honest, frank, and I don't bs people. Humans are not dreams to fulfill our desires, we are here to share/care, love, compromise, etc. etc. When i inner needs are met, the human we are dealing with will either fit or not The superficial stuff that might be included is just gravy you dig. Some women, and men get that really twisted. However, The gravy should not be looked upon as the main course though; regardless of how wonderful it may actually be. imho of course I'm not superficial, and won't tolerate those who are. liars will be ferreted out soon enough. I have no problems sharing my feelings or communicating easily. I like to show affection in public too. I need a good legit women that i find attractive both mentally/mindset wise, as well as physically too.