It couldn't be said better. Live without sex is a living death. Our creator provided us with nerves and sensors to perceive pleasure because we were made in HIS image. Pleasure lead us to "Peace", relaxation and balance, and that is a state of the enjoyment way of living.

that's true

A living death? Are you serious? LOL People do indeed live a happy life without sex. I wonder what most people would do if their partner that they loved could no longer provide them sex? Do you trade them in for a better model? Have you heard of inner peace. Finding inner peace has nothing to do with sex. There is a reason that as we age that we can no longer procreate and yes people do lose interest in sex. As I stated before; I know of a few couples that simply don't have sex anymore but dearly love each other and have been married for over 25 years.

WOW. This is a long running thread, that is answered in 4 words.



DIFFERENT STROKES ---DIFFERENT FOLKS


I enjoy sex. I will not die if I don't have sex.

I KNOW a person can have a heart attack, that kills them, WHILE having sex.


Those are the facts. So be nice to each other & respect the opinions of others.

Opinion of an old sage.

Seriously. You are so wise. Not necessary but hopefully some day I will have the opportunity again. For me there has to be more than just a physical connection.

I agree with you 100 %

Very interesting thread!

And well said old sage, different stroke for different folks.

Sex is an activity. You won't die if you don't do it.

But it does (usually) involve two. So if you're in a relationship, and one feels is important but not the other, then you need to resolve it. Or learn to take care of your needs solo, lol.

But as a polling question, yes, I do think sex is important still. But I think I am more selective nowadays about the when and who.

I'm completely turned off of sex such as it is presented in forums like this and decided some years ago to end my sexual life.

The only exception would be related to Kundalini and other energies that do not emphasize body parts.

hi there

only in waves. Long periods of not even thinking about it, short periods of obsessively thinking of it. Its like athletic pain though, you just push through it and move on with life.

well, I do anyhow,,

its not really a necessity, its something our culture and media brainwashes into our definition of existence,, but no person has died from not having it(though many have died who had to have it)

yes I think woman need to have sex, just as much as a man, perhaps not like we used to do it when we were young but still need to do it. The physical and emotional need is always there. Better when love is involved not just in the act of sex

My Girl and I are soon to Be 51 and sex is very much a healthy part of our relationship.... Cant keep our hands off each other....

I'm having a hard time imagining feeling like I don't want to have sex. I'm always surprised at how many men in this age bracket are either not interested or not able.

I crave intimacy and I'm glad that I never have to give it up, but I should also point out that intimacy for me is more than just the sex act...

Are you kidding me? Some of my Friends (in their 40) already talking about "viagra"? One man in his 90s is getting along fine without Viagara! Its the healthiest pulmonary exercise known! Burns more calories than jogging! With the right person (very enjoyable). If you die at least you're happy! Pisses the Undertaker off too!! Doooooooooing !

Are you kidding me? Some of my Friends (in their 40) already talking about "viagra"? One man in his 90s is getting along fine without Viagara! Its the healthiest pulmonary exercise known! Burns more calories than jogging! With the right person (very enjoyable). If you die at least you're happy! Pisses the Undertaker off too!! Doooooooooing !


Sorry to disappoint you but Myth: Sex burns tons of calories
If you're thinking you can trade the gym for the bed, not so fast. The average romp burns off a measly 21 calories, according to a recent study published in the New England Journal of Medicine. So unless you have the time (or, let's be real—the interest) to get busy multiple times throughout the day, stick to the gym if you’re serious about burning calories.

Worth repeating...

I think you need intimacy in a relationship, whether it's sex or just holding hands. I know there's a hell of a difference there ;) but I think being tactile strengthens a relationship.

As people have said you would die without it, but it's fun while it happens

((((WARNING)))
This subject may p i s s off those here for just the Forums! But- my eyes work,i don't tap my way while walking.
My Heart beats without artificial stimulation!
My ankles,knees,hips work,so i walk!!
A wave at people so arms good!
Just because my D--- works doesn't mean i want to try it on everyone here!! But it does and until the day i (loose it) i still wish to enjoy all the aspects of a relationship and everything involved!! Not your cup of tea then move on! I can Rock Alone very comfortably! Just Saying!! And lets face it ; that (Marriage License) didn't mean as much to the one you were with as it did to you, Or you wouldn't be Here!

Hi Santa, did you get my letter? ...Santa, I think you mean WOULDN'T die without it....and are you sure about that?

Sorry about the spelling & yes Leigh, I got your letter & I'm still blushing now!

Not sure which list to put you on but could easily be bribed LOL